nefarious loves

sometimes a writer, mostly just a chaotic thespian

[tea-pet]

[joematar]

personally I come to tumblr for the giant face of a bearded man filling up my entire screen every time I open the app. that is what the site has always meant to me and I hope it never changes

[ginniewheezie]

Sleepover time!!

You know what that means! Talk to me about anything! Including but not limited to:

Confessions

Unpopular opinions

Pick up lines

Fun Facts

Talk to me about music

Recommend music

Recommend books

Tell me about your favorite tv show

Tell me about your pets

Ask me about my pets

Send me your headcanons

Ask me trivia questions

Tell me a story behind one of your scars

Tell me your most embarrassing story

Share your favorite memory

Tell me about your crush/partner/spouse/best friend

Write me a poem (I’m a sucker for poems)

Tell me what’s bothering you

Puns (the more terrible, the better)

Snapchat me

Stalk my insta

LITERALLY ANYTHING JUST TALK TO ME

[grungegoths]

No offence but its like so telling how all those white pop girls who are all about "women supporting women" and "dont pit women against each other" are silent af about megan thee stallion being shot and the treatment she received abt that news from the media and the internet.Megan legit had to come on twitter and go live on instagram to explain what happened to her and how she was feeling and how it wasn't ok to make JOKES abt her being shot. I haven't seen a single white female musician come up and show sympathy towards megan or even acknowledge what happened to her when they are all so quick to post ig stories about listening to her "bad bitch" anthems.

All these white pop girls' fans love attacking other celebs for not "supporting women" just bc they didn't took their fav white pop girls' side in her beef with another person but are silent about noone having any sympathy towards megan. When taylor swift spoke up about how she was being fucked over by her label everyone and their mothers came out to speak in support of her but when megan thee stallion spoke up about how she was being fucked over by her label she didnt even get half the acknowledgement as taylor, that too was from other black artists.

This is why I've always been apprehensive of the "girl power" and "women supporting other women" shit so many white female celebs are co opting these days. Its almost always by white women for other white women with sometimes a couple women of color thrown in to not look explicitly racist . The music industry only cares about black women as long as long as they are shaking their asses and making songs to jam too. As soon as they ask for support or even SYMPATHY for their struggles people don't want to acknowledge their existence.

[glamour-doll98]

Not to mention everyone showing online support for her or defending her during this has been mostly black women and black queer ppl. When I know how many nonblack woman and gays listen to her music, use her brand for a “hot girl summer” and are building your self-esteem off the backs’ of black womens’ music (Lizzo, Beyonce, need I say more). When she made you feel like a “savage” and a “hot girl” you were all fans. If it’s girlpower this boss bitch that, why are yall so silent about gendered violence against black women.

[rosecrystal]

unfortunately for everybody i will keep doing whatever i want

[enraged-chihuahua]

fuck this *unfocuses my eyes*

[1617]

all i do is listen to music and dissociate from reality

[nefariousloves]

half of the “fashion inspo” i see on pintrest and tumblr is actually just thinspo in disguise but some of y’all aren’t ready to talk about that

[dearestvita-deactivated20221122]

Male fantasy is seen as something that can create reality, whereas female fantasy is regarded as pure escape.

bell hooks, from All About Love: New Visions

[nefariousloves]

the stench of cigarettes and regret is stitched into the lace of my bra- my shoelaces are soaked in something acidic and leave gashes at my throat as they wrap around my neck. i feel a tight grasp on my ass, the clutches of womanhood. i didn’t know it had such sharp nails. no, don’t do this- don’t tempt me to disaster because you know i will take the bait. (i always do, always always do) oh darling, how you’ve been pulled by your hair and managed to keep your feet on the ground, i do not know. grow where you’re planted, grow where you’re thrown there is no difference. and grow i did. everything has gotten bigger: my thighs my tits that seething ball of rage that sits in the pit of my stomach. and i plan to use them all to my advantage.

spirite for breakfast, a.c.

[kylos]

Princess Mononoke [ もののけ姫 ] (1997) dir. Hayao Miyazaki

[adampvrrish]

genuinely don't think i'm built for college and/or 40+ years of work. all i want to do is connect with other people and make friends and fall in love and travel and read books and do everything i want to do! and i don't want to work until i'm too old or tired to do any of those things! i just think it's evil that we have to spend our lives working even if we have no passion or drive for it

[nefariousloves]

cause apparently some people have to be reminded... DON’T STEAL PEOPLES TATTOO IDEAS. its so shitty to just steal a design from someone, especially if they’ve already told you how much THEY want to get it. being inspired by someones ideas is one thing, but to blatantly take what someone else created? that is ~theft~ 

[scenograph]

The Art of Kiki’s Delivery Service (2006 art book)

[trlppie]

if you’re in university, please read this:

whether you’re just finishing your first semester, or you’re a senior, or anything in between, be proud of the progress you’ve made. college is not easy, not even close. any accomplishment is a great one. don’t be discouraged by any future worries and be happy with everything you’ve done so far. i’m proud of you, and you should be proud of yourself!

[karijote]

[fixyourwritinghabits]

I reblogged one of these but this one is even better.

[fire-fira]

Here’s your reminder that the US doesn’t have an official language.

[nefariousloves]

hypothetically... if i posted some poetry would anyone wanna read it..? i recently got motivated to continue writing the chapbook i started almost a year ago and would love some feedback, even if its super minimal! if you’re wondering about the content it’s basically just the angry/sad rantings of a mentally ill teenage girl... pretty original i know... sigh