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IT’S HALLOWEEN TIME TO GET SPOOKY

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I T S T H E M I D D L E O F J U N E

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I T I S H A L L O W E E N T I M E T O G E T S P O O K Y

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ok who the fuck got this on my dash it’s still june

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get spooky

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how does this appear every june

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rainbow skeletons, next question

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The sky is perfect

You’re beautiful

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I remember how throughout middle school - high school there was so much pressure around to be dating someone, and if you weren’t, you were a loser or deemed unattractive. Your relationship status was like a social status, and if you’ve never been in one, you’re inexperienced and missing out.

I always thought to myself, what about the work I put into my personal interests? What about the friends I build deep connections with? What about me just being capable of taking care of myself? I feel like there was a lack of emphasis of being your own self and not giving a shit about what other people are doing back in middle school / high school.

While some people may think it’s important to have had previous relationship experiences before (which yeah, it works for some people that way), there’s also nothing wrong with investing that time in yourself and your friendships, and placing yourself first ✌🏻

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This is SO important <3 Find joy for and with yourself before feeling obligated to search for it with someone else.

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As someone who wasn’t in a serious or happy relationship until their late twenties I cannot reblog this enough. Being happy by yourself makes you an indecent human who knows how to be happy alone. It doesn’t mean you don’t know how to be happy together when or if the right one comes along.

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I started dating my fiance when I was 19. He was my first ever boyfriend, my first real date, my first kiss. We’re getting married in less than a month. It’s okay if you don’t date when you’re younger. It’s okay if you don’t date at ALL. Dating is not and should not be the be all end all of your life, and I (especially as a aspec person) will fight anyone on your behalf who says otherwise.