Iām also a feeler and so Iāve felt genuinely sad over this, that feels really stupid though because itās not my business and theyāre still happy but idk, it feels very sad
Weāre allowed to feel sad, okay? I donāt want anyone believing they donāt have a right to feel sad. Itās a very normal reaction to disappointment.
The only thing that matters is that we allow that to manifest in healthy ways. We donāt take it out on either of them (publicly, if you wanna vent with people - do it via DMs or GCs, because I know that can be a coping mechanism but do it in the right, most respectful, way). And we donāt take it out on outside parties either.
Itās true that itās not our business and that they donāt owe us anything. But weāre still invested. And weāre allowed to mourn. I mourn every fictional ship Iām involved with as well.
We can be happy theyāre happy, but we can also be sad that itās not in the way we dreamed of (right now). It doesnāt make us bad people. It makes us human. We have to let ourselves feel.
Iām sad very sad and I donāt care what the hell ppl say abt it I have the right to be sad!
