[oldandnothingtosee]

A lot of people are just stupid.

[oldandnothingtosee]

Something about spring time...

[depsidase]

[oldandnothingtosee]

A lot of people are just stupid.

[utwo]

A 600 sq ft A frame + bunkie in Muskoka Ontario

© trottocottage

[everythingstarstuff]

[gentlemanmotorslifestyle]

[omgthatdress]

Putting these up for anyone who needs them today.

Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan Forward

Why Does he DO That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

[superopinionated]

Cannot recommend WDHDT highly enough. I’ve found it helpful not just for romantic relationships, but also for growing up w a “unexplainable/uncontrollable” dad.

IT HAS ALSO BEEN REALLY HELPFUL FOR UNDERSTANDING ONLINE MOB HARASSMENT.

So if you’ve ever been bombarded w threats to be raped/killed, (so…if you’re a minority and you’ve been on the Internet for a while), this book might be useful for getting clarity around the whole entitled, abusive mindset that drives certain kinds of people to behave that way. And by “getting clarity”, I mean (for me) being able to go “oh, that’s what’s happening” and not really feel scared anymore. Or angry, or drawn out into it, or anything.

And if you’re still standing around going “but how does something like GamerGate happen?” or “but why do men hit their wives?” or whatever – please read that book and learn something.

[omgthatdress]

^^^^ truth WDHDT is fantastic at cutting down MRA bullshit and calling it what it really is

[kithnkin]

Also recommending

[swampseer]

Please consider reading these. WDHDT is really, really helpful. And I know some of you are struggling with abusive relationships, friendships, families, etc. You’re not alone. There is help.

[heysawbones]

Yo. This family holiday, please, please take care of yourself. You aren’t there to be anybody else’s cushion.

[robotsandfrippary]

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

Reading any of these books does not mean you don’t love your parents or family.  It’s just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors. 

[anna-mator]

A gentle reminder that I have Toxic Parents as a FREE PDF if you would like to download it and read it on your own. Take care of yourselves.

[lennybaby2]

Somebody tag Olivia Pope. Lol.

[nevertrustamanwho]

Here’s a working link to Why Does He Do That

[mortifiedfounderrefocusbats-dea]

[garrus-vakkarian]

(link)

the thought of a trilogy remaster….

[oil-diffuser]

This is just so powerful

[imp-deactivated20171219-deactiv]

i think liberal sex positivity has robbed people of their ability to tell the difference between “im doing this because i want to” and “im doing this because pleasing men makes me feel good due to all these other factors that im completely ignoring”

[totally-regular-hiding-place]

why you gotta gender this statement?

[user87262893]

Because the reverse is not structurally conditioned into men.

Men are not encouraged to maintain hairless genitalia, to be okay with being choked out or degraded during sex to please women, accept large objects up their anus to please their wives/girlfriends, allow battery to their bodies to “keep things fresh”, expect internal bruising after sex because of how rough their women treated them, expect tearing parts of their genitalia during sex, expect bleeding from their genitalia during sex, etc