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hello there, I'm a 22 years old girl. Argentina

[vaneltia]

*sees spoiler warning for a thing i like* oh no *reads it anyway* shit i’ve been spoiled

[empressofkalumina]

Standing up and doing a primal scream so loud the whole world would wake up and go, “What’s that?”

But, you know, nice girls don’t do that.

[catasters]

[depression-healthy-carrier]

Depression for me isn’t sad feelings or feelings of being worthless or anything like that. It’s not really having any feelings at all. It’s unrelenting indifference. Not good, not bad, just meh. All the time. I don’t feel good or bad or care about anything; I just exist. It’ll drive you mad after a while

[royalversailles]

Escalier des Princes by Ganymede2009 on Flickr.

[stars-bean]

Heathers (1988) dir. Michael Lehmann

[mjalti]

wanting to dismantle beauty standards but also defining yourself by them

[jimmyhopper]

[caittherunnerr]

What state do you live in?

constant stress

[hell-propaganda]

*ends my father’s bloodline*

[myspacebabe2007-deactivated2021]

<3

[ips-n-caliban]

[sentimental-obsessions]

Year of the Dragon (1985) Interiors

[harpyhormones]

sometimes you just gotta put your hand up your shirt and hold ur boob and thats life

[tastefullyoffensive]

[cattloverss]

[hirsuteandcute]

My body: There’s no baby this month

My womb:

[scorchedearthgirl]

once again, Blair’s mind.,,,

what are your thoughts on ‘skinny shaming’?

[sonderdog]

As someone who has been “thin-shamed” I can say it does Not at all go hand in hand with fat shaming. People “thin-shaming” me was mostly verbal harassment- you’re too skinny, you look like a boy, eat a fucking cheeseburger, what’s wrong with you why don’t you like food?

But guess what, I don’t have a problem finding clothes that fit me. There aren’t companies that refuse to make clothes for my size. There is no shortage of messages telling me that despite the harassment of some, I am still beautiful and ideal even if I’m unhealthy. Despite being thin-shamed, I still PANICKED when I started a medicine that made me gain weight, and I had to really analyze that, because no matter what my culture will still say that “fat is unideal” “fat is bad” and “honestly its fine to starve yourself / but shameful and bad to overeat.”

So “thin-shaming” is shitty because it’s shitty to be judged and have people make assumptions about you. But Fat-shaming is institutional, it’s not just individuals harassment and judgement, it’s potential jobs, it’s clothing companies, it’s media and advertisement, all telling you you’re bad as you are. Like what a way shittier thing.

[mothgoggles-deactivated20210706]

This is the difference.