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its natural to have assumptions. Speaking them aloud however may curse you, so be wary.

#i want to tell kids that its a curse #idk why #the ass of u and me thing is getting old #lets freshen it up again #dont say things without proof or youre putting a curse on yourself #its what it feels like lol #stoner thoughts

Hot take, but I genuinely don’t understand the modern demonization of using “but” when apologizing or talking something out.

Do people use it in negative connotation at times? Yeah, ofc. In 90% of my actual experiences though, it’s used more often than not as a vehicle to explain the mindset someone had that led to the argument, not to make up bullshit to get away with it. If I want a deeper understanding of someone so that a similar argument doesn’t happen again, it’s integral to take in and understand that mindset whether it was right or wrong. It also lets me know if i might also be accidentally contributing to the problem.

Otherwise it becomes a blind apology that validates one side, but may leave the other side still unresolved, since in most cases, conflicts aren't one sided. This opens up potential to reasonably “morally” justify downplaying the other parties explanation for their side of the experience, because when a person naturally uses “but” (as people do with filler words), the other party will usually immediately roll their eyes and mentally dismiss it at least a little because of the normalization of that mindset. People naturally use filler words when stressed (if they don't already in normal conversation).

I feel like its a good contribution to the plague of hyper-individualism at large.

Like yeah, if you're hearing straight bullshit, call it out, but if everyone generally agrees that apologies come from actions and not words, why do we police the words so much? Just let people communicate ffs. Random viral advice online is not a one-size-fits-all solution to every difficult conversation you're going to have in life.

#sorry im autistic and im tired of my abusers using this mindset against me when i try to explain myself for reacting to abuse #my mom rolled her eyes at me yesterday when i was explaining that i was reacting to her yelling at me and how it sent me into fight/flight #the argument was resolved but my side felt extremely downplayed JUST because i said “but” before explaining my side #this happens much more often imo than hearing people follow it up with an actual excuse #You just want to feel validated without learning/growing from it yourself #Even if you were in the right there's still always room for both parties to grow from an experience #if the offending party wants things to be better they will put in the effort #but both sides need to understand each other for any real substantial growth #hot take #unpopular opinion #ranting #rant post #rant #emotional abuse #opinion

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Doctor Who AU where Mr. Ring-a-Ding is replaced with Mr. Blobby

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Hmmm…

#omfg #he's petrifying #i love it lmfao #doctor who #reblog #AAAAAAAAAA

everybody hated wolves until someone pulled off a HTTYD with one, and now i own like 100

#dog domestication be like #dog #dogs #posting from my cave wall #shitposting #shitpost

I used to know a woman named Belle who had supposedly met a demon once.

It was this man she talked to at the bar when she was at her lowest. she lost everything, and it was gonna take some miracle to pick her life back up. This supposed demon gave her a mysterious box, and said it was a miracle invention that would solve any problem she came across. Having nothing left to lose, she happily took it home.

Later that night, her sink was overflowing, and she remembered the box the man had given her. she curiously pushed the button on it, and miraculously, the sink was instantly fixed! it truly was a miracle gadget! not wanting to hoard it to herself, she generously took it to town to help as many people as she could (and make some money). Eventually, she was the face of the town! All her debts were paid off and she lived a life of luxury and comfort due to this mysterious little box.

eventually, on her death bed, she said her goodbyes to her loved ones and all the others who's lives she had impacted. At the end of the day, after everyone had gone, she lay there watching the most beautiful sunset she had ever seen in her window. The figure of a man quietly walked in. She squinted at him, slowly gathering the image in front of her. Assuming the sunset was blinding her, the man leaned in closer, but before he could say anything, she screamed "A STRANGER!!!" and died of fright.

Belphegor.

#joke #long joke #plz laugh lmao #i locked in on this lmao #stoner thoughts #belphegor #demons

people be talkin about their "Mall World"s, but mine is a library mansion with long dead end hallways and confusing layout, sectioned into zones that are either barren, haunted, or inhabited by old-timey frog people who want me dead.

#i go there unwillingly every few nights #its always a special kind of liminal yet tastefully regal hell #last night i was running from the frog people #theyre like #in the middle zones right in front of the study that houses the glass elevator that goes to the decrepit moldy second floor #mall world #mallworld

If you give a deer a peanut

He Eat

#he eat #I am the deer #fucking love peanuts

Doctor Who AU where Mr. Ring-a-Ding is replaced with Mr. Blobby

#doctor who #doctorwho #i dont watch the show but i love that evil little cartoon man #but what if #mr blobby #lux imperator #mr ring a ding

the more i mature, the more i understand that Fenrir probably would have never been the killer of the Gods if they had just treated him right instead of creating a self-fulfilling prophecy for their deaths.

#a part of me feels like this is relevant in society rn #when you lash out in fear for things that havent even been considered yet #odds are that youre actually creating the building blocks that create that scenario #idk #ik its typically frowned on but i worship fenrir idc anymore #i might be secerely downplaying the story idk #but if i was automatically assumed to be evil then bound to a rock against my will id be pissed too

me:

the brontosaurus head that haunts my nightmares:

#eraserhead #eraserhead baby #shitposting #shitpost #stoner thoughts

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Imagining the liminal mix of nostalgia and wonderment for witnessing the advancement and differences over the years of gradeschool classroom environments, and remembering being in those grades as a kid and reminiscing if i were ever to enter one again for whatever reason.

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what even does this mean @ past me

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IT MEANS I WANT TO SEE MY CHILDHOOD CLASSROOM AGAIN, BC IM A BIG BABY LOSER

#found this in my drafts

thinking about Wonka Donutz

#shitposting #shitpost #stoner thoughts #wonka #willy wonka #i dont remember what they tasted like at all #just that i REALLY loved them

Hangnail

On my fingers, little grenades

Hiding in the corner, a serration

I pull the tip with my teeth

Slipping away from the edges of my skin

Like pulling the pin

While there is no explosion

There is still blood

#i wrote this at 2am after i pulled a hangnail #it always hurts #and feels like im pulling a grenade pin #so a little poem #poem #poetry #original poem #tw blood #grenade

huh?

inhaling like im going to say something and then deciding not to but now the room is weird because i just took a big audible mouth breath for nothing

#all the fuckin time #shitposting #shitpost

When you're talking to your pets and mention something you own, do you refer to it as just your item or as both of your item? (EX. "what are you doing on MY table?!" vs. "what are you doing on OUR table?!")

Yes! My pet owns everything I own!

No! They can get their own shit!

Voting ended onJan 30, 2024

#shitposting #shitpost #stoner thoughts #shower thoughts

idk if the rest of my friend group feels the same but in my brain, we're like a little platonic polycule.

#shitposting #shitpost #stoner thoughts

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