q1
the entire world is at my feet and I must stay grounded. It has never been more important. I have proven to myself there is nothing in this world I cannot do, have or desire.
I never gave in to the limiting beliefs of others, because I knew I was born for more. I block out anyone and everyone who tries to tell me that what I want is out of reach - nothing is out of reach and everything is attainable.
Everything I desire is already mine. I chase my goals with the sweetest, yet fiercest kind of determination. I achieve anything I set my mind to. I have an unwavering faith of belief in myself. I am so incredibly proud of myself for all that I am. I am in love with myself. Main character energy only. I am a Disney princess.
self
wake 5am
bed 10pm
water x 3 litres
read & study daily
weekends sailing, surfing & snorkelling
no alcohol, drugs, dating, sex, social media
long hair and designer clothes
toned, athletic body
deportment & etiquette school
lasered skin & laser sharp focus
career
launch ik & bb
presenter
speaker
education & subjects
master of business administration
finances
$100,000 in savings
buy my home
love
#1 what do I love about myself?
I am a sweet, feminine and elegant young woman who is a trailblazer in her industry and an example of what can be achieved. I am an advocate for people raising the bar and reaching their highest potential. I love my ambitious nature and my drive to not only live life to the fullest, but to be the best at anything you set your mind to. I love knowing I am my own independent and unique person who is not restricted by set beliefs of others. I can and will be anyone and achieve anything I desire. I will always be the woman of my dreams.
#2 what do I want my person to love about me?
You value me - I am your number one choice in every lifetime because he knows there is simply no other woman like me and no other choice. My person is obsessed with me, for all that I am, all that I have been and all that I will be. He is my biggest cheerleader. He expects the best of me and pulls me up when I am acting anything less than a quality human being. He loves my ambitious, driven, outgoing and quirky personality. He loves the inspiration and purpose I bring into his life. He loves my open-mind, independence and intelligence. He knows that I am the woman he needs to not only reach all the goals he has in life, but to have the biggest, boldest, grandest experience on earth with.
#3 what is my ideal relationship?
adventurous, inspiring, fun and peaceful. my love language is ambition, impact and purpose - please tell me all of your goals and dreams so we can devise a plan of how you will achieve them. my love language is both subtle and extravagant - please cut my sandwich into triangles when you pack my lunch with a provocative sticky note, but also buy me a bmw. my love language is not fighting - take yourself to therapy and heal your past before you pursue me.
#4 what qualities do you want to express?
love, loyalty, commitment, quality communication, joy, passion and growth.
#5 what would you be like in this relationship?
I am who I am, but bigger, brighter and bubblier! I am the most aligned, confident, determined, joyful and successful me and you only bring more of that out in me, because you are so confident and content in yourself. You have worked to overcome any insecurities of your own and do no project anything but adoration and good vibes onto me. You want me to live my boldest life and to take up space. You love that I am a woman with a mission and you love being apart of that. You simply love every part of me and are so secure in yourself and our love, you don’t need to control me or make me feel bad for wanting the world. In this relationship, I am a pillar of strength for you and your confidant. I hold you down and keep you grounded. I encourage you to always be bigger and better. I am not afraid to tell you what I believe you need to do better and improve on. We do this for each other. There is no bullshit. We have a mutual understanding of the purpose of the partnership - to live out our best and fullest lives.
#6 how do you feel?
safe, supported, feminine, calm, inspired, challenged, empowered.
#7 things that I value
an open minded, non-judgemental human being who wants to hustle and mirrors some of my own personality traits - overly-competitive, hardworking, focused, driven, outgoing, spontaneous, time-conscious, energetic. I value someone who lives his own life - not the life that was written out for him, or that is expected by his friends and family. I value someone with the confidence to live out the life he wants. I value someone who is his own person, with his own thoughts, dreams and beliefs. I value someone who can separate himself from mediocre because he too was born for more. I value someone who is not fixed to a location or mindset, but is secure in his ability to build anything from anywhere we choose. I value kindness, humility and respect - someone who is down to earth and honest with themselves and others, who believes there is always, always room to improve.
#8 dating, marriage & children
I’m a woman on a mission building my empire. my world will attract plenty of good quality people, but there is only one who deserves me. he’ll observe me doing my thing, hosting my event, living out my dreams and he’ll have the confidence in himself to court me in the way I deserve. he’ll know I’m the woman for him - no one else will ever compare. until then, I will continue levelling up and outgrowing people like there’s no tomorrow. I am charging full speed ahead at life, I’m playing with the big dogs, I’m making cash, I’m making a difference and I am on reserve for a king. I’ll have a romance full of roses in hermes handbags, tickets to the theatre, self-love books, outback camping, 5-star hotels, hiking, spear fishing, sailing, salsa dancing, nights at the ballet, gold jewelry, building businesses,
you'll take me to have breakfast at tiffany’s on the morning of our engagement and then you'll take me shopping, because you love my passion for fashion and the way I light up a room when I am wearing my favourite outfit.
you’ll propose to me on top of the EMPIRE STATE BUILDING in NEW YORK - the world’s most powerful city, signifying the power of our relationship in changing not only ourselves but the world for the better. We’ll race each other to the bottom to pack our bags, because you’re taking me on the next flight to Tulum.
we’re engaged and we’re going to mexico baby! THE WORLD IS OUR OYSTER!
three or four children please, hubby. and multiple homes in different locations. we are not fixed to one location, we are a family. home is wherever we all are. we’ll surf, travel, build businesses, make money, make a difference and live the kind of life the average person doesn’t have the balls to.
I am not settling for anything less than everything.
I’m off to continue hustling my ass off, but now I'm coming in hotter than ever before. Starve your distractions, feed your focus. I’ll see you at the top, my darling. How exciting!! x
