Your descendant is the opposite of your ascendant. The descendant is the completion of the ascendant. It shows what you unconsciously crave for in a relationship, how you aspire to be and on which level you can personally develop the most. Basically, the descendant reflects characteristics that you not always possess but which another person is able to provide you with and thus to make you feel happy and complete.
♡ Your Ascendant (1st House) ⇆ Your Descendant (7th House)
wants a wholehearted relationship
must be able to adapt otherwise relationship won’t last
true, steady partnership may come late
wants fun partners, with no time pressure for developing intimacy
needs to develop diplomacy and readiness to compromise
wishes for independence and self-determination but also for someone to reflect, complete and soothe one’s doing
wants harmony but is also good by oneself
can’t always be understood by others
strongly torn between adapting to partner and doing own will
easily bored if nothing scandalous is happening
environment provides challenges and ideas
feels easily personally attacked or excluded and thus challenged; counters by speaking up offensively
sometimes questioned by partner, this leads to closing oneself up and being misinterpreted
energetic and in love with life
passionate and able to enjoy things
doesn’t like people to criticize what is loved
kind and likes to indulge loved ones
partner is loved unconditionally, wholesome and never-ending but also in a possessive way
if deeply hurt, will never forgive
believes in destiny, a human’s dark side
prone to losing oneself in emotional pseudo-realities
needs courage and utter reassurance before entering a relationship
search for security and durability, trust and mental connection
the idea of losing something scares
hates being ruled, this would mean a violation of honour
needs to risk a certain amount of flexibility, otherwise no development
supremely versatile, but stuck in mind restriction
needs and gives independence and space
mental input, initiative and easygoingness crucial otherwise stagnation
partner could be best friend
immune to potential lovers, very loyal
can’t cope with emotional overload in a relationship
great hopes and desires, needs galore and soulfulness
partner is considered the ultimate safe haven
if less appealing traits are discovered in partner, great disappointment
prone to only plan for the future and forget the now
wants to discover new ways in a relationship and to get the best out of each other
life is there to be improved, ready to learn and teach
finds it unfair to leave partner behind
expects too much and is thus disillusioned frequently
high moral and sense of reality obstructs acting out one’s desired temper
has troubles expressing affection verbally
needs to be completely convinced of another person before getting involved
when committed to someone, it’ll be forever
sometimes duty overshadows emotional side
if hurt, needs time to be convinced of something new
needs maturity and down-to-earthness
finds reassurance in set routines
money planner; never wastes anything unconsidered
self-confidence comes naturally, doesn’t need anbody’s ‘approval’
realistic way of solving problems
people with highly emotional ways of expression are considered unpleasant and annoying
likes to have a partner with dignity and savvy
partner should reflect a kind of reassuring character, if one should ever lose control
matures over the time and becomes more open to the concept of emotional love
seeks idealistic opposite
needs challenge and strong characters around
self-realisation must not be obstructed
sensitive towards disappointments
tries to act like being protected by a shell when meeting new people (to not get hurt)
sometimes considered flirty, but actually just trying to make people laugh
instantly turned off by ‘main-streamers’, needs otherness
likes to give freedom but won’t tolerate being ignored or neglected
won’t get along with very stable and never-changing people
may be more experimental before settling for ‘the One’
may be afraid of ending up alone
evolution by lots of experiences is natural here
needs true emotion and total devotion in partnerships
finds it difficult to accept that ideals aren’t always realistic to achieve
weakness for messed up people who can’t really handle life
very much ranging between a very realistic outlook on life and the complete loss in dreams and desires
sometimes blinded by harsh waves of emotional flooding
may often feel indefinable and therefore alone or untrue
sacrifice compensates unanswered feelings, but sacrificing oneself for someone doesn’t ensure gratitude by this person
needs to avoid becoming neither the victim nor the saviour
finding balance highest priority
partner doesn’t necessarily have to have the same twisted mind if he is thouroughly loving and good
best match: relationship with equally giving partner, doing it out of love and respect
partnership provides development of personality
can’t decide between wanting to lead the relationship or to adapt for peace’s sake
partner should be an active person who prevents from boredom
needs challenging people but also harmony
little teasing games always welcome
suspense and calmness hold each other’s balance
intrigued by gallant and graceful people
harmony and challenge not always achievable, therefore feels restlessly dissatisfied from time to time (conflict danger!)
should gain insight out of complicated times
work is a welcome distraction
needs to accept own fluctuating personality
disappointments are not taken well
old plans are abandoned very quickly
craves depth and won’t do anything half-heartedly
partnerships are desired to be for the long-term
counterpart is considered spinning point when it comes to passion, happiness and enjoyment
needs to be careful not to sink into jealousy
love aspects: happy and careless but also serious and deeply binding
wants the definite as well as the unknown
feels often disappointed by humanity
affectionate and providing for those considered worth it
doesn’t show it but wants sexual challenge
steady partnership gives feeling of security and confidence
needs time to adapt to different aspects of partnerships and what they bring along
in the end very self-sacrifizing
open-minded and free when it comes to new relations
partnership needs to be free and mutual
excitement comes with interesting fodder for conversations
partner should provide mental input, needs to be approving of vividness and cockiness
nimble and therefore fond of being attention center (not to be confused with vanity), likes to leave a good impression
reassured by courteous behaviour
lots of idols and influenced by world changers
super drawn to funny and intelligent people, knowledge is the holy grail
profound feelings are considered private matter, doesn’t like the feeling of being sounded out
light communication is preferred over deep topics; this might depress and discomfort and bewilder
doesn’t like to be too mysterious, partner should be of clear shape à la what you see is what you get
loves movement, exchange, meeting friends, and expedition tours; needs someone who accompanies all this
objective and level-headed in daily routines
when it comes to love searches tenderness, security and comfort
tends to self-restraint and self-adjusting for partner’s benefit
when sure of counterparts full commitment total abondonment of reluctance
deeply interested in partner’s well-being; emotional perception
needs to pay attention not to care too much about things that don’t even concern
feels quickly personally attacked, thus answers hastily harsh and repellent
doesn’t show but needs plenty of alone time (not to be misinterpreted as rejection!)
needs someone who understands and to whom one doesn’t have to explain oneself; otherwise lonesomeness bound to occur
wants to steer things into the right direction; not one for spontaneous undertakings
should learn that life cannot be planned entirely
if mature and accepting, partnership inevitably trusting, beautiful and for the long-term
wants to be proud of relationship
needs much freedom, but gives equally as much
ascendant may make seem cold but partner will get to the true core of warmth
strong and will seldomly will subordinate unless there’s a sensible reason
enjoys partnership as the thing worthiest to aspire
tends to ignore when it comes to beef (partner should handle this by doing the same; this leads to understanding no one can without the other)
loves people equally intelligent and strong
total turn-off: boring people who go mainstream
total turn-on: unusual hobbies and people who just do
probably considered by others as the flamboyant and peculiar couple
needs constant mental enrichment
will only risk things together with someone who provides courageous backup
times when everything is done together take turns with solitude (recharging)
very creative but lacks self-discipline
excellent match would be someone who loves for the dreamy element but will provide a healthy amount of realism
tends to be too sensitive and thus withdrawal; partner ideally gets these little quirks and knows how to counter
afraid to ‘impose’ emotions on anyone
expert in human nature; needs contact and (mental) exchange
is happy when there’s need to focus on a task, environment etc.
hates being dictated anything because too polite to decline
needs to learn to take matters into own hand
ideal partner shows how and when to stand up for oneself (in a subtle manner of course and with genuine intention)
antenna for fake people and their fake intentions and fake smiles
needs someone who’s strong for oneself and won’t hesitate to speak the truth, they would complement each other very well
must learn to be enough for oneself (!) because here we have a great human being if there ever was one
