Hiya Jayne. This blog is great. I love your authenticity, openness, and stories. Maybe one day I’ll create my own blog about being a nudist guy with a small…appendage. I’ll use the word package, appendage, or willy here :) While I’d had a couple eye-opening experiences skinny-dipping in a pool or hot springs with a woman or group of friends after university - the women were not shy to point out that my package is “small” - I didn’t truly understand that mine truly is small, and the common social awkwardness related to publicly socializing nude, until I started going to nude beaches a few years after those experiences. It was then that I had to come to terms with that knowledge - I’ll usually be the smallest on the beach and everyone else knows it too. But in continuing to go to nude beaches - by myself, with a woman, or just making friends there - I was able to gain quite a bit of confidence and self-acceptance. I’d love to know your thoughts on the social aspect - seeing a guy, socializing with a guy, being in a relationship with a guy, who has a small appendage.
I think there are two aspects here. One, a man’s size in his personal life and his partner’s life. To some women, privately, size might not matter. Or maybe it does. To each her own - we can all have our own preferences. In case you’re wondering, mine is only an inch or two if I’m walking along the beach, and grows to four inches. I’m pretty sure that’s fairly small. If I go to a nude beach with a woman I’m talking to and we see each other nude there for the first time, and if she’s surprised and tells me (as kindly as she can haha) that she doesn’t date guys with small appendages, that’s obviously fine. Thanks for letting me know - no reason we can’t be friends, right? Haha.
That’s actually what I’m getting at and that’s the second aspect - in my experiences, some women are reluctant or embarrassed to be seen, publicly, with a guy with a small package. I could tell you about the times I’ve been told my willy is not really proportionately sized with my sack (thin, short willy and long drooping sack), or that a woman’s lips are longer than me. Ha! Or the times when a woman who, upon getting nude with me when we arrive at the beach, basically has an “OMG” reaction and says she’s too embarrassed to lay out with me or go for walk along the beach with me…she had assumed I’d be at least average since I’m a nudist…lol.
Does my social observation make sense? It’s like, I take care of myself, I’m fit, my appendage works just fine, and a woman might feel like it’s totally fine privately, but publicly, she doesn’t want others to know this guy she’s talking to has a small package. Some people might say that such women are vain or immature and not to even think about it. I get that. But it’s still interesting to me. It can be incredibly awkward, sometimes, for a woman and I to walk up to another person or group on the beach, or for me to do so alone - I’m clearly much smaller and it’s quite obvious. If I were to walk up to you on the beach, there’d be this big (lol) potential issue right in front of you.
If you were to keep the conversation going with me and seemed keen to chat, what’s the proper course for each of us in that scenario - should the woman acknowledge that she knows I know I’m small and am probably wondering if that’s ok, and tell me whether she’s ok with my size? Should I be direct and kind of comically acknowledge my size and ask her if she’s comfortable being seen with me?
Maybe you’re a woman who likes a man with a thin one inch appendage?! Ha! Maybe you wouldn’t mind being known as a woman whose partner is quite small?
It’d be funny if you actually had longer lips that could cover my appendage! I wouldn’t mind that at all.
These are some great questions and i'm glad someone had the confidence to bring it up, i think most in your situation walking around with only an inch would be too shy to talk about it. I feel a lot of men worry about their willy and comparing it with others. I think it's also a bit of a cultural expectation for small guys to be scoffed at or even laughed at too. I've certainly read blogs which have detailed seeing a small willy on the beach and having a laugh about it with friends or partners. I've also experienced it personally too. In reality i think some women are just cautious about admitting publically about liking or even preferring smaller guys. I will openly admit i like them and have always wanted to be joined by a guy with a small willy on the beach. It would be a unique and authentic experience and i've always enjoyed authentic men who are unafraid of showing off a tiny willy. In fact it would create quite a visible asymmetry. When i walk along the beach my large breasts bounce about quite a lot, your little willy would be jiggling along beside me. I wouldn't feel ashamed walking around and having others see us together, i would be happy and proud of your little guy.
You do sound pretty small and I bet it’s been hard to get women to go to the nude beach with you or even dating sometimes?
I’ve been more drawn to below-average men, or dare I say men with really small willies recently as I've seen quite a few on the beach.
I went to the beach with a friend quite recently and we came across a tiny willy, she was very surprised and i don't think she really knew how to react. Maybe i'll be able to write it up properly soon. He was particularly tiny, maybe the smallest i've seen - very thin and maybe an inch long like yours, it looked great.
