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[the-memedaddy]

meirl

[shittynewyorkercartooncaptions]

[kingofthehillcaps]

[intergalacticsuperstar]

I’m obsessed with these pictures of the Indianapolis Colts Cheerleaders wearing their real world professional work attire as their cheer uniforms

[dankmemeuniversity]

[catscenter]

[just-shower-thoughts]

Walking down the stairs is just breaking a big fall into lots of little ones

[brutereason]

I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.

[tulipfem]

This is really, REALLY well put.

[mindthelspace]

This is basically how I feel about it. I like children. I’m reasonably good at caring for children for limited periods of time. I might even end up working with children. But I’d never have children myself unless I was 100% certain that that was what I wanted, 100% willing to make the necessary lifestyle changes, AND financially and psychologically stable enough to care for a child. Anything else would be unfair on both me and my son/daughter. 

I honestly think we should be working towards a society where the only people who have kids are the people who really, truly want them. 

[ruinedchildhood]

[blackdenimjeans3]

Why do gays say skinny and legend and "she did that" "she's shaking, found jobless" like i'm so lost lol

to cope

[bisexualwario]

[fuckmountain2-deactivated202204]

me n the boys 

[wellillbedamned]

I’m phobic

[wellillbedamned]

Just scared

[jasper-rolls]

[tinderventure]

Bing Bang Boom

[xbox-nun]

The other day I politely returned the question “how are you doing?” at a driver who asked the same of me, and he replied “oh, you know, same soup just reheated” and I can’t stop thinking about that

[slavery]

[angelurr]

[killowave]