[odetodawns]

hiya ! you can call me dawn. twenty-one. she/her & feminine descriptors only, please. high/stone femme4butch lesbian. black-indigenous latina.

minors & men dni — there will be a mix of nsfw & personal things on this blog! anything nsfw is about butches, studs and mascs only!

⋆˚✿˖° dms & inbox are open.

[saffisme]

providing non-sexual dominance can be so fulfilling. making choices for someone who trusts you? gently guiding them with a hand on their back? drawing them closer when it's crowded? noticing and fixing their messy hair? leading them through busy areas by holding their hand? caring for their well-being by suggesting when to eat or sleep? god tier

[amanifai-deactivated20260303]

[odetodawns]

as a black femme i do often find butches (not studs) view us as quite disposable. we are physically and sexually desirable, we often uphold key pillars of the b/f community, but we aren’t good enough to be considered serious contenders for romantic partnership. and when we express a desire for it, we are told to focus on our friendships and community — as if that act can replace the innate desire for intimate companionship. for all i love this community, i wish i felt more valued in it by the counterparts i gave my all to.

[odetodawns]

[butchb4it]

i’d say good afternoon but i’m not rubbing my hands up and down a tattooed butch’s arms and telling them how handsome they are

[mamiboss]

[odetodawns]

went on a date last night and she asked me why i’m femme4butch. i just loved that question and i was as honest as can be.

i’m femme4butch because there’s nothing like holding a butch’s face in your hands and watching them smile when you call them handsome.

knowing i perform this hyperfemininity just for them. matching sets and dolly makeup and skirts just an inch too short all for the chance of catching their eye.

because in my arms and in my bed there will be no safer place for my butch.

because to the world we may be hard to understand, because my butch may be my physical provider but i will always be their emotional protector. 🩷

[sinekliv0dka-deactivated2022041]

[petallfemme]

when your partner gets off on getting you off. he’s three fingers deep in you and you’re writhing and he’s all wide eyed panting over it, asking you to give him one more

[odetodawns]

moved in my new place … built furniture and carried things on my own … call me a hard femme

[saintdraven]

there's just something about calling your butch handsome, boyfriend, and 'good boy' like mmh... all the gender affirming terms they would want really

i'm twirling my hair yearning about it, i'll do anything to be granted the privilege in treating a butch so well. i'd dress them up in clothes they feel comfortable in and doing acts of service for them like they always do for everyone

[adoredaqua]

being with a "yes ma'am" butch would fix a lot of my problems

[indigomood]

Bound (1996)

[odetodawns]

this scene is textbook butchfemme like omg omg omg. dizzy everytime i rewatch this movie, a beautiful example of how we find one another — how we posture, how we flirt, how sensual gendered performance is. i could write an essayyyy

[odetodawns]

please do not save or repost 💗

currently adoring how my ice cream matched my bikini perfectly… yes this was an excuse to tit-post on main

[houseofpotatos]

Sometimes it’s hard to feel delicate, dainty, feminine, pretty, loved…

when no one has ever loved me like that.

I tell other people to have self-love.To be kind to themselves.To treasure the small, gentle parts of who they are.But I don’t keep that same softness for myself.

And maybe that’s why I love lace, pearls, pink ribbons, dainty rings - because they remind me of the girl I wish I treated like something precious. The girl I already am, even if I forget it. One day, I hope I’ll love her the way she’s always deserved.

[bubblepl]

the strong lesbian urge to worship a stone butch's muscles, caressing the veins that line their arms and their thick waist. so beautiful for me in every way.

letting them handle me however they want to because it makes them feel so strong and proud of all of their work. whatever you want baby.