お嬢様⋆˙⟡

Digital Victorian princess running on Windows XP! J-Fashion, Self-Shipping, and everything that makes me, me! she/he/they | adult | proships/fetish blogs DNI spam: @brandcourtesan | speciality blog: @butlers-cafe

[ojo-sama]

ごきげんよう！

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Call me Ojousama. I'm your Digital Victorian Princess Running on Windows XP! On this blog, I post my art, mostly self-ship, and my outfits, mostly lolita, among other things.

My hobbies and interests include video games, anime, listening to music of all kinds, singing music of all kinds but especially jazz, J-fashion especially lolita, surfing the net, and learning Japanese, among plenty of other things.

I'm an adult and I use she/he/they pronouns. I avoid minors on principle but interacting is OK. I don't intend to post anything more than PG13. I try to tag common upsetting topics.

I block liberally, please don't take it personally.

I tag my lolita posts as "#lolita fashion" and things related to self shipping as "#selfship", so if you follow me for one you can mute the other.

I have a spam blog for reblogs and unpolished posts on @brandcourtesan, and I have a sideblog for my special interest, Tokyo's Butler Cafe, @butlers-cafe.

I can also be found on my website.

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Thank you for visiting!

dividers by @dollywons

[ojo-sama]

New Blog Post!

I spend multiple paragraphs complaining about AI. I'm sure this will be a hit with Tumblr users.

[brandcourtesan]

as a reminder

thank you

[stupidlittlespirit]

This is so silly but I'm watching a short video essay on sincerity in cinema and the creator is talking about how he watched Lord of the Rings for the first time at 17. He explains that he'd grown so used to the 'ironic' meta style commentary in the movies of the 2010's that as he was watching the opening narration of LotR, he spent the entire time waiting for the joke to come. For someone to take it all back with a zinger line. He listened to Blanchett describe and explain the backstory, and he waited for the other comedic shoe to drop.

And he kept doing it. Scene after scene.

He spent the film expecting someone to make a joke about how unserious things were or to break the fourth wall or do some other self referential type thing.

Now, maybe I'm just at that point in my cycle or maybe I'm too delicate in general, but I literally teared up hearing that. Straight up cried a bit. It is so fucking sad that sincerity and genuineness is being bred out of people.

People say all the time 'this generation can't take anything seriously!' and really, is it any wonder? Younger people have been trained out of it. You are no longer encouraged to be genuine or show emotion or be honest. You are actively punished for it. In fact, you are almost guaranteed to suffer for it.

That is so fucked up. I'm sorry to go on a bit of a random ramble rant but it's so fucking gut wrenching to see younger people lose that element of themselves. You can't express your passion without being told you're 'crashing out' or 'cringe'. You have to live in this neutral state of fear of perception, and god forbid anybody step outside of it!

You're told you should only consume and succumb and be ironic and emotionless and cool.

Listen, if you're following me and you're like.... 25 or under, let's say. Please. I beg of you. Do not fall for this rhetoric. Please, for the love of all things, feel. Feel and create and be honest with yourself. Indulge in things that make you happy. Be sincere. Wear your heart on your sleeve. Do not let this hyper-capitalistic, hyper-consumerist, self-centred, individualist culture take that from you.

Bleed yourself into the work you create. Live. Don't fucking let anyone tell you different.

[ojo-sama]

Lolita ISO

It's now my life's mission to find Metamorphose's 2014 "Clan Chateau" Rose Satin Jacquard JSK, a collaboration with Butler's Cafe Swallowtail. I'd prefer navy, but I'd love either color.

I would be willing to pay a good price for it, especially with its matching headpiece.

If you've got one to sell, please message me or email me at [email protected]

[ojo-sama]

Lolita ISO

It's now my life's mission to find Metamorphose's 2011 "Le Boudoir" "Satin Back Shantung Ribbon Pinafore Dress" JSK, a collaboration with Butler's Cafe Swallowtail. I'd prefer navy, but I'd love either color.

I'd be willing to pay a good price for it.

If you have one to sell, please message me or email me at [email protected]

[ojo-sama]

Busted out my chocolate coord again in spirit of going to see Anthurium x3 Yurino and Kumagawa keychains on my bag to match.

I also had to make sure you could see my eye because it's my first time going out in falsies!!

[ojo-sama]

Blog Update!

I've finally updated my blog. Have a look if you'd like:

[ojo-sama]

Seeking sage Lolita advice

Angelic Pretty's Melty Berry Princess OP is a big dream dress of mine. I heard that in China, MBP was sold as a set of OP and JSK, so that there were a lot of listings on Xianyu for leftovers and that that would be a good place to look.

I've also heard that Xianyu is full of fakes, and that Xianyu has its own unique culture and procedures.

Would a wise learned Lolita be willing to provide guidance and help me find a legit dress?

[ojo-sama]

Opps hate me cuz I'm sweet like chocolate (≧∀≦)🍫⭐️

Coord Details:

KC, Blouse, JSK, Bag, Socks: BABY, THE STARS SHINE BRIGHT

Hair Clips, Earrings, Ring: A Drop

Shoes: Metamorphose Temps De Fille

[ojo-sama]

Today's coord picture is accompanied by the butterfly I saw when I left the house. Today's gonna be a good day :)

Coord Details:

Headdress, Blouse, JSK, Socks: BABY, THE STARS SHINE BRIGHT

Necklace, Ring: 魔法のレシピ

Bag: &chouette

Shoes: Metamorphose Temps De Fille

[ojo-sama]

Totally chuffed over this closetchild find ( ＾∀＾)

The purse isn't a perfect match but it's an ita bag on the other side and it's essential today xP

Coord Details:

KC, Bolero, OP, Necklace, Socks, Umbrella: BABY, THE STARS SHRINE BRIGHT

Earrings, Ring: Amoureuse de Toi

Bag: &chouette

Shoes: Metamorphose Temps De Fille

[ojo-sama]

Had to make sure you can see the teacup ring.

Coord details:

Headdress, Blouse, JSK, Pochette: BABY, THE STARS SHINE BRIGHT

Socks: Metamorphose Temps De Fille

Shoes: Dr. Marten's

Jewelry: 魔法のレシピ

[maxpawb]

furry designs for sale on toyhouse

[butlers-cafe]

TOXIC

Butler's Operetta "Spring Concert" 2026.04.11

Photography and recording were permitted at this event.

[ojo-sama]

Happy autism awareness month you should totally check out my special interest blog

[ojo-sama]

Photographer Ojousama appears for the photography-permitted live!

Something so poetic about my giant camera that I'm taking to the Butler's Operetta show juxtaposed by my autism help mark. Environmental storytelling or something.

Coord Details:

Headdress, OP, Socks: BABY, THE STARS SHINE BRIGHT

Jewelry: 魔女のレシピ

Cuffs, Bag: Chalmiere

Shoes: Metamorphose Temps De Fille

[ojo-sama]

Got dressed up for the monthly photo contest, trudged through the rain, and they didn't have the thing I wanted to buy in order to participate. But hey, as always, at least my fit was hard.

Coord Details:

KC, Blouse, JSK, Socks, Purse: BABY, THE STARS SHINE BRIGHT

Hair Clips, Jewelry: A Drop

Shoes: Metamorphose Temps De Fille