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[nurserylamb]

I’ve seen the rise of sanitation and conservative values rise again rapidly in the past decade and the damage that has done to people’s mental health, especially in the agere communities. It’s truely just an excuse to bully people who are different.

I likely will not be returning to instagram or tumblr.

It’s so much better just being myself, even if that doesn’t fit neatly into a box you want me to fit in :3

🦴 I’m Cub (he/him). I’m a disabled queer adult living in so-called australia.

🍟 My side blog is @confetticub. It has bright colours and is based around the ages of 4 to 10ish

🧼 I don’t care what labels people use for themselves. If you care deeply about what labels people use that you personally find uncomfortable or weird, this is not the place for you. Don’t let arbitrary labels become your prison and don’t try to make them mine either.

🐶 I support consenting human adults. I don't like cops. I don't like misinformation or conservative values. I don't like prejudice or bigots. I don't like supremacy of any kind. I like bodily autonomy and human rights. I like unity and public libraries. I like piracy and making knowledge free for everyone. I like deconstructing harmful societal systems.

Read all that? Here’s a reward!

[bubblegum-amoxicillin]

[lil-pup]

Shout out to disabled age regressors who regress because of their disability or in response to their disability

Shout out to disabled age regressors who need to use baby bottles, sippy cups, pacifiers, diapers or things similar even when they aren't regressed

Shout out to disabled age regressors who mostly sleep when they regress because they don't have the energy for much else

[p2061ha]

[bunnybearsmol]

Padded regression is valid!

Wearing diapers/pull-ups is something many sfw littles do for two main reasons: 1) need and 2) comfort.

Some regressors have certain medical conditions that make these items a need. Regression can also affect some people’s bladder control so dips/pull-ups would be also be a need for them.

Dips and pull-ups help many littles regress and stay regressed. The release of responsibility, the sensory experience (using or not using), the nostalgia, the intimacy of a cg changing you, the feeling of safety, the comfort, the cute patterns, everything. It all just makes us feel so tiny and safe and comforted. Some may even wear them when they aren’t feeling smol just because of how comfy and safe they make you feel!

It is nothing to be ashamed of. 💕

[plushieanimals]

[littlestrainbow]

Sometimes I see actual kids, often are barely old enough to be allowed to have a tumblr account (and sometimes not even that), make posts about wanting to be a cg and wanting a little to take care of. And I just want to shake them and tell them that for the love of all that is holy on this wretched earth to not fucking do this! You are a literal child, you should not be taking care of another human beeing! Especially not someone who is older than you, who likely has some baggage, who maybe is in a really bad spot mentally. You are a child yourself.

I say this as someone who was both parentified and let everyone vent to them, no matter how heavy the topic, as a teen: Don‘t fucking do this if you haven‘t allready saved up for therapy in a few years. You are welcome to hang out here, be friends with people, maybe be someones agere/agedre-sibling, idk play house with people. But please, please don‘t be be someones serious caregiver. Go be a child first.

Also a lot of these posts contain so much personal information. Why am I, a random adult on the internet you do not know, able to learn so much sensitive information about you, a literal child? Stop that. Do not post personal information online

Please stay safe

[sweetberryworld]

[littlestrainbow]

Teethers 101!

💖 Teethers are toys that are made to be chewed on (other than Pacis, which are designed to be sucked on). They are called Teethers because they can help relief jaw and tooth aches, especially from new teeths breaking through!

🩵 Most teethers are made from silicone, but some are also made from rubber, hard plastic or wood. These materials will have different textures and you might need to experiment with which you prefer

💛 Teethers come in a lot of different shapes. The most common one is probally simple rings but some also look like animals or have more of a stick-shape. Some are smooth while others have some additional texture. Which one you like most is again gonna boil down to personal preference

💜 Some Teethers are filled with liquid and can be cooled in the fridge or freezer. This can be both nice for sensory stimulation and help with pain. Just be carefull if you freeze your teether since very cold temperatures can hurt you

💚 Make sure to regularly clean your teether! The best way to do this is with dish soap, warm water and a lot of scrubbing. Some teethers can be put into the dishwashers, but always check if your teether can before putting it in the dishwasher

❤️ While you don‘t necessarily need to sterilize your teether if you have a fully functioning immunesystem, you can do so by placing it in boiling water for five minutes. Wait for it to fully cool down before touching it again and be very carefull while doing this

🤍 Make sure to regularly check your teether for damage and to replace it as fast as possible if it get‘s damaged or really gross

Please do not get Teethers or other Little Gear if it puts you into a unsafe situation

[clean-aura]

[stellasnox-deactivated20141009]

[oceantoyz]

[cocainejuul]

I hope everyone grows tired of being cruel to each other soon

[lowpolyanimals]

Labrador Ornament from Animal Crossing: New Leaf

[godpup]

"DNI: freaks" do you realize how conservative you look

[drawnsnake]

A scientific diagram

[leos-regression-cove]

Stealing these photos from a K!nk convention because these looks like so much fun and I wish I could have this environment for non-sexual agere littles.

[moo-moos]

oh.my.gosh. i love all of this

i would so go!!! too bad its k!nk xP im sure one day somethin like this can be made for sfw!!

[fall-warning]

I get that most people here are (mentally) children, but this is embarrassing

you know most spaces like these are SFW right?

like... you can go there and just be small, you know that right?

like nobody's gonna pull their belt off or be a fucking weirdo without your consent, right???

"goddd I would love to be a giant fucking baby in a crib, it's a shame I have to be with all those other giant fucking babies too"

[leos-regression-cove]

Ok... I'm probably gonna lose some followers for this but: FR

One of the big things many age regressors will find if they've spent any time at all in abdl spaces is that MANY of the people who identify as abdl are just age regressors without a better word for it.

In the time after making this post, I have become increasingly more frustrated about the agere community's constant call of separation against the abdl community and open hostility towards it.

Its perfectly okay to think that maybe some aspects aren't for you (personally, I find none of the sexual stuff interests me) and it's also good to say "hm, I'm a minor and don't feel comfortable in this space" (a large reason why I keep my dni, because many minors ARE age regressors)

But the open disgust and hostility from other adults goes frankly way too far sometimes. I need you all to go look for a Little Scouts troop in your area. Go to a munch. They're going to be super nice. People in my area have a Discord for events, most of which are entirely sfw!!

CapCon, where these photos are from, has a significant amount of sfw events, the people there just use slightly different vocabulary to describe their regression and are less judgemental towards people who experience it differently from them.

Look, I get if you're an SA victim or something or a minor who doesn't feel comfortable in these spaces, but can we cool it with the hatred and negativity and judgement?

If we as communities worked together without getting hung up on labels, we WOULD have sfw agere events because the non-sexual abdl community is still larger than the heavy policing sfw agere community.

I'm sorry if this is upsetting for some people. My dni still stands even though I wish it was phrased differently. My content has not changed. I am still a sfw age regressor even though I believe we can be friends with abdl people and don't need to feel shame for buying from brands like Tykables, lkb, etc. Because they were made for a community where some may consider if a fetish. Anyway, now I have irl friends who just use different labels.

[leos-regression-cove]

#events like these are generally sfw btw!#i have been to several littles/babyfur events and they have all been safe for age regressors#especially because some people who use the kink terms are exclusively sfw they just didnt have a term for that when they were discovering it#many older sfw littles are not on sites like tumblr and dont even know an exclusively sfw side exists btw#just food for thought

tags via k1ddiecat

I could have not said it better myself. Thank you for making this sound much more inviting and kind and not seeping with frustration like my rant 😭 You get it.

[confetticub]

SERIOUSLY

Finally some nuance about this on tumblr

I’ve been to non sexual little meet ups they’re great ! Everyone there uses different words for their experiences , but they all prioritise consent and nothing sexual happens there

Next year I’m going to a big littles event like this one but in my country and I’m so excited !