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hi

hey guys long time no see, just sending this out into the cosmos to see how many people would still want to interact with this blog and what kind of posts you’d like to see from me :) 

i’m in a different place in my life right now but i feel like i could get back into this for a while and see where it goes

luv u guys

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if you notice something nice about a person, tell them

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Every time I start talking to a new guy, I'm terrified for them to meet my sister because I always feel like she's a lot prettier than I am. I have acne and a tummy, and she is skinny and always looks perfect. I hate my body.

i’m sure the guy isn’t worried about stuff like that, and if he is i dont think you should be worried about him anyway 

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My ex broke up with me a couple months ago, but we're still really close friends. Sometimes I feel like they're still wary about talking with me and it stresses me out because I feel like if anyone should be wary it's me. They keep saying that I'm super important to them and they love me (platonically). I just wish they would tell me if they were uncomfortable around me for any reason instead of pretending nothing's wrong.

do you feel uncomfortable around them? idk i feel like staying friends with exes is a bad idea in general because it could unknowingly compromise future or potential relationships and personal growth because you’re still hanging around this person you used to be with. i dont know you guys and im not saying you shouldnt talk at all but if its causing you stress then maybe somethings not working

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as you get older you realise the number of people who you have a connection with gets fewer, so if you find someone you click with let them know how much you value them 

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things get better

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there will never be a better time or place to be yourself

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space can distance people, but it’s also necessary for healthy relationships

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space can distance people, but it’s also necessary for healthy relationships

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so i need advice? i've never been in a relationship so whenever i like a guy, i convince myself it's never gonna be anything. but w this guy i've been finding excuses to be near him. if we ever talk, i start ignoring him. i don't mean to. i just get nervous and my fight or flight kicks in and i do flight. idk what to do but i really like him. yesterday i was w my friends and he talked to/complimented me but i ignored him and kept talking to my friends. like i couldn't even look at him? help. -ck

if he likes you and u like him i dont think you need to be nervous, he’ll probably only remember and think about the good stuff about you anyway, just be yourself around him and be open to conversation, also eye contact is important so maybe work on that if you’re finding it difficult x good luck 

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just because you miss them doesn’t mean you need them 

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you almost never realise when it’s going to be the last time you speak to someone, visit a special place, or do something you love with people you love being around. but then it’s over and you wish you could go back and do it all again, but you cant, so dont take those moments for granted 

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don’t be the first person to let go during a hug

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Please help me, I don't know if I'm being a bad person or I'm doing what's best for me

hey sorry was this @ a previous message? i sometimes dont reply to anons because i dont want my blog to be full of replies :/ 

you can message me off anon and specify if you want it answered privately or just send me a chat ! 

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having a bad day isnt an excuse for being an asshole 

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The girl I'm dating won't talk to me. Like every time she says she overwhelmed or stressed I ask her why so I can support her. But she always just act like its nothing or doesn't want to talk about it. She a quiet person and I respect that but I can't be with someone who can't communicate. Sorry I just had to get off my chest some how. Thanks!

that sounds rough, I don't know what your relationship is like but maybe you could try talking about your own problems first so she doesn't feel like she's always the one who needs to talk about stuff, idk I always find that people give more of themselves when they see that the other person can be vulnerable too?

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My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday, and we were best friends. She wants the friendship we used to have but I just don't see it happening again. I miss her so much.

cut her off if u dont want the same thing, no point being miserable over her, talk to other people