yaevanity and colonelhua are running away from their actions and refuse to take responsibility for their behavior.
i’m going to be using a burner account for this, but if you recognize who i am then that’s fine by me. i just want people to be aware of these two and what they’re doing since these two do not deserve to be on any social media platforms and act like they haven’t done anything.
i was very close with rev and ellie, we were good friends and we interacted often and even had a group chat together with our other friends. there were 7 of us and out of those 7 only 2 were adults (i won’t count ellie because they’re under 20). unfortunately something happened and the other adult left the group chat and didn’t want to join back in, leaving rev as the only adult in a group chat full of minors. i don’t want to accuse rev of anything but considering the fact that they were exposed for being a groomer i can’t help but find this weird. they also frequently ranted and even vented at some points which seems normal if you just see it at surface level but once you think about it then venting to a bunch of minors in a group chat about private topics and even acknowledging that you don’t talk to people your age about stuff like this isn’t the best way to go. also i’d like to mention that during the whole serena incident that they said that they thought that we’d understand them more than anyone else which sounds kinda iffy when you take into account that we were and are all minors, they also then proceeded to talk about their insecurities plus some other things and basically said goodbye and left discord after that.
this all seems very… weird once you find out that rev’s a groomer and was all lovey dovey with ellie which i’ll get into in a bit. i’m not saying that you can’t rant to your younger friends about stuff going on in your life, but i am saying that venting to your younger friends about personal topics that i don’t feel comfortable mentioning that you know are a lot younger than you seems iffy, especially if you’re a groomer.
now i’ll get onto ellie, first i just want to mention that they weren’t and to my knowledge aren’t dating, which makes their whole dynamic seem much more weird. according to what i know the two of them met when ellie was 17 and rev was 22, and were very affectionate to each other (calling each other petnames, saying affectionate stuff and much more) which seems creepy coming from rev. ellie should still be taken accountable for defending and ignoring the fact that rev told them about the accusations and calling them false while also running away from this situation and refusing to address it but i also think that we shouldn’t ignore the fact that rev acts this way with them while meeting them when they were still a minor and could still be considered one since they’re under 20 and still technically a teen. we also know that rev’s victim was around the same age so i will admit i’m worried that rev could be trying to or is grooming ellie. if so then i feel extremely sorry for ellie and i hope that they can get help, however, this still doesn’t change the fact that they defended rev and turned a blind eye when told about this. this also doesn’t change that they’re both running away from every social media platform (deactivated on tumblr, inactive on twitter, inactive on discord) and won’t take accountability for what they’re doing.
you two need to take action for what you did, especially you rev. you won’t get away with running away from your own actions forever and i sure hope that you won’t try to do that either. you’re a grown adult who groomed a 18 year old and could be very well trying to groom another one. you are disgusting and you need to take accountability and stop trying to avoid this. and ellie, you also need to stop running away from your problems and stop defending rev. you knew about this and you still decided to act like you didn’t know anything, which is also a horrible thing to do especially considering the fact that you are defending a groomer. you two were one of my closest friends and the fact that you two turned out to be this way is genuinely disgusting, and i’m not even the victim. i am terribly sorry to the victim that this happened to you, no one deserves to go through this and i hope that you’ll be able to find peace especially after going through this.
this is all i wanted to say regarding rev and ellie. if anyone has any questions i won’t mind answering, and please, don’t let rev have a platform so that they can’t hurt any more people like this ever again.
