Me In The Near Future
As I getting older, the more I saw, witness, and experience a lot of things in life, the more I become matured when it comes to think on what kind of life I want in the future, especially when it comes in having my own family. I actually now have fear or scared to enter into a romantic relationship even if I don’t have one since then, because as I saw a lot of people’s relationship that were broken especially in my mother’s side, I had fear to have a romantic relationship and commit in the future. It seems like I don’t have trust to the guys or boys now a days, because even my Tito who’ve been faithful and kind to my Tita before (which we think he will never cheat to my Tita because we saw that he is so kind, silent person, and really loves his family, but those thought of us was all wrong). I also witnessed how broken my friends today because their husbands/boyfriends cheated on them as well. That’s why I don’t know if I would be happy and lucky to enter into a romantic relationship, but if I find a man just like my father (which is very faithful to my mother, family first before anything else, with a stance, have plans for his family and really responsible man), maybe I would be grateful to commit with my future boyfriend in the future.
If I would have an opportunity to meet a man just like my father or like my ideal man, I planned to have my own family and commit with him maybe in the age of 28 to 30, because I would like to build my own career first so that if there’s a problem that would happen in our relationship in the future, at least I already built my own career for myself and for my future kids. However, when it comes in having kids I planned to have 3 to 5 kids, because the more the merrier.
The job that I planned to land in the future, a job that even if I weren’t paid which I would be still willing to do was to become an adviser and motivator to those people who have lost hope of living and surviving in this wicked world. Also, I would be grateful to ride or drive an airplane even if I’m not paid, because traveling the world was one of my biggest dream, and riding or driving an airplane to different destination was actually a big gift, bonus, and satisfaction for me.
When the time comes that I’m going to retire, I think I would be more focused on visiting or managing my own farms or lands during that time, because I planned also that when I have a great source of income in my future professional career I want to spend my money to buy a lot of lands where I could plant a lot of various crops or plants as what my father did today, and so that I have something to inherit to my kids in the future.
“Build your own career for your brighter future! Don’t rely your future to the person who already have a good career”













