Stop shipping bad ships uwu

This blog is against non-survivors shipping harmful ships. This is NOT aimed at survivors who use ships to cope! mobile links

[sushidynasty]

For those of you with Anxiety pt.2

See part one here

Not for anxiety: but maybe check out this post?

Calm.com where you can do guided relaxation. Good for after a panic/anxiety attack (also available on iphone)

Simply Noise Coloured noise generator (also has apps)

Boomshine A calming game with coloured dots you have to get to touch each other.

Coffitivity If you like the coffee shop vibe, this website has a background loop of coffee shop sounds that you can change the level of

Casanova You play as a giraffe walking towards other giraffes, you get to kiss them on your way by (also has iphone app)

Little Wheel Game where you navigate across a town as a robot to restart a power supply and save your fellow robots! (along with some swanky jazz tunes as well, lol)

[sushidynasty]

For those of you with anxiety

here’s a website that translates the time into hexidecimal colours,

here is a website where you can create your own galaxies

here is a website where you can play flow

here you can interact with organisms in different environments to see how to music changes

here you can play silk which is an interactive generative art designing website.

Here is a website where you can travel along a 3D line into the infinite unkown

here is a website where you can listen to rain with or without music

There is now a part two!

[rip-pinecest]

Incest is abuse Incest is danger Incest is damaging Incest is traumatizing Incest is manipulative Incest is violence Incest is rape Incest is pedophilia Incest is not love Incest is not healthy Incest is not romantic Incest is not a cute relationship between family members Incest is not a kink Incest is not a ship Incest is not something you decide to ship or not Incest is not something to decide to ignore or not

If you ship incest, even if you say you wouldn’t accept it in real life, you still make survivors’ experiences less and you are still romanticizing and sexualizing the bonds between family members because of “how great their relationship works” or “how complex their relationship is” or whatever gross excuse you use

[nbgems-deactivated20151011]

just because a ship is fictional doesnt mean it cant hurt people

when abuse survivors such as myself are exposed to untagged abusive or toxic ships clogging a main tag it can upset or trigger them

our feelings and experiences are valid and just because the thing upsetting us is “fictional” it does not make our feelings any less real

please respect abuse survivors

[nbgems-deactivated20151011]

hey this is just a request but if you feel safe to reblog this could you maybe consider doing so? i think this is kind of important and so many times people speak over abuse survivors on these issues and say that our feelings dont matter. i think it might be good for this to be spread around a little

[zelldas]

protip !!!!!!!!!!!!

quit shipping incest

[angelicbreadroll]

and sexual ships with children/ ships with an adult and a child

[alisuinrandomland]

Get over yourselves & stop ship-shaming. It’s not like these shippers are hurting anyone srsly.

[zelldas]

it is seriously hurting people like myself who are survivors of incestual sexual abuse and have to see incest ships on their dash all the time in every fandom because incest is so hugely popular and for some reason perfectly normalized and excusable in fandom culture and it’s also hurting people who are seeing incest and pedophilia being popularized in fandom and thinking that it’s okay, that it’s normal or even cool to be underage and allow older people (esp. older men, who are worshipped on this website) to take advantage of them both emotionally and sexually because of all of the normalization of it that they see online………tldr ship shaming isn’t fucking real and isn’t hurting anyone whereas normalizing sexual abuse, incest, and pedophilia is LITERALLY hurting real people and kids and you should fuck right off forever thanks

[trans-pacifica-deactivated20160]

reblog this if you think pedophilia, incest and abuse AREN’T fucking okay to be romanticized in fiction.

[nbgems-deactivated20151011]

just because a ship is fictional doesnt mean it cant hurt people

when abuse survivors such as myself are exposed to untagged abusive or toxic ships clogging a main tag it can upset or trigger them

our feelings and experiences are valid and just because the thing upsetting us is “fictional” it does not make our feelings any less real

please respect abuse survivors

[nbgems-deactivated20151011]

hey this is just a request but if you feel safe to reblog this could you maybe consider doing so? i think this is kind of important and so many times people speak over abuse survivors on these issues and say that our feelings dont matter. i think it might be good for this to be spread around a little

[sjw-dipper]

what do you think about q*eerplatonic relationships (I know there's a better word that's going around, sorry), this question is about the concept, do you think that it truly is just "best friends" like what some of tumblr wants to make them out to be, or what :(

(I haven’t heard an alternative word for qpr’s but I’ve been wishing there was one so if you ever remember what it is I’d love to know!)

Yeah I mean…personally I’m not interested in them so I don’t know much about them. I could be wrong but I think it’s like…a really really strong platonic bond where you do things with romantic connotations together? Because some people might enjoy kissing or going on dates but the romantic feelings just aren’t there, it’s a really strong platonic bond.

[purplepuffle-deactivated2021070]

I think a good way to define it would be like a friendship that’s purely platonic but you take it as seriously as most people would treat a romantic one (like getting married and such)

[sjw-dipper]

Someone explained it to me!! It’s not quite a friendship it’s like a deep platonic love basically, but not the same as a friendship.

[neets-against-shipping]

Hi! Sorry to butt in but there is a different term to describe qpp’s (q*eer/quasi platonic partners) if you’re not same gender attracted and that’s quasiplatonic. 

In my experience of qpp’s, it’s usually for people who are aromantic, or on the aromantic spectrum because they don’t experience romantic attraction. I think the aromantic wikia can describe this better than I can so I’ll give you a link.

http://aromantic.wikia.com/wiki/Queerplatonic

[norighttoshipabuse]

Fandom prides itself on a culture of YKINMK (“Your Kink Is Not My Kink“) and YMMV (“Your Mileage May Vary”) where everyone, in the interest of “fannish diversity” just stays in their lane and supports everyone’s right to do what they want. However, that’s not really responsible or possible. What that really does is foster an environment where you can’t critique fanworks or talk about why it really isn’t cool to claim that your preference (for certain characters or ships or tropes/kinks) negates everyone’s ability to point out what’s wrong with that behavior or trope. We don’t all have to like the same things in fandom’s wide internet spaces, but there’s got to be a greater focus on making fandom a safe space beyond “if you don’t like a kink/character/trope for legitimate reasons, just ignore it” Some things just aren’t to be made into AUs, some kinks are horrible, and some characters are irredeemable regardless of what they go through.

@stitchmediamix, in her fantastic essay series Fandom’s Huge Race Problem (via norighttoshipabuse)

[gelajiou-moved]

cool hecking post:

if youre a survivor and you use unsavory/abusive/nasty ships to cope: ok

that doesn’t mean that every single survivor is using that to cope, that doesnt mean that every survivor is ok with seeing your ships that condone the same things they were abused with.

by indulging in this you are also promoting material made by nonsurvivors who are advocating abuse.

if you are a survivor and you are defending nonsurvivor’s right to ship abusive/harmful/etc ships, your word is not god? just because you don’t care if people enjoy content with the same context as your abuse doesn’t mean every survivor is going to automatically be okay with it.

IF you are a survivor, please be conscious of this. you may use what you enjoy to cope but be conscious of those survivors around you who do not.

if you’re a nonsurvivor, wyd

[quinndolyns-deactivated20220403]

pedophilia isn’t a “kink”. it isn’t an “opinion”. pedophilia is disgusting and harmful in any form it takes. consuming child pornography makes you a bad person. supporting people who consume child pornography makes you a bad person. there is a direct correlation between consumption of child pornography - real or simulated - and the act of sexual assault of a child. you do not have the right to get off to someone else’s trauma. pedophilia isn’t a fetish, it is something to be eradicated.

[clods-against-shippers]

”Trigger warnings don’t exist outside of tumblr!!”

Really? Then how do you explain:

You sure there, pal?

You can backpedal all you want to try to hide your blatant ableism, but you can’t deny the fact that

1. Triggers and trigger warnings are real and acknowledged in psychology 

 2. They exist outside of Tumblr.

I’m using video game warnings as examples, but the big picture is that these warnings that are used in media everywhere serve the exact same purpose as a trigger warning: To warn people of content that can potentially cause panic attacks, dissociation, paranoia (and other symptoms of mental illness), nightmares, etc. They ARE trigger warnings.

So if you can take those seriously, why do you think triggers are jokes? Oh yeah, because you and every other ableist assnut like you have twisted the word trigger to the point where it’s not even taken seriously anymore, even though it’s not a fucking joke.

Seriously, just go ahead and admit you hate mentally ill people, i’ve got all day.

[angelrecipe-deactivated20180602]

All these anti-SJWs are like “lol you can’t get fired for calling kids stupid on the Internet grow up!” but listen my mother is the CEO of a big local organization and I showed her the receipts against Lion and she said that if she found out an employee ran a blog where they harassed kids and told them to die and sent them explicit sexual and violent messages and screencapped their personal posts to mock them, and DEFINITELY if they used racial and ableist slurs, she would fire them in a heartbeat lmaooo

[angelrecipe-deactivated20180602]

To elaborate she said that just bigotry such as racist slurs alone on a public profile would at least be enough to look into someone’s personal life more and consider firing them because you don’t want someone with hateful views representing your company/organization, but if she as a CEO and employer got a call saying an employee was threatening minors (via death threats/wishes, sexual threats/wishes, violence threats/wishes, repeated harassment and stalking, etc etc) not only would that be grounds for termination but she’d probably get the police involved for an official investigation too omggggg

[sebaciel-is-dead]

PSA

@grellagainstgrossness @claulois-is-dead @fucksebaciel If you could spread this, please. 💗 Holy///Midnight (no slashes) should be blocked for anti-survivor and ableist behavior. They called people triggered by abusive ships “pansies” and said the world is just an ableist place and to get used to it. Do not engage. -Mod Elizabeth

[neets-against-shipping]

Mod Jyushi here! I wanted to have a discussion with other antis maybe about an issue that’s bothered me slightly. I’m Chinese and the thought of white writers making jokes revolving around people of colour kind of irks me? Like, obviously there are universal reactions to things but it’s just the stereotypical jokes I guess? I’m not really sure where I’m going with this but say you had an Asian writer who wrote jokes specifically targeting Asian viewers like that one style of plate probably a lot of Asians have in their household. Like it’s relatable and even if it’s not, the writer has probably experienced it too. But I find a lot of white writers when writing Asian jokes tend to base it off stereotypes? And it’s aimed more towards the white viewers. I might be wrong, I haven’t been watching many shows lately. It’s literally like if you didn’t grow up in an Asian household, how do you know what’s relatable and funny? I think one of the most popular stereotypical joke is about grades and Asian parents. Of course, you have immigrant parents who want you to do well in school because what gets you a financially secure job that also doesn’t require grueling labor? An education.

I remembered in primary school when I used to make fun of my Asian heritage because of the negativity of being Asian. I used to see that shitty ‘Bsian’ joke and the ‘Asian grading system’ where the picture depicted an A was ‘Average’ and B was something else. Those are stereotypical Asian jokes that really bother me now because it makes me feel so inadequate if I don’t do well in school and if my other Asian friends do better than me because it makes me feel less of who I am. 

Please feel free to comment, in fact it’s encouraged. I want to have a conversation about this.

[sjwboy]

I hope it’s ok if I comment even if I’m white? If it’s not and I’m overstepping please tell me!!

But I really agree with you! White people making jokes around Asian/Poc people really do base it around stereotypes and as such the same “joke” or message gets repeated all the time

I dunno how accurate this and really sorry if this is derailing!! but I suppose we could vaguely compare it to straight people making jokes about Gay/LGBTQA+ people? They have no personal experience in the topic and most of the jokes are absolutely awful and revolve around stereotyping a minority, usually for the amusement of other straight/White people

And that’s what most of the “jokes” are I think?? like you said they’re not created with the intention of being relatable by other people who have most likely experienced the same thing but for other people to remark how “weird” the first group is

And it’s so often used to continue to oppress minorities or literally dehumanize them!!

[neets-against-shipping]

No I think you made a really good point! Speaking about the LGBT jokes it really is just aimed at other straight people. I can't tell you how many times I've heard fa***t at my school and one girl said it without even knowing what it meant. (the girl who got called that was like "oh it's ok I know it was a joke") like is that slur really that funny to you? I think the most universal gay joke is the feminine gay? Like straight people will see a man acting feminine and straight away they're like "oh he's gay lol" and that's such a stereotype.

I think any joke made by oppressors about a minority could have the potential to be mocking that minority unless they did their research first and didn't base it off a stereotype? I think that's a bit extreme though so I'm not too sure about that. Feel free to add more!

[antimitsuba-blog]

anti blogs please reblog this

[neets-against-shipping]

Antis: THEY'RE ROMANTICIZING ABUSE

Shippers: i did NAuGHT! mr electric, send them to the principal's office and have them EXPELLED!