I recently got wind of something going on involving a minor possibly being groomed, and regardless of what stand you have, we need to help them.
1. Elise, the mod in question, is 13 years old. She is saying that her caretaker is 28. If this was a teacher she saw at school that she could rely on, and that’s that, then this wouldn’t be an issue. But this is a personal relationship she is conveying, meaning they talk over texting/discord/tumblr, etc.
2. Seeing as this person possibly has control over her, and the fact that she mentions a few times that he will get angry at her if she tells others who she is, this further suggests that this is someone who is grooming her. Especially since this seems to be like dd/lg stuff going on here. I’m not here to talk about whether that kink is good or bad, but you cannot de-sexualize a kink, and especially you cannot be exposing that to a minor!
3. Even if they could somehow prove this wasn’t some sort of role similar to dd/lg, age regression is still harmful and should not be endorsed, speaking from a mental health standpoint. And the undertones make it sketchy at best.
4. The fact that he does not want her to tell means that yes, he knows he is doing something wrong and wants to do it anyways - and that is truly disgusting. He is praying on a girl who is already traumatized and using that to his advantage.
5. Even if all of this is debunked and they’re only speaking mutually? Still sketchy! I understand her talking to teenagers online, but someone over 30? No! That is not okay. That’s sketchy!
This is obviously causing her a great deal of stress, seeing as she has legitimately said she would kill herself.
Whoever did this, shipper or not - please reevaluate what you’re doing. You should take threats like this seriously!
However, I put this here to prove that they did make suicidal threats.
All in all, this is a horrible situation. I don’t know elise’s main blog, but if someone could share and possibly tell me what blog she has, please please please go and help her. Sadly, seeing as the lines are sketchy, I do not think this can be reported yet. But please do try and help this girl realize she is being groomed.
Elise, if you manage to read this, I want you to know that this is similar to how I was groomed, so let me tell you that yes, this is grooming. I am not making this to “call you out” or shame you. I just want to make sure you are okay, and so others can make sure you are okay too. This is nothing to be ashamed of on your end, you do not know any better, especially when you are being manipulated.
Shippers and antis alike, again, please work together for something that is harming an actual minor. This isn’t about fictional characters anymore. A girl might be at risk for harassment.
I pray to G-d almighty that He makes sure Elise is safe and can get out of this relationship.
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