“I am an experienced dom. I am the superior! You will do everything I command. I have years of experiences with different slaves. I am dominant in bed!”
These are examples of what I read online. Perhaps the men who wrote that really are. Does writing these actually make one a desirable Dom or a better Master? We know these words are to attract attention, to describe one self and to promote who you are to the readers. But what defines a good Dom/Master?
I can list out the traits and qualities one should possess to ‘qualify’ as a good Master. And I’m sure many will register those as part of your criteria in seeking that dream Master. Anyway, I am not going into that.
I feel a slave defines her Master. This can tell if he is good or he is not. It is reflected in their M/s relationship. And I don’t mean her behavior or how she conducts herself. I am talking about her state of mind and emotion. The slave should be happy serving her Master, on top of attending to his needs and fulfilling his pleasures.
In contrast, if a slave’s well-being is neglected, it will affect her in all aspects. She will not carry out her day job as efficiently. She will become depressed and even have negative thoughts, that she is not doing her best in serving her Master. She will gradually lose the desire to serve.
I am not a believer of the Master taking and not giving back to the relationship. It doesn’t imply he is any less dominant through giving. In fact, it shows the Master cares for his property.
And if ever, a Master believes he is the best for his slave, he is superior over others, that marks the start of his downfall.
Another example to any Master’s failure, is never admitting to his mistakes. A conceited Master strongly believes he is always right. He accepts no reason that points out he is in the wrong. High confidence is good. But being over-confident is not. And such a person wants his ego stroked all the time.
As Masters, we shouldn’t be questioning what she can do for us. Instead, ask ourselves what can we provide for our slaves. She could be dealing with some issues at work, and need advice or maybe just a listening ear. Can we give her the attention she needs? Or she could be feeling unwell. Can we give her the concern she wishes to receive? A M/s relationship is not unlike any relationship. It requires a lot of commitment, time and effort. From both parties involved.
I am not a Master by default. And I am definitely not one just because I claim I am. We can see many of us listed this status in our profiles. But bear in mind, this is merely to display our kinky nature, a status that reflects closest to our personality.
I am a Master only because of my slave. She gave me this title through her submission. Because she placed trust in me to guide her. Because I gave her the confidence she is in good care. Surrendering her control then came naturally. I believe because she has the sense of security from me.
A slave’s submission is a gift. I tell myself never to abuse this gift. In return for her loyalty, devotion and wonderful service, I cherish and protect her. I spend time on her and give my attention.
I also do not allow any complacency from myself. This is a long journey that we are on together, a never-ending learning experience. As much as I guide her to be a finer slave for me, I learn as well in becoming a better Master for her. We grow together.
Thank you for giving me the chance to be your Master. With no slave under me, I am just NCRaze. I am simply Nelson without you. I am very fortunate to be and have been served by every single one of you. Thank you, my slaves!
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