dulcamarae

(18+only please!) We are two people in love, drinking wine, loving art, and exploring sexuality in an international relationship somewhere between Europe and the US. We are pansexual, non-monogamous, feminist, and kinky! This blog is dedicated to our own content, but you can visit our other tumblr Desideria Dulcamarum to see what we are fantasising about. And, if you like, check out our videos and our wishlist. As always, we love to hear from like-minded tumblrs, so don't be shy! :)

[dulcamarae]

Live sign

We're still getting a lot of questions about how we are, where we went and what the future of dulcamarae is.

The truth is we never recovered from tumblr banning porn, in fact we haven't opened the app in months - it still feels painful. We lost an important part of our life and so far haven't been able to fill that void.

Truth being said, our relationship took quite a blow after the ban, and I keep asking myself whether this blog was more important to our relationship than we realized.

We're working hard on getting better again and maybe someday dulcamarae will be continued at someplace that embraces all the wonderful facets of art, love and life.

[dulcamarae]

This isn’t so much of an ask but more of a thank you. I myself am just now dicovering my kinky side and you two are just so gorgeous to me! You showed me that couples can be both, loving and kind but on other occasion kinky and somewhat hard on each other. I love the way your relationship is build upon so much trust and affection. I just wanted to say thank you before tumblr completely shuts of. I hope you two find a new platform to express yourselfs, it would be a pleasure to find you again.

♥️♥️♥️

[dulcamarae]

J, before the clothes started coming off.

Scenes from our kinky orgy, hosted by the wonderful @secretshelf, @petitedeviant, and @an-aberrant-object.

[dulcamarae]

You guys should make a Twitter!

We've thought about this, but aren't sure if it's the right match - it seems tricky to us to use a platform for erotic content that we also use professionally. We honestly aren't sure what to do at this point: to give up this platform will be heartbreaking, and none of the alternatives we are aware of are making sense for us at this time. Thoughts?

[dulcamarae]

Dumb ban is dumb, would love to rant tbh. Just wanted to say you two are lovely and I hope you find a new platform 💕

♥️♥️♥️♥️

[dulcamarae]

What’s going to happen to your content now that tumblr is prohibiting “adult content?” I’ve been a long time lover of your blog and I’m concerned for where I’ll be able to find art like this anymore!!!

We don't have an answer to this, unfortunately! We are super sad about the changes, and will miss this community dearly. 😔

[xoxo-beth]

Spanksgiving

Here are just a few tidbits from last night’s amazing Friendsgiving:

Watching @petitedeviant get thigh turkeys (neener)

Being spanked with a broccoli stalk* by @the-blue-of-noon

Teasing @little-chaos-bunny

Curling up on a bench and then being rolled onto a mattress by @petitedeviant and covered with blankets by @secretshelf

Yummy food and lots of wine

Silly times with wonderful people

*Edit: Brussel sprout stalk*

[secretshelf]

This was such a magical evening 💕💕

Also:

• @an-aberrant-object and J (@dulcamarae) giggling uncontrollably for an hour straight 

• E’s cranberry sauce omg

• our domestic kitchen kitten <3

[dulcamarae]

A bit late but still 😍😍😍.

[dulcamarae]

…Now imagine this gorgeous space full of naked bodies. Needless to say, it was a very good night.

Scenes from our kinky orgy, hosted by the wonderful @secretshelf, @petitedeviant, and @an-aberrant-object.

[dulcamarae]

Is there any movie in particular that always turns you on when watching it? Ps. I love your blog, you both are so sexy and fun to read. :)

For E: Secretary, hands down. That film was a revelation to my 18-year-old self, man.

[dulcamarae]

Where is your collar from? :)

An amazing tiny kink store in Berlin!

[dulcamarae]

I found this note from E on the bathroom mirror when I came home from work.

I love you my Dear

😍😍😍❤❤❤

[dulcamarae]

If somehow someone were to recognize you in person, how would you want them to let you know?

We are not ashamed of our work on tumblr! We prefer to stay anonymous because not everyone appreciates what we do, and also not everyone has to know about it. But if you recognize us in real life and feel you have to reveal yourself to us, please do it friendly and polite. Be discreet if other people are around. That's about it.

[dulcamarae]

Hold me close.

Photography by the gorgeous Ash of @fromtheash (busybeatalks).

[dulcamarae]

This profile is depicting the most idealistic relationship... that is still wildly realistic. Which makes it even more ideal! I’m almost turning 19, and when I see this gorgeous, loving, sexually open couple (who claim to be almost 30 but do not look almost 30, just saying), I’m flabbergasted. It gives me hope that I can have something similar. Thank you for making love look effortless.

Hi there! Thanks for your sweet words - it’s an honor to be able to inspire others with our relationship! 

Keep in mind, though, that what you see on tumblr is just a very, very small, idealized, and sexy part of our lives. We are otherwise a very normal couple, and face the normal difficulties that come along with going through life in a long term relationship. We work long hours and usually hardly have time to see each other at the end of the day, much less have sex. We deal with different expectations, sex drives, and communication styles. We get in fights about the proper way to fold laundry (for real, ha). The content we create for this blog is as much a fantasy for us as it is for our followers - backed by a real, loving relationship, but just reflecting the smallest facet of our lives together. Our love isn’t effortless, but supported by what sometimes seems like an overwhelming amount of hard work, honesty, and open communication. At the end of the day, though, that’s what it’s all about, and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 💛

[dulcamarae]

This is us.

Photography by the gorgeous Ash of @busybeatalks.

[dulcamarae]

Held.

Photography by the gorgeous Ash of @busybeatalks.

[dulcamarae]

Soooo many gorgeous photos coming.... 😍😍😍