Today is going to be a good day

🔑 Don't stay here too long. 🔑 You deserve better than this 🫂🩷

[occasionaltmblrforafreehero]

I'm trying to stay off Tumblr!

And I'm succeeding 🥳🎉! Now I'll be here every sunday, whenever possible!

But I don't have all of you on discord, and I do have a queue and scheduled posts... so, for those who care to know if I'm online or not, check bellow:

If you're a radfem, my heart is with you, and you deserve everything good in this world 💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰!

@ trans women:

☝🏻Will never include you 🤭🖕🏻but will always include racialized, bissexual, lesbian and disabled women of all nationalities and social classes 💜💜💜👩🏼‍🤝‍👩🏿👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏽👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏼♀️

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#SallyMillerGeahardtWasRight

From Andrea Dworkin's 1976 book Our Blood: Prophecies and Discourses on Sexual Politics

The spambot saga

Part 2

Antibot resources

Tumblr is a place to express yourself, discover yourself, and bond over the stuff you love. It's where your interests connect you with your

[tordenvejr]

why are you repeating a pattern you want no part in? remember who you are.

[mooned-knights]

is anyone else annoyed that "ai" encompasses both chatgpt and tools we train to do repetitive tedious work for us. and by the ripple effect of articles like "scientists develop ai to detect cancer early" that make people argue for the merit of chatgpt or become anti-medicine. and by the general state of the world and society

[radical-song]

If you feel unsafe asking questions, you are not in a safe nor healthy environment and the people therein are most definitely not looking out for your best interests.

[mysterycat-official]

this is great joke

[innerchildabortionclinic]

something good happens to those who take one

[patrickbatemanamericanpsycho]

Is this real?

[xwiredearbuds2014x]

Yes <3 nature is full of miracles

[patrickbatemanamericanpsycho]

Waow…

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

David Sedaris’s opinion on the word queer, and a few dumbass fucking idiot comments.

one and only smart comment:

these people want to be able to claim "weirdness" and "avant-garde-ness" without having to actually define whether they are gay or straight or bisexual (probably because they're straight). but thanks for once again lumping same-sex-attraction in with weirdness and unconventional lifestyles when gay activists worked for literal decades to say "hey, we're just like you, we're normal people who just happen to like the same sex". it's funny how all these people all calling david sedaris old, and saying he just doesn't get it. well maybe you're young, and YOU just don't get it. you don't get how queer was and is used as a derogatory slur especially towards gay men, and specifically used to call homosexuality WEIRD and STRANGE, and so maybe david is confused why suddenly non-gay people are adopting the word to call themselves weird and strange for being kinky or having threesomes. YOUUUUU don't it, he gets it more than you, you gen-z spicy straight queer. "maybe I don't want to invoke exactly who I have sex with" okay then don't come out?? don't come out as queer then...? you want to come out at queer, but not tell anyone who you have sex with. good plan. so you want the social cool point and oppression points without actually coming out of the closet, sorry but you can't have both. if you don't want people questioning who you have sex with, maybe don't mention your queerness. that's like announcing that you're a very pious religious person, and then when people ask what religion you practice, you're like "I don't want to invoke exactly what religion I practice". then maybe don't bring it up?? and claiming that david "doesn't want to make space for anyone else"... yeah maybe he doesn't want to make room for spicy straight polyamorous kinksters to be lumped together with him as a homosexual man.... I think that's pretty fair! inclusivity is not always good and positive. exclusivity is not inherently mean, problematic or evil. we don't have to make space for everyone. you can tell most of these people are not actually homosexual or bisexual, otherwise they wouldn't have felt called out by what david said. whatever, have fun with your threeway, but leave gays and lesbians out of it please.

[dawnthekitty]

People ragged on hipsters so hard they ran under the LGBTQeverything umbrella so they could call people who made fun of them bigots.

[realist-fortheloveofwomen]

Coward OP turned off reblogs so I’m making my own post.

Absolute peak “not like the other girls” behavior. Holy shit. Do they think women and girls love having a higher chance of being victims of sexual and physical assault, love getting lower wages, love being told they’re inferior, love being told their natural body is ugly, like…? Being a girl fucking sucks in a patriarchal society.

Secondly, women aren’t even seen or treated like humans. Like be for real throughout most of human history, women were second class citizens. Couldn’t vote, couldn’t own a credit card, couldn’t own land, etc etc blah blah.

There is no “woman” feeling. Not wanting to be feminine, not wanting to wear dresses or be quiet and small and compliant, doesn’t make you a man you fucking misogynist. You’re exactly like the other girls. We are in the same sexual class whether you like it or not.

“I feel like a man” WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? I don’t fucking feel like a “woman”, normal people don’t feel like sex based categories or made up manly/feminly bullshit. You can’t feel like a man because being a man isn’t a spiritual experience, it literally means nothing to “feel like a man”. There’s no “man” feeling .

Imagine if I said “I feel like a plant” , like . Okay whatever , now imagine I said “I feel like a clover. I’m going to enter in the tallest and heaviest clover contest!!” And now imagine the farmers get angry at me because I’m not really a clover. But… I FEEEELLL like a clover!! This is how gendies look.

Also I legit thought this person was 13 until I read their bio. They’re 23…. And a “gay” trans man (straight woman). It’s always the straight TIFs that are the most misogynistic on god.

[byelmfaoooo-deactivated20220301]

#girlslikeus was a hashtag for survivors of trafficking.

Cotton ceiling was taken from the term “glass ceiling.”

“Nothing about us without us” was from the disability movement.

Think about that for a minute.

[pastafem-deactivated20211225]

- #TransGirlMagic (original: #BlackGirlMagic)

- #TransExcellence (original: #BlackExcellence)

- #TransIsBeautiful (original: #BlackIsBeautiful)

- #TransLivesMatter (original: #BlackLivesMatter)

- #StopTransHate (original: #StopAsianHate)

- "This is what I was wearing when I was misgendered" (original: "This is what I was wearing when I was raped")

- "Trans rights are human rights" (original: "Women's rights are human rights")

- "Coercively assigned female/male at birth" meaning "doctors gave me a gender identity when I was born" (original: intersex terminology for genital mutilation happening to intersex babies so they "fit" a certain sex more, not necessarily their actual sex but whatever sex the doctor decides)

[in-di-visiblewoman]

It infuriates me because Asian-Americans VERY CAREFULLY chose “Stop Asian Hate” over “Asian Lives Matter” because we knew it would be inappropriate to appropriate terminology from BLM. I’m incredibly angry the Trans movement has hijacked both of these instead of making their own slogans or terminology.

Also, someone else mentioned it somewhere in the notes but “passing” was also stolen from POC.

[radkindoffeminist]

They're too dependent on activism and theories and histories from other movements to ever do something unique because they are not a rights movement, but misogyny and homophobia pretending to be progressive. How many times do we have to hear stuff like ‘trans women are women like black women are women’ and ‘people thought being gay was wrong/weird and now trans people are experiencing that’ and ‘to deny trans/NB identities is to deny the identities of non-white cultures which is racist’?

The trans cult hasn't had an original thought. They're a parasitic movement which takes from others to make some weird mix of points in order to convince everyone that the right, progressive thing to do is support them.

[templeofpoes]

(sorry for the addition!)

they also stole "would you rather have an autistic kid or a dead kid" that was originally about vaccinations.

[hugewoman]

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

so this straight woman posted some bullshit about why lesbians date masculine women when they could just “date a man” instead because masc lesbians are basically men anyway and are “lacking in equipment”, and this stud I follow stitched it and said what you see on the screen. then I commented in agreement saying that lesbians are same-sex attracted, not same clothing style attracted, and my comment was getting likes and the creator liked it.

but of course, I mentioned that lesbians are same-sex-attracted and like pussy so it only took a few hours for the “this is transphobic” crowd to show up. I’d love to know their response to the straight woman’s question about why lesbians date women who literally have everything in common with men except their female sex. what? their internal identity? I’m so fucking over it as you can see in my mean asf responses

[a-broader--sensibility]

“Women who don’t perform femininity and cater to male fantasies are secretly men pretending to be women by inhabiting female bodies since birth.”

[rudefemyukakoyamagishi]

God I want to kill this man with my bare hands

[furiosafemale]

“Eggiest person” irony of this being a reference to “secretly trans” lol women in general are the “eggiest” because we produce eggs in our bodies, right?

Someone once told me I might have a “male gender identity” but i told them I literally have 4 brothers and grew up with mostly boys to play with on the street as a kid. You think spending so much time with boys and doing “boy things” might have rubbed off on me? Imagine if I thought that somehow meant my body was wrong… crazy

[doebifem]

people calling terfs/radfems conservatives is FRYING ME!! 😭

like one, they usually mean America’s conversatives while radical feminists are around the globe.

and also, when has conservatism been pro women? like what??

[femmusings]

[prodigalwitch]

women will describe the most unempathetic, uncaring, detached behavior from their boyfriends and then be like "idk should i say something to him?" like babe i think you should kill him

[prodigalwitch]

if she killed him, it would simply be self-defence

[loserdogma]

Like either way I do hope he is never seen or heard from ever again

[kiefbowl]

I believe this is less detached than you think, he is emotionally abusive at best. He is doing this intentionally. He is attempting to gaslight her. She revealed something exploitable about herself, and he's exploiting it. Abusive men start with "small" arguments that seem impossible to have as a rational adult, and so the reaction from the victim is usually "I must be missing something...maybe if I explain." This is the purpose, to start making her feel detached from reality. This is why they come on reddit to ask if they're overreacting - his abuses are working. He has slowly moved the needle to the point she losing grasp on what is rational and true. I can't be sure, obviously, but I would bet the pillow thing is just one of many, many, many things he is doing to slowly skew her reality.

I only say all this not to say OP or anyone in the notes are wrong, but to remind people that the knee jerk reaction you have, of listening to a woman's bizarre situation and going "huh?? what are you talking about??" that's by design from the abuser. He wants you to believe she's crazy and out of touch and weak minded, and that he's just some oaf she's too stupid to dump. He doesn't mind if you think he's an oaf, if it gives him more control of her in the long run.

[evilgothmisandrist]

“ITS CULTURE!!! ITS THEIR RELIGION!!! ITS THEIR TRADITION!!! YOU ARE BEING RACIST!!!”

i do NOT care ! 😍 if it’s misogynistic i AM going to hate on it ! 🙏

[watermelinoe]

good evening, ladies and penis-owners

[carbatteriez]

the transphobes aren’t even trying to hide it nowadays huh

[watermelinoe]

what, is there something dehumanizing in being referred to by your body parts or bodily processes?

[bubbtub]

Every time women adapt in order to overcome the strength disparity between us and men as a way to defend ourselves in a worst case scenario or avoid danger altogether... That adaptation comes to be seen as a sign of cowardice by men.

Poison being a "woman's weapon" in a disparaging sense. Self defense laws expecting people to act in ways that are only really accessible to men and women who choose to strike at a later time being demonized. Gossiping to turn the community against him and seek refuge that way (plus making sure no other woman is blindsided by his behavior) being seen as trashy.

More modernly, leaving someone over text being considered a terrible and inconsiderate thing. I remember this being a plot point in so many cartoons and tv series for tweens growing up. It's so insidious to brainwash girls into believing they owe someone, usually a guy, a "dignified breakup" when that has so often gotten women killed. I dunno, men trying to socially punish women for not playing their honor games when they've never acted honorably towards us has been pissing me off as of late.