northern wind

Scout. Vegan. Princess ov thee Void. Philadelphia. Dominatrix. Vocalist of Haz Lo Correcto.

[whereshadowsmakeshadows-deactiv]

Ice T Law & Order voice: sick son of a bitch would get his rocks off by forcing poly aromantics to watch the movie The Notebook

[hardcandyfilmclub]

tw for swer outing and violent trans-misogyny 

@workingitinportland boost?

[veeranger]

if you or a loved one have been diagnosed with sleepy bitch disease you may be entitled to

[ubelyptus]

ok but wheremst is the number to dial i’m ready

[iconiczuko]

you: non-monogamous queerplatonic relationship

me:

[taylor-ruth]

it doesn’t sit well with me that “emotional labor” in it’s original context was Arlie Hochschild talking very specifically about how taxing face to face service industry jobs are for people (namely women) with this very nuanced context and is now used in everything from “i had to explain something to someone on twitter” or heavily in contexts of romantic relationships. not all emotional management and exchange is labor! to insert the idea of “labor” excessively into interpersonal relationships creates a system of “i performed ____ and now you OWE me for exerting ____” and it’s not healthy or what the term is for.

[poppunkrallyup]

“She’s my rushmore” The Dopamines

[heyeverythingfuckyou]

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And we can live with our mistakes All my friends are going out tonight And I can’t sit here just waiting for another day  To die Fuck all this ancient history

[burytheseoldghosts]

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They say you really die the last time anybody says your name.

[brujecita]

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I am a satellite, never getting signals right. 

You are a constellation. 

I can barely make you out tonight.

[guns-of-anchorage]

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Here’s to you, the same chords that I stole From a song that I once heard The Same melody I borrowed from the void  I’d rather observe than structure a narrative The characters are thin; the plot does not develop It ends where it begins It’s on the screen, in paperbacks In section 8 and cul-de-sacs Electro haikus and drunk sonnets Are moving me along You cut my hair You left red ink everywhere Do my hands tell a story? Is it boring? What I’d give to force your sigh What I’d give to see you cry What I’d give for your caress To see your blue cotton dress Balled up on the floor Certain memories are the problem Certain drunken lines are the shame Seven hundred miles and four years I can’t fight the flame; it burns You cut my hair You left red ink everywhere Do my hands tell a story? Is it boring? Was I wishing on satellites? Tell me how you’ve been doing that trick I’m just wishing the flame away Now I’m wishing the flame away

[heyeverythingfuckyou]

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Then she became queen of the neighborhood parties, While I was an unknown boy along for the ride, Kept the guitar right by my side, It was better than conversing with the kids I didn't like, But on the fourth of July when the fireworks rang out, She met a new boy who was more hip and less strung out

[brickbyboringbrick]

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you’re the only lover that i ever miss and i’ve been hopelessly in love with

[pigeons-and-spies-deactivated20]

Like tension you can cut with a knife Like a wedding ring that never fit right Like a car alarm that won’t stop howling

A decade lost in the motions To romance and cheap whiskey The subtle sound of a fleeting feeling Like four chords that don’t love you no more, in a motel room In a sleeping bag on the floor, is it wrong to say that things can change?

[estuarine-space-communism]

Captain, We’re Sinking - Shoddy Worksmanship

Sunday, I know you’re sleeping, I know I said I wouldn’t drink but someone mentioned that an ounce of wine would absolve me of all my sins so I took a shot for Mary, and I took two for your son I had a few for my own self pity, and I felt innocent again

[emoviolence]

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Captain, We’re Sinking | Adultery

I carved your name into a public restroom in a town you’ve never been to God it’s so hard to love you

[sapropel]

I think marginalized white people are more interested in ideological purity than in prioritizing people’s safety and wellbeing

[sapropel]

It’s easy to surround ourselves in carefully selected “pure” language and theory but also we need to recognize that we don’t live in a society conducive to ideological purity or ethical consumption and when we try to apply that cleanly to a context of morality and even practice then it disproportionately negatively affects people of color just by the nature of racism

[sapropel]

Ideological purity is a luxury and is indicative to me of someone who is privileged. Because it’s easier to isolate yourself and hammer out theory in an echo chamber without ever interacting with others/people of color but as soon as you try to apply that to strangers on the internet you are always going to fall short and wonder why people with very solid politics and a strong sense of morality consistently fail to meet your expectations

[sapropel]

This is why people will fight to the death over whether “crazy” and “stupid” are ableist slurs and why (usually white) people will approach complex topics like desirability politics and slur/terminology reclamation as if they are black and white, clear cut, and easily analyzed. Because in the context of ideological purity yeah lots of times things have very cut and dry answers but if you exist anywhere inside the real world you find that your framework doesn’t work and will be deeply disappointed when people don’t meet your unrealistic and relatively harmful expectations. Approaching some things from an angle of “what is the answer to this question” as opposed to “how should this question be asked, if at all,” is how you can tell if you’re building your politics based on ideological purity rather than in practicality.

[theshitneyspears]