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“with great power there must also come great responsibility.” it’s something the first spider-man used to say to me. well, i don’t know if i have great power. i’m not captain marvel or thor. but i use what i have to be responsible for as much as i can. some days, that’s enough.

miles morales: spider-man #1

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Honestly Chris Evans should have won an Oscar for this scene

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And it’s still all good

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Godzilla as Himself

Ghidorah as Himself

Mothra as Herself

Rodan as Himself

Great touch.

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Mothra looking at Rodan after she did THAT:

Rodan:

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Nyakim Gatwech at the 2018 Emmys

Designer: laviebyck

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now wait just a goddamn minute. THIS is real and I’m honestly dying

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Amazing

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I hate man caves. I absolutely hate them.

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It’s just the sentiment behind them that I find so reprehensible. It’s this idea that men need a retreat away from the responsibilities of family life whereas women do not. I very seldom see people who have man caves also have a space for the woman and if they do it’s always significantly smaller, less equipped, and seldom used.

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And the thing is men will often argue this point by saying “well she has the rest of the house” because they think that forcing their wives/girlfriends to do all of the administrative work around the house constitutes personal space. So they force their partners to become household managers wherein a daily flow is created that they are not involved enough to feel a part of, this creates a sense of disconnect from family life, and makes men feel as if they’re being bossed around in their wife’s home , which creates a need to “get away.” Which basically results in him hiding while his wife runs the household. Men think this is fair because they think that it’s natural for women to be household managers rather than realize she’s just picking up his slack.

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Honestly one of the most important things I can say I’ve learned as an artist is that if you feel like you’re really stagnating, that probably means you’re seeing problems in your work that you have never been able to see before, but you haven’t figured out how to fix them yet.

You’re not really stagnating

You’re understanding of drawing has moved beyond your current execution.

Once you have finished processing the problems you’re suddenly seeing, you’re likely to correct them and suddenly make a huge breakthrough in your drawing.

Don’t push yourself, either. Sometimes you have to remove yourself from a problem temporarily to solve it, just don’t give up drawing altogether.

TL;DR feeling like your drawing is stagnating/getting worse means your eye is improving, and your hands are likely to catch up soon.

rhythmic-idealist

as a musician who went through this recently, I can confirm this is very true.

you’re not bad

you’re not realizing you’re a fraud

people aren’t lying to you when they say you’re good

you’re just improving, and this is an agonizing but really important step. congratulations, because I can promise you you’re about to get ten thousand times better at whatever it is you do.

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Putting this on the site because this is very true for writers as well.

The most important thing to realise is that this is a temporary condition, but one that will return again an again, but it will get easier every time since you will be able to recognise it for what it is.

Don’t ever let self-criticism stop you from creating.

alwaysbewoke

old-school-shit

Being crazy ain’t ok.

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^^^

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verbally abusing your boyfriend is not ok. Manipulating your significant other to get what you want is not ok.

alwaysbewoke

^^^^^^

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Being controlling and not seeing it isn’t okay

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I’m happy to see this is actually getting notes.

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^^^

I’m a woman, I don’t have the right to be an abusive bitch just because of my anatomy.

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Going through his phone, calling him when he’s out with his friends or just out, not giving him space alladet

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fyi, if we were talking about a man, all of these comments would be about leaving his ass. If your gf is doing ANY of these things. LEAVE her. You don’t deserve it.

alwaysbewoke

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Saying he can’t even look at another woman without a problem? Toxic. Saying he can’t have women for friends, even when they were there first? Toxic. Getting angry when he wants time for himself to hang out with his friends instead of being under your titties 24/7? Toxic. Gaslighting him when he has a problem with you and making it seem like he’s making shit up? Toxic. Accusing him of cheating everytime he does something that doesn’t involve you? Toxic. Making rules for him and denying him his autonomy? Toxic. Putting your goddamn hands on him because you know he won’t touch you back? Toxic. You’re insecure and abusive and you need to check yourself.

bklyn-raisedme

I didn’t know female toxic behavior existed