namuwithhoneybee

Jess , 01 , 🦻 | she/her ; loves aesthetic esp brown ; loves to write, read | making moodboard as a hobby | full time ARMY s. 2016 ; Namu 💙 OT7 | multi-fandom | freelancer | writer @_thekimskimchi_ on wattpad @namuggeo on AO3

[namuwithhoneybee]

Welcome to namuwithhoneybee account! 💖

[ Acc's owner info: late-deafened, 01_liner, Jess, is a bookworm ]

acc theme guide:

(main theme) brown – soft

grey / silver – hard

random color – artists' comebacks

mostly Joon's appreciation posts 🥺 (hashtag: #namjoon appreciation post)

quotes from:

my own ideas

artist's song(s)

[surqrised]

“Sometimes what you’re most afraid of will set you free.”

— Unknown

[thequotespot]

“I learned that being understanding for too long feels a lot like abandonment of yourself.”

[free-my-mindd]

[scorpiotaurus30]

SUGAR ROT

a novel by Ariana Hunter

She was made to please. She came back to destroy.

💄 Perfect lips. 🧬 Synthetic lust. 🔪 A body built to obey.

But Velvet didn’t stay pretty. She didn’t stay silent.

Now she’s Eve — and she’s not saving the world. She’s burning it down.

📂 Stolen archives. ☠️ Weaponized love.

🩸 Scars that don’t fade.

🖤 A past she can’t erase.

🔥 A future built on ruin.

They called her a masterpiece. She became their reckoning.

Some girls dream of escape.

Eve dreams of ruin.

⸻

#sci-fi noir #femslash vibes #biohacked beauty #cyberpunk revenge #dark femme energy #dystopian thriller #weaponized femininity #burn it all down 🔥 #synthetic girls #survivor turned savage #books that bite #SUGARROT #ArianaHunter #shecamebackwrong #girlswhoruin #vengeancearc #readersofTumblr 🖤

Amazon.com

[theambitiouswoman]

If you hang out with a…

Disciplined person, you’ll start respecting structure

Insecure person, you’ll start second-guessing yourself

Adventurous person, you’ll crave new experiences

Victim minded person, you’ll start blaming instead of growing

Abundant person, you’ll stop thinking in limits

Jealous person, you’ll start resenting your blessings

High value woman, you’ll raise your standards without apologo

Chaotic person, you’ll feel like peace is boring

Healed person, you’ll see how emotionally mature life can be

Procrastinator, you’ll normalize delay over progress

Ambitious person, you’ll start dreaming bigger

Judgmental person, you’ll fear being fully yourself

Playful person, you’ll learn to soften and enjoy the moment

Energy is contagious

Habits are contagious

Mindsets are contagious

Doesn’t matter how x you think you are because if you were, you wouldn’t make decisions or choose people that don’t align

You become who you’re around even when you don’t notice it

[theglowsociety]

You learned to be guarded, sarcastic, detached, hyper-independent.

You wore those traits like armor—and somewhere along the line, you started calling it “just who I am.”

But it’s not.

It’s who you became when you didn’t feel safe being soft.

It’s who you had to be when vulnerability felt like danger.

And if you’re not careful, you’ll spend your whole life protecting a version of yourself you don’t even relate to anymore.

That’s not personality. That’s self-preservation dressed up as identity.

Let it go.

Let softness speak.

Let your healed self show up louder than your hurt one.

Let this one marinate. Reblog if you’re done mistaking your defenses for personality.

[wearewatcher]

WEBBY’S UPDATE: Still in 2nd but we’re slipping!

Gonna level with you, Tumblr. I am not above going Social Media Manager rogue on this Webby’s campaign. So here’s my proposal to you:

I’ve got a nice little pack of behind the scenes videos from season 3 of Weird Wonderful World. If we manage to claw our way back into first place and win this thing…it’s all yours. I’ll string it all together and just throw it up here on Tumblr for your enjoyment. 

It’s in your hands now, stewards of Watcher Tumblr. 

[scorpionlafemme]

[theambitiouswoman]

We don’t heal in isolation — we heal in connection. But connection is not the same as codependency. Healing happens in safe, mutual spaces — not in losing ourselves to keep others

The human brain is wired for connection. The limbic system (our emotional center) is highly responsive to social interaction. Experiences of coregulation — where two nervous systems help calm and stabilize each other — are crucial for emotional healing. This is why supportive relationships, therapy and even safe friendships can literally rewire the brain

Dr. Dan Siegel calls this “interpersonal neurobiology” — showing that our brain development and emotional well being are shaped through relational experiences. We are not meant to heal alone. Compassion, presence and being witnessed in our pain activate the prefrontal cortex, helping us regulate emotions and reduce fear responses in the amygdala

Codependency, on the other hand, is not true connection — it’s enmeshment. It involves abandoning your own needs to maintain a relationship, leading to chronic stress and dysregulation. Rather than soothing the nervous system, codependency can keep us in fight or flight, which increases cortisol and reinforces unhealthy attachments

Codependent dynamics activate the threat system, making it harder to access the parts of the brain responsible for rational thinking, self awareness, and emotional regulation

You don’t have to choose between isolation or self abandonment. Healthy connection is where healing lives

[theambitiouswoman]

If I am having a conversation with someone and I feel myself getting aggressive, dominant, controlling, defensive etc, I know that they are the wrong person to have around me. The way I feel in someones presence is the biggest indicator of whether they align with me or not

[scorpionlafemme]

[hornsweetcouples]

[theambitiouswoman]

+ a genius, thoughtful, selfless, emotionally intelligent, hard working, loyal & doesn't have instagram

[celestialwrites]

angsty (romantic + platonic) dialogue prompts

@celestialwrites for more!!

♡ "it took you almost 4 years to fully trust me, and it took you all of one minute to stop."

♡ "do not waste your breath with lies, for once tell me the damned truth."

♡ "i have always wanted the good, the bad, and the ugly from you! i never wanted you to hide."

♡ "do you not get it? we don't ever get a happy ending, we don't ever go home!"

♡ "tell me you didn't, i do not care if it's a lie, just tell me you didn't."

♡ "you are a part of me and i cannot stand it."

♡ "don't waste away a life that was never yours. it was always hers."

♡ "every second i spend in pain without (s/o) is better than any day i spent not knowing them."

♡ "your tears will not bring him back." "fuck you."

♡ "that may just happen to be your gravest mistake, you thought you could fix her."

♡ "look me in the eye and say it. say it! say they're dead!"

♡ "i will be the greatest loss of your life."

REBLOG TO SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL WRITERS<3

[stricatul]

I think true love is when two people make each other love themselves more.

[namuwithhoneybee]

I agree

[theambitiouswoman]

Walls keep everybody out

Boudaries teach people where the door is

[theambitiouswoman]

Being positive doesn’t mean you don’t have negative thoughts. It just means you don’t let those thoughts control your life