rituals

✌🏾 ni'yat | deity of honey, sweet waters, abundance, viscosity - of pride, of pain, of sloth.

[violentwavesofemotion-deactivat]

Guillaume Apollinaire, tr. by Anne Hyde Greet, from Calligrams; “Chains,”

[andrevautour]

[women-loving-art]

Adrienne Rich, from Twenty-One Love Poems (VIII)

[brimalandro]

[be-artistic-deactivated20230306]

[li4r]

[herdirtylittleheart]

Softly, she reminds me.

[roseography]

[dulcamarae]

Diptych II.

08.09.2018

[v-o-i-d]

[girlyy-lovee]

[nonliminality]

considering completely giving up on the impossible respectability politics of capitalist modes of production and just having sloppy sex til I die

[nonliminality]

i forgot my password again but i’m still here thriving, unemployed, napping during the day and getting fucked at odd hours. 👌🏾

[nonliminality]

considering completely giving up on the impossible respectability politics of capitalist modes of production and just having sloppy sex til I die

[nonliminality]

update: i did it.

[naked-yogi]

do y’all even realize how much mainstream ‘lesbian’ porn is curated for the male gaze??? like hello, how can you not see how painfully obvious it is that these women aren’t actually interested in other women? of course not all mainstream wlw porn is like this, there are always exceptions, but as a woman who loves women I see this shit all over the internet… it’s the kind of thing that only wlw are able to recognize. think about how the *vast* majority of mainstream ‘lesbian’ porn is extremely hardcore and kinky (it should go without saying that there is nothing wrong with that kind of sex between fully consenting adults). it allows no room for authentic, romantic wlw porn. consider how so much ‘lesbian’ porn ends up somehow including a dick… porn titled and filed under the category ‘lesbian’ but it’s really just women showing off to get a man off… it’s fetishizing and hypersexualizing wlw to the point that a lot of women that are not sexually attracted to other women are clearly being forced/coerced into doing so-called ‘lesbian’ scenes bc it’s profitable. it’s fucking sad. there is no room for authentic wlw porn (even if that includes kink) because all this shit is made for dudes who sit in their rooms jerking off to hub sites/never pay for porn/‘love’ lesbians but hate the rest of the LGBTQ+ community. this is why independent porn curators like @fourchambers and every other incredible, strong, talented sex worker are so important right now. especially in the wake of FOSTA/SESTA.

[naked-yogi]

how misogyny works its way into threesomes

1) for the most part, threesomes with two women and a man are socially acceptable. in fact, outside the realm of BDSM and kink, it’s much easier to find two women down to please one guy at the same time than vice versa. it is extremely difficult to find two men who are willing to see each other naked and vulnerable in order to please a woman in ways that one person can’t (fragile masculinity, fear surrounded by this seeming ‘gay,’ etc). 2) the reason why you see bisexual/pansexual people saying things like, “No, I don’t exist for your pleasure, not here to fuck your wife/girlfriend to spice up your sex life,” is because people, specifically men, often expect women who are sexually attracted to women AND men to serve as a means to their own end (fulfilling a fantasy). women who are attracted to men and women are seen as toys and objects that only exist to fulfill your pleasures.

there is an imbalance in sexuality that deeply shames the sexuality of women. we are taught to harness ourselves in, deny ourselves of pleasures, and all because boys and men are usually raised to believe that their pleasure is all that matters. this is reinforced by society. their friends. their movies and tv shows. their porn. it’s our job to take this back, to be fiercely unapologetic in our desires, to be shameless. this includes trans women and non-binary people.

[nonliminality]

bloop

[nonliminality]

considering completely giving up on the impossible respectability politics of capitalist modes of production and just having sloppy sex til I die

[outcastmv-archive]