Life update 💰 👸🏿 🏝 💎
Hope you all are well & thriving! 😍 It's been a while since I've posted on here. I've travelled both domestically and internationally for work, made some awesome new friends and really did some self-reflection.
I've stopped sugaring. At least the traditional way. I've been focusing more on finding boyfriends to spoil me. It's better for my long term goals and less stressful. I use regular dating apps like OkCupid, Match & Bumble. My approach is not as a broke college student who wants a mutually beneficial arrangement but as a high value girlfriend who was spoiled by her father growing up and now expects that from her man. 👑 I'm an educated, sexy, sweet Caribbean Queen who deserves nothing but the best! And y'all do too!
I have a whole backstory prepared with a spreadsheet and notes on my phone to keep up with my lies, although I have the same story pretty much so it's easy to remember. It's basically a more glamourus version of my life and background. I have found that men treat you differently if you aren't needy. Back when I was like 18-20, the whole broke college student thing worked. This was before Seeking Arrangement. Now that I am older thats a turn off to generous high value men. They don't like feeling like they're giving a handout. They want to feel like they are being a provider and spoiling their sweet, loving and ambitious girlfriend 😊
It's less emotionally draining than being with an SD. Also, there's more room for mistakes because "relationships aren't perfect, right?" 😀 The only downside is having to be "on". I feel like I'm playing a role sometimes because I am on the introverted side and don't want to be bothered! I hate constantly texting, facetiming, etc and sometimes I am not in the mood to get dolled up and go out. But the sound of the cash app or zelle notifications chime it's makes it worth it. And knowing that I'm not a missed paycheck away from being homeless again is what gives me drive 💰 I follow a few high value girlfriends on instagram who also motivate and inspire me.
Also, for extra 💴 I do have a profile on a hookup site. I use it to advertise for a "generous fwb". I've found some gems on there! The most generous men are the ones without photos because they value their privacy. I word my profile so that I don't get a bunch of cheap asses who won't/can't pay for a nice hotel room or don't believe in spoiling women 😂 And my face is blurred out. I keep in touch via text. Send them cute/sexy texts and photos and they dont mind sending 💵 without seeing me. For instance, on Wednesday I may send a pic of myself in a t-shirt and panties and say "happy hump day handsome, too bad you're not humping me 😉 😘 ". My favorite is a very busy man and I like to remind them that he has a hot fwb with DDDs when we are away. It motivates him to make time to see me again. He gets more generous each and every time. I may share my process with turning him into a boyfriend.
Anyway, that's what I have been up to. I am losing weight 💪🏿, stacking money 💰, eating delicious high end meals, travelling ✈️ and working on my new online businesses 💻 Stay tuned & I will be more active on here from now on. My inbox is open ladies. I need more SB and spoiled gf friends! 💕
