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Any tips to a fellow writer on how to write smut scene? Because I have no fucking clue @~@
I do. I don’t have hard and fast rules for writing smut and I’ve faced a few criticisms of my smut in the past but since I’m mainly a plot writer versus a porn writer, that doesn’t bother me much. Whenever I’m working on smut scenes, I try to keep some things in mind. One of those things is my Hard and Soft Words. Choosing the right verbiage is essential to setting the mood and determining how you’re going to engage your demographic of readers. Think about who is reading your story and consider how they might want to see sex portrayed (vanilla? kinky? sensual? hardcore?).
Going along with that theme of choosing the right words, you’ll want to consider “Immersion Breakers.” They’re just like those out of the way words or phrases that immediately draw a reader out of their imagination and into the cold stark reality of the real world again. Things that make them cringe or twists their mind around toward outside references. In terms of smut, I nearly never use the word “cunt” in reference to anything because that word is so harsh that it can very often turn readers off to the text itself. (Obviously this is not always the case.)
Some writing professors will tell you that adverbs are the devil. In smut? Those words are your friend. Anything that will describe in an arousing manner how things are happening (breathily, shakily, achingly) is a bonus most definitely and a boon to your scene. Not only that but they can really flesh out a scene and give it some meat that makes it so it doesn’t seem like your characters are racing toward the finish line.
Speaking of racing toward the finish line: let your characters have their foreplay. Take some time to draw in the readers and describe the kissing, the touching, the sucking on the necks and the nipples. Don’t just have someone go for gold right away and then ta-da be done. That’s not how good sex works, usually. It’s difficult sometimes I think for writers to draw out the sex and make it more lengthy than it by all rights should be. I mean if you look at some bodice rippers out there, the sex is like 6 pages long when in reality, typical real sex would probably fill up maybe a half to one page. (Yes, yes, there are some spicy sex-havers out there, I see you and you’re valid.)
Since I’m often at a loss on many aspects of giving advice, I will also refer you to Quinn Anderson’s exhaustive guide to writing smut and I will direct you to the last set of “do and don’ts” that are at the bottom of the article. The rest of it is a good list of words and concepts to pepper into smut scenes that are sometimes interrupted by (very good) advice on how to keep things realistic and honestly pragmatic (such as mentioning STI testing/pregnancy prevention, and proper penetrative precautions alongside oral precautions).
Hiya, Jubi. Been a while, hope you're well. Lovin' all the work I see from you as always. <3 Especially Spencer and Selene pics. They're so cute/cool together. So here's a question, given that I'm still making attempts at getting a nsfw blog off the ground, but I was curious (as always, if you aren't comfortable with answering, no probs): I know you've posted your reference resources before, but are there other venues you use for more risque stuff? Just wonderin!
thanks so much!! ; v ; they’re my otpthe most reference i use is reblogg/other nsfw blogs. if i want to get something specific i might even use video porn sites lmao xvideos specifically SHRUGS. I also use them as inspiration and mood to figure out what i wanna draw.here’s a list of nsfw reblog and art blogs i’ve bookmarked. I would have more but since i save their links only and a blog might change their url i lose the link. Wish sideblogs could have their own dashboard so i could follow them on this account:
Where the hell can i find a girl like you? Your husband is a lucky man to have someone so chill.
So we’re staying with a friend in Venice for this last leg of the vacation right?
And my husband has been cranky because it’s hot and he doesn’t handle muggy/warm weather well. And he’s doing all these bratty things that say ‘I want you to top me a little bit but I don’t want to Ask you to top me’. So in the middle of him calling me stinky and other silly bratty things, I turn on some sexy music.
I go stand at the end of the bed and start casually stripping, and he goes quiet. I’ve got his attention now. It’s storming outside, lightning and thunder and wind whipping the curtains on the windows in our friends spare room. Very romantic, very dramatic.
My husband is a pretty big boi, but I’m quite strong, and quite good at putting him Exactly where I want him to be when I feel like it. (Making big guys feel small and powerless is kind of my kink in case that wasn’t obvious) So I don’t hesitate for a second, I lean over the bed in all my moonlit glory, grab him by both ankles and YANK him halfway down the mattress so it’ll be easier to climb up and sit on his face.
Except I didn’t realize the bed has wheels.
This thing comes slamming MACH 10 Warp Speed into my shin and Wrecks my fucking shit-
The husband hasn’t noticed, he’s completely
So I climb up onto his face and do my thing and he is LOVING it except I can’t actually enjoy any of it because my shin has been shattered to a thousand pieces and I’m wondering if I’m bleeding all over the sheets and this pain is like seeing-stars level SEARING. I’m no quitter though, so I stay up there for about ten minutes before the pain is too much and I climb back off and roll over and grab a book and he’s staring at me and he says “Is that… is that it? Do you want me to-”“No.”
and then I catch myself and throw in a
“I just wanted to Remind you who you Belong to. You can go back to browsing facebook now.”
And he flops over onto his back and heaves this happy sigh
and hits me with the “As if there was Any Question!” So Now I have to
because he can’t ever know that I’m a fucking FRAUD
And you thought Instagram's policy on nipples was ignorant
One week ago, the worst possible legislation curtailing free speech online passed and sex censorship bill FOSTA-SESTA is on its way to be signed into law by Trump.
Hours after the announcement, everything from the mere discussion of sex work to client screening and safe advertising networks began getting systematically erased from the open internet. Thousands — if not hundreds of thousands — of women, LGBTQ people, gay men, immigrants, and a significant number of people of color lost their income. Pushed out of safe online spaces and toward street corners. So were any and all victims of sex trafficking that law enforcement might’ve been able to find on the open internet.
The Senate has passed the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act, or SESTA, and tacked-on FOSTA (Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act), by a vote of 97–2. Lawmakers did not fact-check the bill’s claims, research the religious neocons behind it, nor did they listen to constituents. Significant organizations, including the Department of Justice, ACLU, EFF, and more had assembled to object to the bill both publicly and in letters to elected officials. In the process, law professors and anti-trafficking groups, along with sex work organizations, unearthed the bill’s many alarming legal, constitutional, and human rights disqualifications.
It’s dubbed the “anti-trafficking” bill for the internet, but it’s really an anti-sex sledgehammer. The bill removes protection for websites under Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, and makes sites and services liable for hosting what it very, very loosely defines as sex trafficking and “prostitution” content. FOSTA-SESTA puts into law that sex work and sex trafficking are the same thing, and makes discussion and advertising part of the crime. Its blurry interpretation of sex and commerce, as well as the bill’s illogical, incorrect conflation of sex trafficking and sex work is straight out of a bad movie.
If only the politicians who voted this Morality in Media (NCOSE) mess into law had fact-checked it with Freedom Network USA, “the largest coalition of experts and advocates providing direct services to to survivors of human trafficking in the U.S.“ Freedom Network unequivocally states that protecting the rights of sex workers, and not conflating them with trafficking victims, is critical to the prevention of trafficking. They also have the data to back up the fact that “more people are trafficked into labor sectors than into commercial sex.”
It’s already an unmitigated disaster for free speech in America. Which was, of course, predicted. The Technology and Marketing Law Blog wrote that there’s no mistaking that FOSTA-SESTA violates the First Amendment; it plainly stated that “this statute implicates constitutionally protected speech.”
It’s unconstitutional, but the damage is already being done. Despite the fact that FOSTA-SESTA isn’t even law yet – it could take anywhere from 90 days to until 2019 to take effect – online companies, always dangerously prudish with their algorithms, or hypocritical with their free speech rhetoric, appear to be in a rush to proverbially herd sex workers (and all us people who talk about sex for a living) out of the airlock into places where no one can hear us scream.
Safety resources disappear overnight
Websites are removing content and communities wholesale, the result of FOSTA-SESTA making safer working conditions more difficult by criminalizing digital conversations about sex work, screening tools and discussions about how to be safe doing it.
By way of its ambiguity, FOSTA-SESTA has begun the largest wave of censorship the open internet may ever see.
Craigslist removed its entire Personals section. All these amazing moments can never happen again.
As some may recall, Craigslist already voluntary closed its Erotic Services section in 2010 under pressure from conservative groups. This is despite a study from Baylor and West Virginia Universities, which found that Craigslist’s erotic services page directly reduced female homicides in the US by 17 percent, “principally because sex workers were able to use the free advertising service to move into safer indoor environments and screen clients more carefully.“ Request for comment to Craigslist and our queries asking why Personals was removed ahead of the bill’s signing were not responded to by time of publication.
Within days, Reddit removed entire communities. Notably, its r/escorts and r/sugardaddy subreddits. We asked Reddit for comment about its pre-emptive removal of those subreddits, and how that lines up with the company’s controversial philosophies regarding freedom of speech, but did not receive a response by press time.
Right now, sites and safety resources are falling like dominoes. In short order, sex work networks NightShift, CityVibe, and furry personals site Pounced shut down entirely. Sites that facilitated safety in sex work including The Erotic Review, VeryfyHim, Hung Angels, YourDominatrix, and Yellow Pages shut down their discussion boards, advertising boards, and community forums. Other sites, like MyFreeCams, have changed their policies to ban any talk about transactions of any kind.
FOSTA-SESTA’s timing puts a dark spin on recent Terms enforcement by Google Drive and changes with Microsoft products.
On the Survivors Against Sesta shutdown list of services, growing every day, Google Drive is listed as “deleting explicit content and/or locking out users.“ Google declined to comment on the record, but Engadget was assured via email from a source with knowledge of the situation that the enforcement wave on Drive has nothing to do with FOSTA-SESTA.
Similarly, Microsoft released a Terms update this week that got the company put on the FOSTA-SESTA censorship list as well. A spokesperson for Microsoft told Engadget in an email that the changes are not related to FOSTA. Further, the spokesperson told us, “The recent changes to the Microsoft Service Agreement’s Code of Conduct provide transparency on how we respond to customer reports of inappropriate public content.”
Human canaries in the free speech coal mine
The hashtag #LetUsSurvive is a current rallying point on Twitter, directing attention to the sex work community’s determination to get out of this insidious wave of conservative anti-sex silencing alive. To that end, sex work websites feature guides to self-censoring, the kind of thing you’d expect belongs more in Weimar-era Berlin than coming out of modern-day San Francisco.
Sex workers are right to be scared. They’re facing all this sudden and casually disastrous censorship as a threat to their safety and livelihoods, and are well aware that few are willing or brave enough to fight for their free speech and human rights. Even sex writers such as myself know this; any of us who’ve tried to make a living off anything relating to sex online has a list of products, services, banks and payment processors, social networks, companies, and business tools that everyone else takes for granted — that we are expressly prohibited from using.
It has been a speech issue for a long time, one most people have turned away from as Instagram censors more nipples, as PayPal freezes and shutters the accounts of sex bloggers and book authors, Tumblr deep-sixes erotic artists, and more.
Hateful gamers? No problem. Death threats toward women? Here’s a form to fill out. MAGA racists terrorizing women and people of color off the platform? Gotta hear both sides. But expose a nipple in artwork, discuss non-reproductive sex ed, or talk about making sex work safer by screening clients? Now that’s a misguided business plan guaranteed to create lasting cultural harm. Let’s definitely keep Peter Thiel on the board. If you thought all that was bad enough, just you wait. FOSTA-SESTA is making us disappear before your very eyes — and it will affect you, too.
Under FOSTA-SESTA, we’d most likely have no Stormy Daniels. That Stormy Daniels is making headlines while the absolute worst is happening to sex workers online is not lost on anyone.
“In a titillating cross-section of lawmaking and scandal,” wrote sex worker Morgan Claire-Sirene, “we have on one side Stormy Daniels suing 45 for unlawful payoffs and calling him to account publicly for his associates’ threats against her, and on the other side, legislation that has already silenced common sex workers, with the overlaying intersections of race and class; good whores and bad whores; victims and perpetrators; and misinformation all around.”
Daniels is a perfect lens with which to view the exact way FOSTA-SESTA harms one of America’s largest at-risk populations. Writer Ben Udashen points out, “The level of sex worker whose lives will be harmed by SESTA are not at the same level of fame and notoriety as Stormy Daniels”
“Daniels won’t be caught up in a sting sending her to jail because she had to work as a streetwalker to help pay her rent and feed her children. Daniels won’t have to carry a weapon to defend herself when she meets with a new client.
“Most importantly, Daniels’s children won’t be woken up to the news that their mother didn’t come home last night because she was murdered by a serial killer, a class of criminal who have always targeted sex workers from Jack the Ripper to the Green River Killer. Poor and working class sex workers, regardless of gender identity, will pay that price.”
And for a short moment in history, the advent of the open internet reduced that horrible cost.
God, this man is stupid. I don’t know how he is still in office. Do what you can, you guys, cuz the next couple of years are gonna be fucked up, and take this as an example of how bad it’s gonna be.
Tiffany Haddish getting drunk and telling the story of Rose Valland, an art curator who recovered stolen art from the Nazis during WWII, is everything I’ve never thought I needed in life. Someone PLEASE make this a regular thing with her. I guarantee our children and we, as a society, would learn more from her valuable teachings. [Full video here]
