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[mzgc003]

Some people are born to walk a solo path in life. I suppose I am one of them.

[kevingetem]

[psychofactz]

Qualities of a Great Person

1. They are someone who demonstrates integrity – A person is said to have integrity if what they say and what they do are rooted in the same set of core values.

2. They don’t speak badly of others – If you speak badly about others to a friend, the chances are you’ll also speak badly about them. Hence, they are likely to be hesitant in what they share with you.

3. They are positive and optimistic – This doesn’t mean burying your head in the sand. It means choosing not to dwell on the negatives, and actively looking for the positives.

4. They make the effort to be helpful – Life is so much sweeter if you’re thoughtful and kind – and we rarely forget someone who’s caring and warm.

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[psychofactz]

20 Things You Don’t Have to Apologize For

You Never Have to Apologize For…

1. Removing someone from your life that repeatedly crosses your boundaries. 

2. Being who we are, and feeling our feelings. 

3. Trusting your instincts, even if you can’t explain it. 

4. We should never apologize if we’re not truly sorry. I don’t believe in apologizing because someone ‘demands’ an apology. 

5. Quality “me” time (taking care of ourselves). 

6. Your opinion—there is no right or wrong opinion, and there’d be a lot fewer arguments if more people could just respect and appreciate different insights. 

7. Standing up for what you believe in. 

8. Living life the way we choose to, regardless of fitting in with other people’s norms. 

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[psychofactz]

How to Cope with Jealous Feelings

1. Understand what jealousy is. It’s a mixture of fear and anger – usually the fear of losing someone who’s important to you, and anger at the person who is “taking over”. Recognise that it’s a destructive and negative emotion - and often nothing good comes out of it.

2. Try and figure out why you’re feeling jealous. Is it related to some past failure that is undermining your ability to trust? Are you feeling anxious and insecure? Do you suffer from low self-esteem or fear of abandonment?

3. Be honest with yourself about how your jealousy affects other people. Do friends or partners always have to justify their actions and thoughts, or always report on where they were, or who they were with? That kind of pressure is destructive in the end and puts a strain on relationships.

4. Find the courage to tackle your feelings. Decide to question your jealousy every time it surfaces. That will enable you to take positive steps to manage your feelings in a healthier and more constructive way. Some possible questions to ask yourself include: “Why am I jealous about this?”; “What exactly is making me feel jealous?”; “What or who am I afraid of losing?”; “Why do I feel so threatened?”

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[nevaehtyler]

this is iconic

[teealwayschillin-deactivated201]

This shit is so hilarious

[destinyrush]

Dude: Do you wanna get married? Girl: Yes. Dude: …..I gotta…..

[theimaginarythoughts-deactivate]

“YOU’RE FAT!! 😢” LMAO homie was hurt

[dicknurse]

actual definition of BDE

[psychofactz]

You're not everyone's cup of tea

The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, no matter what you try, will simply not like you. But the world is also filled with those who will love you fiercely. The ones who love you: they are your people

Don’t waste your finite time and heart trying to convince the people who aren’t your people that you have value. They will miss it completely. They won’t buy what you are selling. Don’t try to convince them to walk your path with you because you will only waste your time and your emotional good health. You are not for them and they are not for you. You are not their cup of tea and they are not yours.

Politely wave them along and you move away as well. Seek to share your path with those who recognize and appreciate your gifts, who you are. Be who you are.

You are not everyone’s cup of tea and that is OK.

[mzgc003]

We each only understand our own side to the story

[aidashakur]

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[blackandmildwithgod]

If you scroll pass this you don’t got ten dollars

[apollonne-deactivated20201016]

Need my $10

[apollonne-deactivated20201016]

Guys i literally just got tipped $10 at work

[miles-b-morales-deactivated2026]

I aint risking it.

[hiscutewittlekitty-deactivated2]

10 10 10

[apocalyptotyler]

Always reblog money cat

[a-wannabe-faerie-in-converse]

[positive-mh-recovery]

okay so i feel like i need help? i've been overthinking too much lately even over small things, and i find it hard to focus on anything and i have exams right now and everything is so jumbled? sometimes i feel like i'm suffocated and find it hard to breath. idk what to do bc my family aren't very supportive with the whole mental health. what should i do?

I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling anxious around exam time. It’s definitely frustrating when nerves stop you concentrating but it’s also a very common thing to happen when a person feels nervous! 

Instead of talking to your family about mental health, it sounds like you need to have a conversation about exam stress. What you’re experiencing right now is a totally normal human reaction and nothing you’ve said makes me think you have a diagnosable mental illness. 

Some practical steps:

1. Speak to your teachers for practical solutions to your specific exam concerns.

2. Speak to your friends. They’re all feeling the same way!

3. Speak to your parents. They went through this too and they’ve been through other anxiety-provoking situations since. In fact, they’ll probably be happy you’re taking it seriously and want to help you relax so you can do your best.

4. Search ‘exam stress’ on my blog for my previous posts about exams/revision/mental health.

5. During a panic attack take deep slow breaths. Breathe in for the count of five, hold for five, breathe out for five. This reduces your heart rate and slows the rate at which adrenaline (the things causing nausea, shakiness, etc.) is rushing around your body

I hope this helps and good luck with your exams :)

[inritum]

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

[ghostdog07]

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

[j-aws]

yay its back.

[moondoll]

so… I half jokingly reblogged this yesterday cos I thought it was a nice picture… and was like oh wow I only get wishes on birthdays what would I wish for?!?!?! how about gainful employment L0L … and like… I have a job now? That I never applied for? That someone just called me up and said “here, have this”? In a place I really really like? So like… h8ers gonna h8 or something

[studyblr]

you’re gonna graduate, you’re gonna find a job and you’re gonna be happy. life will go on, days will pass. just breathe. it’s going to be okay.

[feistyfrank]

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[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

things that take time:

- loving yourself

- meaningful relationships

- accepting who you are

- recovery

- healing from heartbreak

- changing habits

- improving at a skill

- achieving your goals