Welcome to my Shame Cave

My NSFW Blog- 18+ only. Just stuff that I'm in to, including spanking, orgasm control, pegging, and bondage. Some kink, Some not. I'm 25, bisexual, trans male, very submissive. Aries if it matters.

[yassmines]

slap my ass? 🥺

im social distancing rn 🥺

[sunnyapartment-deactivated20221]

[dirtylittlebookworm]

Tie me to your bed. Cuff me wrists to ankles (like please god do this) so I can’t go anywhere. Tie me up, tie me down, hogtie me, I don’t care. Literally immobilize me so that all I can do is tug at my bonds and know that they’re secure.

Hold the hitachi to my clit and watch me writhe against it and let me get so so so close and then when I’m ready to cum take it away and laugh and tell me good girls have to earn their orgasms. And then do it again and again and again.

Or, if you’d prefer, bind me and hold the hitachi against me and make me cum over and over and over again until it hurts and when I beg and whimper and whine and cry that it’s too much, smile gently and tell me that we’re only done when you say we’re done.

Bruise me. Everywhere. Mark me. Use your hands, mouth, teeth, toys. Spank me, beat me, turn me black and blue and all the pretty colors so that tomorrow I can look in the mirror and remember what you did to me and know that I am yours.

Force my head down on your cock. Like god please force my head down on your cock. Let me choke, let me gag so sweetly for you. Let me prove to you how much I like making you happy. Please just let me suck your fucking cock.

Roll over in the middle of the night and wake me up to grope me, use me, rub yourself against me. Stick your fingers inside of me, touch me however you want. Just because you couldn’t wait until morning and I’m here to please. Like please please know that I want to please.

Fuck me. Fuck me hard. Bend me over and take me - hold my arms behind my back, pull my hair, make me arch further just for you. Fuck my ass, too. Fuck me until you’re the only thing that I see, feel, know. 

I want to be used. Your pleasure is my pleasure.  I want you to do mean things to me and make me whimper and moan and writhe and cry. I want you to tell me how to be so that I know that I please you. I want you to control when and if I cum. I want you to use me in whatever way pleases you most. I want to be your plaything, your fucktoy, your pretty little doll. Turn me into your quivering, mumbling, sweating, exhausted mess of a girl if you want to. Do it all. Do it all.

Because, well, that makes me happy too.

[plumbat]

Less “push your sub’s limits beyond what they thought they could take” and more “create an environment in which you and your sub feel safe enough to explore and perhaps expand the edges of their current limits, IF that’s what you both want and it’s to everyone’s benefit, and if it’s not that’s cool too, D/s isn’t a contest.”

[gfdsubboy]

Relentlessly tease me, treat me like your plaything, your pet, let me please you in any way you want.

Then afterwards while we’re still hot and panting, we’ll cuddle and hold each others hands and watch a movie together.

[bubblegumdomme]

I want more cfnm where they aren't in some weird party.

Just a girl in regular clothing and her naked boy. That's it really.

[pegsephone]

bisexual women making non-gender specific posts about strap-ons to appeal to men who like to get pegged and lady bottoms.

[artechouse]

bisexual men making non-gender specific posts about getting fucked to appeal to women who like pegging and male tops

[thatattoozone-deactivated201710]

[movedtotwitter-villainplague]

Cute things that Subs do/say:

⭐️ “please don’t stop”

⭐️“more please”

⭐️“I need it so bad”

⭐️ asking/pleading to be slapped/hurt

⭐️ “if you do that, I’ll cum ):”

⭐️ when they want to cum but not quite yet so they squirm around to try and calm themselves

⭐️ pushing back for more

⭐️ “harder please”

⭐️ being dangerously close to cumming but holding it until they’re given permission, no matter how hard it is to resist

⭐️ agreeing to all the awful names they’re being called ( “you’re such a whore” “yes, I’m a whore” )

⭐️ pouting but obeying

⭐️ smiling when something feels good

⭐️ blushing but agreeing/obeying

Feel free to add on, but no DD•LG/CG•L bullshite

[sugarplum-softboy-deactivated20]

⭐️that little gasp when you hit them/kiss their necks

⭐️when you start to kiss them and they lower with their head tilted upwards

⭐️slowing down and hearing them softly go “nononononono”

⭐️“ill do anything” 

⭐️seeing them completely shut down after them cum

⭐️grabbing the sheets

⭐️putting their arms near their back (secretly hoping they get pinned)

⭐️being bratty and one spank making them wimper

[cumarillo]

⭐️ begging to cum

⭐️ “can you please kiss me?”

⭐️ saying “thank you” whenever you touch them

⭐️ trying not to be loud, but failing

⭐️ “do you want me to?”

⭐️ edging themselves out of habit

⭐️ not touching themselves until you say so

⭐️ asking if they can touch themselves

⭐️ whimpering (just in general)

[lustxlace-deactivated20200610]

Reblog if you're an NSFW blog not run by a cis dude.

I need more people to follow but the only blogs I'm finding are boring dudes who all post the same generic black and white gifs and I'm not into it.

[itwontletmedeletethisaccountlol]

So um...

Kinda personal but you ever just yearn for a hot dominant girl to push you up against a wall and suddenly kiss you? Because I do at least once a day. 😂

[bogleech]

How people can mistakenly think or just subconsciously feel food works: there are “unhealthy” foods like pizza or fried chicken and “healthy” foods like fruit salad or steamed vegetables. Every time you eat an “unhealthy” food you’ve harmed yourself in some way.

How food actually works: foods contain carbs, proteins, fats, sugars, vitamins, minerals, fiber and/or other nutrients. Your body needs and uses all of them but it would like to have a little of everything every day. If you ate pizza or fried chicken for lunch then that’s probably your fat and protein for the day with extra that your body will make use of in time, so it’s a good idea to make your next meal something different like that fruit salad or steamed veggies. You can have that fatty lunch every single day if you just maintain balance and stay active enough to actually use what you’re stocking up on because foods aren’t “good or bad;” they just either fit into the rest of your diet and lifestyle or they don’t.

[augustdementhe]

Thanks, OP. 

[bdsmsnark]

Hey, fucking BDSM porn producers...

Where’s the bdsm porn about dominant who are encouraging and fun? Where’s the scene where the sub is going down on the dominant and they’re all “good, good. I’m so proud of what a good little slut you are.”

Why the fuck does every fucking kink scene, regardless of gender pairing have to be some mean piece of shit being a total asshole?

(This is really not directed at self produced porn. If I’m being completely honest, it’s pointed directly at kink.com and its shitty copycats , like all of my rants like this are).

[bdsmsnark]

It’s freaky how many notes this has. I may have touched on something important.

[show-me-your-devotion]

THIS. Especially when it comes to femdom. There are now some more lighter BDSM things aimed mostly at sub women where the dom isn’t basically abusing them, and like, that’s great and all but…

I want a cute boy sub who is red in the face and whimpering, whose domme is telling him  what a good boy he is, how proud they are of him, how happy he makes her, etc. I want a boy sub who wants to be snuggled and kissed as much as he wants to be edged and teased. I don’t want to see ball-busting, corset-wearing, hardcore abuse. 

I want something that actually reflects what ACTUAL FEMDOM LADIES want in a scene. I want something that actually caters to us. 

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

“I want a cute boy sub who is red in the face and whimpering, whose domme is telling him  what a good boy he is, how proud they are of him, how happy he makes her, etc. I want a boy sub who wants to be snuggled and kissed as much as he wants to be edged and teased. I don’t want to see ball-busting, corset-wearing, hardcore abuse.” 

God yes!!!! @bdsmsnark, I applaud you for writing this post! 

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

Reposting this one because male subs matter a whole fucking much! PS: I’ll keep reposting this on a regular base :)

[cheeky-monkey88]

The extreme version of femdom is/was what caused me so many issues. So glad I’m getting the help I need to overcome it all

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

So proud of you for getting the help you need, hon!

[ruinsflowersandchains]

You know what would be cute? Your legs tied apart so you can’t close them while I experiment on you with my teeth and tongue and hands and skin and maybe a load of toys as well.

[rainbow-pebis]

when the guy in the porn video isnt moaning

[slythertwink]

[introvertedclock-deactivated202]

[prettyboyslut-deactivated202002]

im a simple guy i just wanna be used like a toy for hours on end