just nabby.

Welp.

[satanasaeternus]

Walton Ford

[talisidekick]

I got very loudly deadnamed and misgendered multiple times at the doctors office today. This new receptionist ignored the preferred name on my profile to deadname and misgender me loudly, louder than she talked about anyone else in the waiting room. My birth certificate says "F" nex to sex, my medical documentation reflects this, and I was still deadnamed and misgendered.

And the saving grace was a woman and her child. I wear cat-ears and the child too young to speak loved them, and kept pointing and looking at me. I'm assuming her mother kept saying "yeah, she's wearing cat-ears", "yeah, that woman has cute cat-ears", and the like. Her child was enamoured with them, and that woman didn't misgender me once. And each time my very obviously masculine deadname name came up, she looked upset at the receptionist, but not once did she give me a bad look.

It doesn't have to be much. You don't need to be a knight in shining armour, or in someones face. Simply a quiet refusal to play along with someone elses bullshit is enough. It was enough to turn a trying and tiring moment into something that put a smile on my face and joy back into my life. It wasn't a lot but it mattered to me.

[anti-terf-posts]

official anti terf post

[dicapito2-deactivated20230424]

You know damn well that tweet is anti-black, because if a black man were to write something disrespectful about black women you'd call him a self-hating coon. And the white men and non-black men of color who have the wealth are not usually into black women. We need to stop tearing down each other, it ain't cute.

I'm so sorry you are so cheap anon but luckily this isn't my problem 😊

[nabby2necks]

He made sure it was anonymous cause that opinion was dry, ashy & broke.😂😂

[guccixcucci]

[lazyrenaissanceman]

This is that ignorant type of shit that makes us POC stand back and watch instead of help because if we're not in this together, you're in it for yourself and with that go fuck yourselves.

[guccixcucci]

[dicapito2-deactivated20230424]

" why can't I use the N word? I'm not white"

[niggxrette]

*reminding nb people that even though they face racism, Black people face racism and anti-blackness*

*nb people responding by being anti-black*

[dicapito2-deactivated20230424]

And then they wonder why we say PoC solidarity is a myth.

[uhhh-nunyabidniz-heaux]

Me trying to figure out how that tweet is “ignorant” when I only see facts

[dicapito2-deactivated20230424]

I love how they proved the tweet to be accurate.

[grimnoire87]

This is probably the clearest example that shows why we don't like the term BIPoC.

"This is that ignorant type of shit that makes us POC stand back and watch instead of help because if we're not in this together, you're in it for yourself and with that go fuck yourselves."

This is also why you can't make an identity around being an ally. Too many sit around waiting for black people to say things that they don't like so that they can have an excuse to be antiblack.

[jamaicanblackcastoroil]

Also that person reblogging anything with the n word in it when they’re not Black

[samuraixsliced]

boys in pink is just *chef’s kiss*

[nabby2necks]

Faves.