[heavyrain-dc]

“All endings are also beginnings. We just don’t know it at the time.”

— Mitch Albom

[nosylap]

Imagine your ex that you still love, moved in with a new girlfriend. Reaching back to you multiple times and asking you to see each other in her back, you refuse but still he asks. And then his gf send you a message to know what’s going on between you and your ex. And it’s at this moment you discover who you ex really is, he put the separation on my behalf by saying that I hurt him a lot. Whereas I never hurted him, actually it’s the opposite. Plus, we did engage when we were together. And when we broke up I stopped wearing the ring and left it at my place. Until someone broke into my house and steal it with other jewellery. And say to his gf that you send him back his ring and that hurts him a lot. Just imagine..

It did happen to me yesterday (:

I was honest with her and told her the truth she confronted him and he lost his game. And I’m so proud of her for what she has done! It takes a lot of courage to do that.

[nosylap]

You know, one day I hope we meet again. And that we gonna get the chance to finish our story, cause it wasn’t meant to end like this. So I’m going to focus on myself and I hope that you focus on yourself too. Until we’ll meet again. I wish nothing but the best for you.

[karimletrompeur-deactivated2025]

J'ignorais combien j'étais capable d'aimer, d'aimer vraiment, avant de te rencontrer.

[wnq-typography]

What’s Meant For You Will Always Be Yours

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[saedii]

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[thoughtkick]

“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”

— Oscar Wilde

[recaption]

[nosylap]

Few months ago I was broken. Like literally after breaking up with my boyfriend. Last week we saw each other again after nine months. He wanted to get me back, after showing himself with someone else for weeks.. I had the courage to not fall in his arms. I feel stronger and I’m proud of me. Because months ago I begged him to be together again. And when I saw him again I didn’t feel anything.

[l10l-deactivated20200813]

i talk to myself because we have a lot in common

[quotemadness]

“You have a place in my heart no one else ever could have.”

— F. Scott Fitzgerald

[vhscorp]

“Moi, je veux l'attention, l'écoute et les caresses, la passion, le désir, la joie et le plaisir, et puis plein de tendresse…”

— V. H. SCORP

[tbfhprincess]

“But I’m okay now. I thought I’d be enveloped in that sadness and yearning for you forever. Yet I suddenly found myself happy again. I found myself not thinking about you anymore and laughing and truly feeling alive again. Yes, I still miss you from time to time. I think a part of me always will because I loved you both as a signficant other and best friend. And that’s okay.”

— my love for you was just that real.

[aisyahshakirah]

THE QUEST FOR LOVE

Relationships has never been something I’m brave enough to write about, especially in public. The love between a man and a woman to me is very personal. Add religion into the equation and it just becomes very sacred to me. I do not wish to write too long, since I have classes tomorrow at 9am and it’s exactly 4.30am right now. However, I just need to let a few things off my chest because it has been bothering me for quite a while now. Also, due to my hectic schedule, this is the only time I have to write- though I swear to god I’m super sleepy right now

Before we jump into the topic, yes I am single. Have I ever been in a relationship? The answer is also yes. I know how it feels like to love and be loved the same way I know how it feels to be completely shattered. You see, different people have different definitions of love. I strongly believe that the people we fall in love with can sometimes reflect the kind of person we are. For instance, I really value religion, knowledge and ambition. Thus, if i were to marry someone, I look for someone with these exact characteristics. I want someone who has the same goals that I have. Someone who will not only fight with me to succeed in this world, but also in the hereafter. I need someone who works just as hard as I do, not someone who is always tired and only cares about sleep. No more time should be wasted with whiny and lazy ambitionless boys. If you’re serious to pursue a relationship, look for a man.

If there’s one thing a relationship has taught me, it is the importance of maturity when it comes to love. NEVER indulge in a relationship just because it’s a ‘nice’ feeling. If you want to be with someone might as well be with a person who will help bring the best out of you, spiritually, mentally and also emotionally. If the relationship you are in is leading you towards the haraam, leave. No buts. It is just the end of a toxic relationship, not the end of the world. 

By the way people, it is perfectly OKAY to be single. I have been single for over a year now, and wallahi I have never been this happy and I have been achieving so much. I always tell my friends that when you are single, you have 27 hours a day. What it essentially mean is that you’ll have more time for yourself. I know some people who can only seek comfort in the presence of their significant other. After one relationship ends they feel the need to jump into another. Chill people, chill. Take a breather. You don’t need another person to feel sufficient. Try to be comfortable and at peace with yourself with or without a relationship. You have the rest of your life to be spent with your significant other, so while you’re single, might as well really embrace/enjoy it.

Okay last point before I hit the sack, never settle. Ya Allah I can’t stress this enough. Being single is better than being with the wrong person. As they say, it’s better to wait long than marry wrong. If we dont know what we deserve, we will always settle for less. But to deserve more, we should first be more. Build your character before you choose to build a family. Study hard, learn new skills, take up a hobby, read more, travel. There’s so much that can be done when you’re single for your personal development. Take care of yourself. Your health, spirituality, intelligence, akhlak (good character) etc & inshaAllah you’ll get someone who’d do the same for you.

Jim Rohn once said, “The greatest gift you can give somebody is your own personal development. I used to say, ‘If you will take care of me, I will take care of you.’ Now I say, ‘I will take care of me for you, if you will take care of you for me”.

I know this entry is all over the place, but I’m half awake so do forgive me. I hope you find this post helpful. As for me, call me philophobic but I am personally afraid to be in a relationship again. But when the time comes, I hope the guy I end up with will be proud with the lady I have become. If you happen to read this, whoever you may be, please know that not a day passes that I don’t make do’a for you, and for us. Wherever you are in this world, I hope you are also striving to be your best self. May Allah make it easy for us to find our way to each other. See you when I see you! Ending this cringey post with one of my favorite quotes from Rumi,

‘Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.’

Lots of love,

Aisyah

[tbfhprincess]

“I will never understand why you would want to break the heart of someone who only wanted to love you.”

— Excerpt from a book I’ll never write

[tbfhprincess]

“Do I miss you? Or do I miss the feelings and warmth I felt with you? Do I miss you, or do I miss holding onto someone that just happened to be you? Do I miss you, or do I just miss the memories of the old you?”

— Excerpt from a book I’ll never write

[jessasue]

I’d wish you the best, but I’m the best and you lost that.

Instead, I’ll wish you well.