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Just being a woman and existing makes you a pick-me at this point
People took this very necessary and cathartic term and overused and abused it to the point where it’s just used to degrade women no matter what they do, instead of for the women that genuinely think they’re better than other girls or humble brag about being different. Most don’t even know what pick-me means anymore. It’s now just being used for women who don’t follow all social norms, women who are friends with guys, or even over-the-top feminine women (like calling Hachiko from Nana a pick-me is just…. really??)
A pick-me is a girl who puts other girls down to make herself seem more attractive.
A pick-me says things like “I only hang out with guys because girls are too much drama.”
A pick-me is those girls on Marilyn Manson or other rock youtube videos (around 2013 it was an epidemic, not sure if it still is) talking about how her generation sucks and going “teehee I bet I’m the only girl here” in hordes.
A pick-me is a conservative woman who kisses up to men and hates feminism, that the lonely desperate horny incel men don’t want to touch with a 10 foot pole.
Now the term is just being used to shit on women you don’t like, and its lost its meaning. A lot of insecure women are using it on women who just happen to have a lot of guy friends and aren’t even weird or cringey about it.
You can’t be a girl and have a guy friend group anymore. And that is a form of seeing gender as real and wanting people to conform to gender roles. It’s like the basic straight people that don’t want their partners to have friends of the opposite sex or breathe the same air as people of the opposite sex. It’s lame and regressive.
At that point you’re literally being the insecure disney channel mean girl. Like you’re actually being what pick-me’s think all other girls are like.
In the early 2010’s you HAD to be “not like other girls” and have supposedly niche interests and the pick-me term wasn’t around yet and everyone just ate this up. The tumblr posts of “Other Girls vs Me” that blatantly tore down other girls as well as the pick-me YouTube comments were met with overwhelming love and positive reception.
But now it’s so far in the other direction that now you HAVE to be friends with only girls and like Taylor Swift (who ironically wrote the most pick-me song of a lifetime??) and be girly but not too girly.
It feels like you can’t just have more than one type of woman exist at the same time without one of them shitting on the other.
The older sibling trope is shitty and lazy, and there is no excuse for it to be this prevalent in 2025, point blank period.
This has been coming for some time, it was really just a matter of when the next time this stereotype shows up and ruins/turns me off from something before I put up this rant.
The Elbaph arc of One Piece has just become my least favorite arc in the series, and has ruined Shanks for me.
As if it wasn't bad enough how obvious it is that Loki is gonna turn out to be the good guy (writing this on May 5th 2025, I am on chapter 1140. Loki being the youngest gave it away.) and it's gonna be like Bruno from Encanto or something, but now Shanks has an evil older twin out of nowhere and this cool character is ruined.
Constantly making the older sibling in media evil and making the younger sibling the underdog/odd one out is such a dull overdone trope.
I have had a huge problem with it for years because it completely alienates me and invalidates me and the fact that I'm the only one who even notices or cares about this just adds to it. Like, I am actually mad when I see this.
In media, the older sibling can either be evil or a prissy overachiever who follows the rules (or both) and that is it. This is not fair and when it's the only thing you're shown throughout art and media it has an effect on real life.
And yeah, there are definitely more important/pressing issues than this but I can still be mad about this while also caring about more important stuff.
This is very personal to me because growing up, I was a complete inverse of this stereotype. I am the oldest of my siblings, and when we were kids I was the one getting mistreated. I was an undiagnosed neurodivergent child and grew up with a neurotypical and perfect younger sister.
My issues with this trope falls on deaf ears CONSTANTLY and I'm sick of it so l'm sorry but I have to bring up old family stuff. We’re good now and as long as that’s over I have nothing against them. But okay; I'm the oldest. I'M the one who was bullied. I'M the one who was "weird." I was the black sheep. I'M the one who did poorly in school. I'M the one who got the "why can't you be more like your sister?" talk. IT IS NOT FAIR.
It's like writers don't think older siblings are going to be watching or reading anything. We were all kids at one point. We were the same age our younger siblings are now and it's not okay to teach us that we're some horrible monster or a lame NPC for being conceived first.
Of course there are going to be situations where this stereotype really does happen. People exist. There are mean older sisters and brothers. But the fact that I can conjure up this giant ass list (80 examples as now) while I can count the number of good older sibling characters on one hand is fucking appalling. At this point they are really just demonizing older siblings and ass kissing younger siblings because we fetishize the shit out of youth.
Movies and books are supposed to be my escape from real life. It's really harmful that even my escapes tell me l'm not valid and there's no room for me in stories because I'm supposed to be the big bad evil one or the "obey your parents" prissy wet blanket while the younger sibling is always the good, rebellious cool one.
And I get why; younger = less life experience = underdog = root for the underdog. That mixed in with everyone’s subconscious younger = better. I know the reason but like?? It’s not a good reason? It should be defied and challenged once in a while.
This trope is lazy. Like flat out. There are better ways to write an underdog than this. We all know deep down that younger means better. It doesn't work.
Being younger means you have less experience so of course an older sibling will be better than you at some stuff. It doesn't make for a good "oooo poor lil underdog" story. Imagine being the oldest AND having your younger siblings be better than you at everything and finding success faster than you. It would get the underdog message across even moreso, and that would be a way worse position to be in. Almost no piece of media has ever explored this.
Also if an older sibling is jealous of a younger sibling, they must be wicked and cruel. But if a younger sibling is jealous of an older sibling, we're supposed to feel sorry for them.
I have actually refused to watch shows or movies because of this. It makes me genuinely mad. Especially when I’m so far along in a series or if I have a strong love for a franchise just for it to pull this.
And it wouldn’t be making me this mad if people at least knew it as a trope. Like if it became as much of a thing as the middle child being invisible and people just recognized it as a trope it wouldn't piss me off this much. If it became an eye roll ‘oop here we go again’ that the audience groans about it wouldn't have driven me to this.
But the fact that I have EIGHTY AND COUNTING examples so clearly authors are doing it with intent and are consciously aware and it still falls on deaf ears where everyone I mention it to is all ‘huh what are you talking about?’ or change the subject or try their absolute hardest NOT to understand is what makes me want to scream. Like, FUCKING 80+!!! There has got to be some real intent behind this and when I call it out no one understands or wants to.
Fiction does have an impact on reality. Constantly putting firtborns under this light affects the way firsborns are treated in real life.
Their struggles aren't taken as seriously, people are quick to side with the younger sibling when there is conflict no matter what, and they'll be considered a failure or a loser if they can't live up to the 'perfection responsible leader' role they never signed up for.
Of all the media I've consumed, I could only find 5 positive examples of good older sibling characters that defy the stereotype in some way (13 if I'm being extremely generous)
To have just 5 - 13 well written good older siblings and over 80 bad ones, that's not okay.
If everything in my life was exactly the same but I was the youngest instead, if I was still the lonely fuckup black sheep who was bullied but I was younger, I would have been able to feel heard and have dozens of characters to relate to. But instead I'm isolated and invalidated even more and can neither have the cake or eat it.
No one ever talks about this, and when I try to everyone will cover their ears and change the subject or misunderstand it.
I’m probably going to blaze this because I will be heard. This current One Piece arc has deeply upset me and I already dedicated so much time and money to the series. Even if I have to keep shouting and posting about this over and over, I will be heard.
I will delete comments that trivialize, invalidate, miss the point, say something like “technically (insert character) isn’t evil,” or otherwise miss the forest for the trees. I will be heard no matter how many times it takes.
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