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as anyone who’s spoken to me since november knows, my little beardie figment is the center of my whole world. i absolutely love him to death.

the past few days, he’s started to make this weird choking noise. i thought it was a one off thing but it’s been happening more and more often. i stayed up all last night to watch him and i plan to do the same tonight but just moments ago he’s had his worst episode yet. he’s swallowing often like he can’t breathe, gagging and choking while making a wheezing noise. ive ordered him some stuff to help in case it’s a respiratory infection like I think it is (ingredients for a slurry, new bulbs for his tank, a che, reptaid, etc). ive ordered about $70 worth of supplies but it’s clear he needs a vet visit. i am going to take him to the animal hospital tomorrow but that’s going to eat away all my money for train/bus fare and textbooks.

if anyone has anything they can spare to help out, it would mean the world to me. i know to some people it may seem like not a big deal but i genuinely can’t live without him and i just want him to be okay.

TLDR: my beardie likely has a respiratory infection and i need to take him to the vet but i am incredibly broke right now because of my increased tuition, bus and train fare, and textbook costs (plus i just registered for the LSAT).

$peggs13 for cashapp or sj_hope on venmo. please, if anyone can help even a little it’ll mean the world to me.

#mutual aid #donations #reptiblr #bearded dragon #ask to tag #figment

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Blog Move

as previously stated on this blog, someone irl found me here and while the person that did is someone i trust, there’s plenty of ppl I need to avoid who I can’t have finding me kdjsjsj so ive remade!

I obv can’t post the url in case anyone im avoiding tries to follow me there too but ill be following p much the exact same people from s***********e and anyone* is free to ask for my new url (obviously not on anon tho)

I wanted to wait until after my birthday since I celebrated my 19th on this blog not long after making it and now i got to have my 20th here too. If nothing else, I can say that this blog helped me become so much more comfortable with myself both within the lgbt community and in everyday life and I can’t be more thankful!

Hope to talk to y’all again soon, pls feel free to reach out to me for my new info!

Hey! I'm a girl who is suffering from Internalized Biphobia. I'm attracted to both genders and have fallen in love and did stuff with both. But when I think of my future with kids,marriage and stuff like that I can't imagine myself marrying a women. I feel like I would crave a Male partner, but its never happened before in previous same sex relationships. I would also be scared to tell others about my relationship. I feel guilty for being bi. Like theres something wrong with me.

a lot of bi folk struggle with this, especially young bi women. idk how old you are but tbh i think one of the best things for yourself right now would be to avoid relationships for the time being. instead, I would really encourage you to reach out to other bi people, whether it’s online or if you have lgbt groups near you that you can reach out to (if that’s a safe and accessible option). listening to other bi people talk about their experiences and even just to see them be bisexual in casual and open context is really so important and will help you feel much more comfortable with yourself and your sexuality.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. Bisexuality is a beautiful thing and being bisexual is a gift and I’ve become so much happier with my sexuality since making this blog and getting to interact with other members of the bisexual community. It’s so important to build those connections, especially when struggling to accept yourself.

The idea that you will always want to end up with a man/need to be married with a man is literally just comphet. Women are socialized to believe they need to be with men, need to marry men in order to be fulfilled/happy. But in the same breathe, there’s nothing wrong with your attraction to men either. If you end up happy with a man, there’s nothing bad about that. You’re still bisexual regardless of your relationships. You deserve to be happy with whatever partner you end up with. You shouldn’t feel pressured to date any specific gender for reasons outside of genuine attraction. Dating women isn’t somehow more radical or progressive than dating men and dating men isn’t somehow better or safer than dating women.