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[pposhspice]

Journal

Treat yourself

Always upgrade your looks

Drink some champagne

Buy yourself some lingerie

Workout

Do your skincare

Read

Change that man if he fucking up with your nervous system

Go out

Look good

Make some money

Repeat.

[eatmangoesnekkid]

If want to thrive in this world, you must remove yourself from the presence of those who subtly show you that they don’t like you, don’t support you, or are envious of you, and place yourself in the presence of those who love and adore you. Sometimes the hardest thing in the world to do is to get honest with the self by seeing people for who they really truly are. Environment matters and relationships shape wellbeing. You become more open, creative, sensuous, rooted, rested, and confident when you spend time around those who are warm, respectful, and encouraging. This is very basic math. -India Ame'ye, Author, What Does Your Social Ecology Look and Feel Like

[lamusedhermes]

Glow up tips?

The right haircut will genuinely make you look and feel better. Shorter could be the answer, unexpectedly.

Ensure that your nails look polished. No need for anything fancy, but be aware of the statement a good simple manicure will give you.

Skin prep is more important than makeup. A glowy and smooth base will do wonders for your appearance.

Related to the previous point, don’t follow skincare trends. Instead analyse your skin type and skin issues and stick to the basics for your specific skin type. Same thing with hair:

Invest in real gold jewellery if you can, they don’t tarnish, give a sensational look and are great assets.

Look out for cotton, linen or adjacent natural fibres rather than scrolling on shein.

Treat your oral hygiene like a must in your routine. Floss, brush, whiten your teeth, use mouthwash and get your teeth professionally cleaned at least twice a year.

A little tweak here and there is nothing to be ashamed of, but try your best to keep it natural. Because it definitely shows.

[keptandkind]

Found this on pinterest unsure of original poster but love

[homunculus-argument]

Being overstimulated is such a weird thing to explain to people. Like "hey sorry, I'm not mad at you and this is nobody's fault and I'm not blaming anyone for it happening, I am aware this is a part of regular everyday life but I am mentally crumbling because There Have Been Things Happening nonstop for 5 hours straight back to back with no breaks, and I really need to sit down in complete silence for like 15-25 minutes, after which I will be completely fine and can proceed as normal. But if I'm not allowed to have that, I will resort to violence."

[sashayed]

has anyone figured out how to turn off the thing where you love your pet so much it slides inexorably into grief-borrowing

[boomstab-papa]

[your-cosmic-creature]

“For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns. If I should tap it, it has a lovely ring to it. But when I put this glass on the shelf and the wind knocks it over or my elbow brushes it off the table and it falls to the ground and shatters, I say, ‘Of course.’ When I understand that the glass is already broken, every moment with it is precious.”

[slfcare]

the very first step of getting over your fears is to have them. just like the first step to getting better is being worse than you wish you were, and the first step to becoming who you want to be is being who you are. don’t let your shame back you into a corner. you can only grow from here.

[chosen2begreat]

11:11

[stricatul]

you deserve someone who sees a misunderstanding as an invitation to connect deeper. not a reason to write you off.

[thereignclub-trc]

What you do in private, shows in public. Reading shows in a conversation. Your diet shows in energy. Your discipline shows in confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching. Prioritize your time & focus on discipline/consistency.

[noelleshells]

Affirmation of the day: I am divinely protected 🧡

[freshpickle]

artist: wednesday holmes (ig @hellomynameiswednesday)

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[fortuneaday]

[chosen2begreat]

11:11

[walkswithmyfather]

“Lord, I was created on purpose for a purpose, intentionally made by You with specific design, brought into existence for reasons that matter, not random or accidental.

On purpose means deliberate, planned, wanted, that my existence wasn't a cosmic accident or biological chance but Your intentional choice to create me exactly as I am.

Teach me that being created on purpose gives my life inherent meaning, that I don't have to search for significance because I was made significant, designed with intention from the start.

For a purpose means my life has direction, that You created me with specific work in mind, prepared good works for me to walk in, gave me gifts and passions that align with Your purposes.

Help me discover the purpose You created me for, to live aligned with Your design instead of chasing purposes that were meant for someone else, to fulfill what You made me to do.

Remind me that purpose isn't always grand or public, that being created for a purpose might mean loving my family well, serving in small ways, being faithful in ordinary moments.

Give me confidence that comes from purposeful creation, freedom from comparing my purpose to others, peace in knowing I'm exactly who You intended me to be, doing what You made me for.

Let me live today embracing that I was created on purpose for a purpose, intentionally made, specifically designed, brought into existence to fulfill purposes only I can fulfill. In Jesus' name, Amen.”

From: “Faithful Grace” (FB)

Amen.🙏

[vexheart]

just in case no one tells you today…..you’re worth having around. you’re worth committing to. you’re worth appreciating. you’re worth loving… you're worth reassuring. you're worth risking it all for. you're worth everything...