After learning about the hate transmasc and transmen get, esp from trans women, I was thinking about some dreams I've had in the past. Of the three I was immediately thinking of, I was happy presenting fem. I felt safe, happy, and excited in all of those dreams.
From that, all I could think of was transmen, all having dreams at night where they were living as men in their dreams, Doing stuff and wearing stuff they could only really wear as men.
Then I thought about the hate they got, and what if it was applied to me. How would I feel if a transmasc was calling for me to be masc all the time. How would I feel if I was told the only way the lgbtqa+ community would accept me was if I was masc presenting. How I would feel scared if people around me called for transfem people to be removed, harassed, hunted down, abused, assaulted, just for being transfem leaning.
Over the course of the past few days, I've had to block other transfems cause they openly hated transmascs. They openly hated my brothers just for existing. All I can think about in those cases are how they probably hated themselves so much when they were masc-presenting that they've projected it onto the entirety of the masc population. All the hatred they've felt for themselves, the hatred for other men who they tolerated, all the hatred they felt to masc individuals, they just gone and made it more public.
I'm gonna say it here, but if I catch people, esp transfems, hating on transmascs, I will block you. No questions, no unblocking ever.
I loved user "i-sugest-forcefem" because they were making funny content. I would've loved a user names "i-suggest-forcemasc" for the same reasons. Hearing that the user who made that account got harassed is hurtful. I came across one forcemasc tagged post, and while it wasn't for me, I still liked it, and I wish I reblogged it for any transmascs that view my blog.
LGBTQA+ is inclusive of both Transmasc and Transfem. Anyone trans individual hating or seperating the other is doing more harm than good, and I genuinely hope that they either see their error and change for hte better or get hit by a car.
