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Personal page for whatever 21 F | Nerd | Neet | Gamer & a bit of a Cinephile Occasional (or maybe more frequent depending on my mood) femdom posting :P

[nymphoromantic]

Just wanna say, since I’ve gotten a decent following:

Immigrants get the job done 🤭❤️

But seriously, this is a horny page/random page for me, but if you’re American and support what’s happening right now, this isn’t the place for you, and neither am I for you. Move on and find another page.

Also adding an addendum to this: This blog is not an invitation for sexual messages or porn in my DMs or asks.

[msdk-00]

[nymphoromantic]

Just saw a post by some redpill dude saying, “If you see a woman wearing pink, it means she’s ovulating and she’s more open to approach!”

Disrespectfully. I wear pink all the time. I’m on BC so I don’t ovulate but my hormones do still go up for that week and that is the moment you wanna stay FAR away from me if you’re any man but my sub because I’m doing everything in my power to end up alone with him in a room and tie him up. Any distractions, especially from cocky men, will immediately trigger my temper 😭

[nymphoromantic]

One thing I think over a lot, in kind of the space between kink and disability (I’m physically disabled, don’t mention it a lot) is our social fixation on controlling others through the lens, or by the excuse of, bodily integrity.

It’s the same space that is also taken up by people who dislike tattoos, fatness, body modification, being transgender, taking life altering medication, and even smaller things such hair dyes and drastic hair cuts. Similarly it is the same thing that drives people to make socially acceptable body modifications such as Botox and plastic surgery to remain looking young.

And as someone who’s had to face inevitable change and degradation of the body, and the idea it might change for the worse at any time, it’s an idea that I’ve been kind of forced to think about. And honestly I do see it as an extension of the bodily autonomy debate. Our bodies will inevitably break down and die at some point. There is no way to prevent that. Why is it wrong to take risks with your own body if you’re of sound mind and decide to do so? And why is our opposition to those things so hypocritical?

Why is it self harm to want to be spanked by a dom/me, but not self harm to drink a few glasses of wine? Why is it mutilation to get bottom surgery but not to circumcise? Or to give birth for that matter, as that can also permanently injure your genitals. Why do you eat bacon every morning for breakfast if it increases risk of clogged arteries?

I’m not sure if it’s a modern thing, if it’s only a thing in certain countries (definitely is in America) or if it’s just purely instinctual. And that doesn’t matter to me frankly, even if it is instinct we are able to reflect and rise above, and should be able to think critically about the consequences of restricting bodily autonomy based on emotional reaction and not off of genuine safety and mortality statistics. If we were actually impartially judgmental people would be a lot more disgusted by motorcyclists and guns than they were about people who like impact play.

I haven’t been able to watch the documentary yet but I’ve read people expound on the film “Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist” and researched him myself. He was slowly dying because of cystic fibrosis, and took charge of his own life and mortality by engaging in risky masochistic practices including genital torture.

At first glance this seems horrifying and perhaps like the behavior of a mentally ill man but when you look at how he talks about his life and his motivations it begins to make sense. My condition isn’t fatal (that I know of) but I can relate to being in constant pain and finding sadomasochism a way to deal with that pain. Chronic pain doesn’t release endorphins the way the pain of working out or sexually gratified pain does. It’s just a constant grinding state of misery. If I’m going to be in pain either way, does it not make sense that I’d choose the one that would naturally cause pain relief? The one that also lightens the mental burden, because chronic pain has a tendency to make you contemplate the worst. I’d argue it’s the opposite of self harm (and side note I’d also argue that we don’t treat real self harm well at all).

Mortality will come to all of us whether we want to or not. Change will happen to you whether you want it or not. If life is a glass of water I don’t intend to meet my grave with it still full to the brim. I intend to pour it out as much as I can and meet the end of my life worn out by living but satisfied. I don’t see the purpose of dying a pretty corpse just to be eaten away by beetles the same as everyone else ever has.

I’m not trying to make a point here that you must agree with me, or say that things aren’t dangerous which are. What I want is for people to spend more time and thought on the topic, and examine why they might have such a knee jerk reaction to some things. This is mostly just a half-baked ramble of a philosophy I haven’t been able to adequately define yet.

[nymphoromantic]

Time for my monthly reminder:

This is a page for me to share my thoughts and fantasies, and for uplifting male submissives. I love seeing all the nice comments from male subs about how my posts make them feel happy or give them hope for finding a dynamic like mine. I like the platonic compliments and appreciation, and I love seeing people who relate to me. I appreciate all the support from those people for my blog <3

But what I do not like is being hit on and I’m not interested in taking on any new subs or receiving sexual advances. That goes double if you’re an old white dude.

I have a dedicated sub. He also happens to be bodybuilder, looks like he’s straight from one of my favorite Kdramas, and he lets me do literally whatever I want to him and can make me cum multiple times from penetration alone. TMI, I know. There’s nothing in this world that could pry me off of this man.

I’d pin a post like this but my pro-immigration post is more important to me to stay pinned.

[softdomsworld]

male “dommes” that slide into ur dms thinking they automatically get access to you because they’ve branded themselves as “daddy” are repulsive and gross.

[nymphoromantic]

Same goes for the subs and switches that won’t leave me alone recently. Coming into my DMs and demanding me to prove my dominance to you? Please. I love all the sweet people that follow me and engage respectfully with my posts but that’s not it.

[nymphoromantic]

Name of the K-drama????

Love and Leashes! I put it in the tags but it’s mixed in there with my usual femdom tags.

[nymphoromantic]

Just found a femdom Kdrama, excited to watch it this evening. It’s supposed to be good from what I looked up and I’ve been dying to find a good femdom show/movie, let alone one with the sub being a man of color. I get tired of seeing white subs when my baby boy isn’t and I want to see somebody like him </3

[lasdregas702]

[nymphoromantic]

Me and my subby boy <3

[nymphoromantic]

I’d like to clarify first and foremost that this isn’t judgement towards people who like sissies or feminization as humiliation at all! I’m always happy to see people doing whatever makes them feel good.

That being said, I do wish there was more of a basis for feminization that wasn’t solely for the humiliation aspect. I find it incredibly attractive when masculine men wear traditionally “feminine” attire or makeup confidently, or when they dance in a more stereotypically perceived as “feminine” way and own it. Male belly dancers/pole dancers that do the same routines as women do, for instance. If there’s some level of discomfort (past a bit of cute shyness) then I don’t find it as attractive. I’m also not the biggest fan of feminine = acting childish being the default, which is why I do not like Femboys as a general genre 😭 Fem Men who emulate the actions of a mature woman will always be more sexy to me.

And that isn’t to say there’s anything wrong with people being into any of the things I don’t like. I just think of it kind of as Mix & Match, if humiliation and feminization align together for you that’s great! I don’t think it should be the assumption that they have to go together.

[nymphoromantic]

Does Mistress allow dms?

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I don’t answer DMs or comments seeking sexual attention, but if you’ve got practical questions or comments I’ll get to them as I can. I’ve answered a few in the past from baby dommes/subs looking for advice or just wanting to drop a quick compliment. I’m just not looking for personal sexual attention from this blog; me and my sub are dedicated monogamous and I post more as a form of expression/sharing interest as opposed to seeking anything from others.

Thank you for asking respectfully though, I’ve had a lot of people who don’t 😭

[alexandritefang]

Let's normalize rewarding good boys whenever they do something good. They won't mind getting their shirts pulled up to get publicly teased, everyone around would know he's just receiving a deserved reward. They should have a favourite toy to carry with hem to have a great time getting praised and spoiled. He even get to choose what kinda of reward he wants. Being used as breeding toy? Cumming on my hand? Overstimulation? Come on, you did such a good job, now tell me, what do you want to do to you?

[nymphoromantic]

Woman who can hip thrust x Man who can twerk

[nymphoromantic]

Subby boy has been slowly trying to change my mind on not liking puppy play, so as punishment I showed him exactly how a good dog should behave.

No more asking Mistress to do things, because good dogs don’t beg do they? They wait patiently until Mistress comes to play. Good puppies don’t grab, they keep their paws to themselves. And they certainly don’t talk, good puppies whine and pant. Good dogs stay on all four paws so Mistress can check their puppy parts and make sure they’re working. It’s getting so big and hard, and puppy doesn’t know what to do? Just let mistress handle it, good puppies are obedient and trust mistress to know what’s best for their bodies <3

[butchdykecxck]

"I hate pillow princesses because they won't do what I want them to do and they won't have sex the way I want them to and they aren't real lesbians if they don't eat pussy and they should just fuck the way I want to and-"

You disrespecting and overstepping peoples sexual boundaries is not cute or revolutionary just because you're a dyke

[nymphoromantic]

Ik I mostly post about men on here, but I’m bi and I love stones and princesses and any other unconventional queer dynamic. It’s not for me personally (frankly I’m a bit closer to a princess than a stone) but I love seeing women comfortable in asking for exactly what they want sexually, whatever that may be. Also I’ve literally never ONCE seen a stone who isn’t exactly where she wants to be so trying to argue they’re being exploited as a group is ridiculous 😭

If you don’t want to have a certain type of sex with somebody that’s fine, but I’m sick of how much it happens within the queer community where we shame people’s likes/dislikes/sexual boundaries with fake-leftist phrasing.

There is no ethical way to ever make somebody have sex they don’t want to have. I don’t know why that’s still a hot take but unfortunately a lot of conversation about consent has completely lost the plot and it’s back to, “Consent is when people partake in sex I find good and correct!” and not, “Consent is when all parties involved are informed and choose enthusiastic participation in the act”.

[nymphoromantic]

Have to go out to dinner with subby boy’s parents (that I don’t like, they’re mean asf to him sometimes) tonight while I’m insanely horny for him. Pray for me guys I’m so fucked

[nymphoromantic]

And people ask me why kpop is my favorite genre like it’s not obvious 😒