Seriously?

If you are sending anonymous messages to the other blogs involved and they are being censored, you can send them here and I will repost them so that others can see what is being hidden.

[onoherewegoagain]

Master List

Forgive me, this will be a work in progress.

I’m making an effort to organize all the important links so that anyone who is new can catch up without having to scroll the whole blog. If there are any other posts I’ve made that you feel need to be linked here, let me know and I’ll add them.

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📱indicates posts that contain screenshots of their own words.

BlooKitty

📱LACTEAWAY and BLOOKITTY summary

What happened to get them blocked by Ted Raimi. If anyone is wondering why I don’t bring BlooKitty up much, it isn’t because what she did wasn’t bad. It’s that she told on herself so blatantly that I haven’t had to revisit it after this post.

Lacteaway

Lacteaway Medical Crisis Fraud

(screenshots and detailed explanation documenting Lacteaway’s false claims around her mom’s surgery in an effort to raise money to fly to another country to confront the actor who blocked her)

📱PART 1

📱PART 2

📱PART 3

DraganWHorror

Dragan Behavior Patterns / Summary of Chicago

This is a summary of the behavior patterns, manipulations and bad behavior of Dragan and why it’s important to document them. It also includes a summary of what happened around Days of the Dead: Chicago and the incident at Ted’s Table

How to Spot a Manipulator

How to spot someone who is manipulating the facts and hiding their obsession when they otherwise see really nice

[OLDER]Chicago: What We Know in Summary

Here’s a summary of what we’ve heard about Chicago.

Chicago: Anon Witness

A witness who saw her “unwelcome” at Ted’s table in Chicago.

📱Screenshots of Meltdown after Being Blocked by Ted

Here’s is the documentation of her inappropriate meltdown after being blocked including suggestions that there was a conspiracy and someone forced him to do this.

📱Screenshots of IG posts focused on Revenge after being Blocked

After deciding that there must be a conspiracy and that was why Ted blocked all of them, she started doing film reviews for the first time on her IG with some posts very focused on revenge. And a post mentioning she’d like to throw an axe at ‘someone’s’ face.

📱Screenshots of Various Self-Insert Fanart and her “wall of Ted”

Further documentation of her general obsession with Ted. At the time it was addressed that self-insert art on its own isn’t an issue but given the context of her later behavior, this was part of a worrying pattern.

Related Problematic Accounts/Post

📱Screenshots of Carnie promoting the Conspiracy

Here are screenshots of a-carnie-and-a-cop, frequent visitor of these girls pages and generally problematic person, harassing others and Ted with the delusional idea that an evil entity made him unfollow people who behaved inappropriately. This delusion is how the girls justified confronting Ted to multiple parties after he drew a boundary.

Alicestrange

Alice is a “fan” across multiple fandoms who is known for making multiple fake accounts and data mining discord servers. She seeks out personal information and addresses of actors and fans alike so if you spot her in your fandom, beware. Most fans held back on coming forward because Alice associated with Ted’s three primary stalkers and they feared being Doxxed.

A general warning about AliceStrange

Additional person verifying Alice’s History

[onoherewegoagain]

Not to beat the dead horse well I guess the horse is still going. But I don’t even post about ted or any content regarding him or his past stuff anymore because of how weird these girls were and how negative the community was from them.

You are not the only person to say that, and I’m so sorry. It sucks because it feels like so much of the fandom has just been quiet because of this- except for a few suspicious “new accounts”. They really did just decide their experience was the only one that mattered.

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I don’t wanna specify who, but one of these girls made me insanely uncomfortable at a convention in the past. She had big mean girl energy I didn’t really like at all, especially in how she would talk about people. She’d guilt trip a lot too. I had to stop attending a certain convention certain convention because I don’t like the idea of seeing her. The thought they still wander around guilting people out of funds or will try to climb ahead by lying genuinely makes me sick.

Hi Anon,

I do suspect I can guess who this is and I wish I was surprised. I’m so sorry you had to deal with this and I hope you’re able to continue going to conventions and events you love and are able to avoid them. Hopefully others catch her in the act and see her for what she really is.

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can she pls stop oversharing. Keep that in your inner circles jc

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My confession is I had to block lactea because of all the bullshit she’d put on my dash. I wasn’t even aware of all of this lmaooooo

I don’t blame you

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“Going to stop making art for ominously reason”

“moving to patreon and will ONLY post on patreon.”

“I’ll make more merch tho”

“but okay I’ll draw more ych and advertise them on tumblr.”

These are a ton of contradictions but I’m gonna try my best to be good faith.

1- why would you stop doing something you love? Unless you mean you’re going to stop monetizing your art. But that doesn’t make sense either way cause you’re still drawing and try to monetize it on patreon??? Literally nothing is stopping you from drawing from what you described. It’s so wildly dramatic to say

2- whether you intended to or not, your posts often come across as sympathy fishing. I feel concerned for the people who have openly volunteered to pledge you money every month when all you have to offer is vague reasons why you need money all the time. You leave it suspiciously vague when you would benefit from saying nothing at all. Sometimes you even post claims of what’s happening in a manic succession. It’s a BAD look.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t monetize your art, but what’s what’s with the crisis or anngst every other day? Just put up your art sans the pages of angst, I’m sure it would sell without you needing to fiddle play your way to people’s money.

If you’re an artist people should want to hire you for your art; hiring you as a favor or as a kindness becomes redundant when it becomes your sole method of drumming up comissions.

Equally, if your commissions aren’t helping you meet ends meet, then why don’t you have another job? This job sharing thing you describe, are you not getting your proportion of the pay at least?

ALL OF THIS.

Listen, rent is a thing. It’s a totally normal and not at all red-flaggy thing to see an artist say “it’s approaching the 1st of the month again so I opened up more commission slots for rent”. She never says that. It’s never “I’d like to do more work for this normal part of life”.

“I’d like a bit more money because we have some medical expenses coming up” is also a thing that comes up.

Every single thing that happens is a crisis, there is no normal bill cycle or additional cushion needed. It’s ALL a crisis. One after another and always right after she posts a new ych and not enough people book slots. It all has a time limit, it all uses dramatic buzzwords and urgency intended to pull at your heart strings and push you to buy stuff now.

Nobody wants her to stop making art, they want her to stop lying about why you should commission her. It’s unethical to lie about why you need the commissions and that’s why people are mad.

Most artists, if they can’t regularly pay their bills, get supplementary jobs. Artists with far more experience and a much better business sense still have supplementary jobs. It’s rare for an artist, especially a fan artist, to rely solely on commissions to pay their bills. However, when they do, they make normal posts about it because they aren’t seeking to exploit people, just remind them that the first of the month is a good time to commission work.

[onoherewegoagain]

Her safety.

Now would be good time to mention I’ve caught her accidentally liking my blog from her secondary account (that she regularly liked her own content with) several times now. So she is lurking and reading all of the posts you guys make.

She didn’t seem too concerned when she approached an actor and made him feel unsafe after he blocked her. Or when fans expressed they were worried she’d dox them.

No one has ever threatened HER safety, but she and threatened the safety of countless others. The only thing threatened is her ability to lie about a made up crisis without being called out.

And if she was really worried that she may have to “quit art” which makes more money than she would at a job paying minimum wage in her country- why would she be talking about potentially moving to another platform?

In addition i haven’t seen a single person harass her on IG so wtf is she on about? Sounds like another round of made up fear mongering.

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So the thing about moving behind a paywall is that behind that paywall she gets to control the narrative without anyone challenging her. Sort of like how she switched her anons so that you have to identify yourself and she can just refuse to post them after Manchester to create the illusion that she has supporters.

So be aware if you go that route that control of information is one of her primary ways of continuing to lie about “emergency” situations and drive business. And remember everything that is being said is showing her own words and the contradictions that prove that she’s a liar. No one and threatened her safety, and if she just sold her art without creating a series of lies to drive up urgency nobody would have anything to say.

The literal only reason to go to Patreon is because she’s losing business from people who are realizing that she is a liar and don’t want to support her.

She could post proof that any of this happening- a receipt from the auto-mechanic- anything. But she doesn’t because she can’t. She just wants you to feel bad for her and believe her and buy her stuff. At any point, she could’ve proven that she wasn’t lying and made this blog look very silly. But she didn’t because proof doesn’t exist.

If you want to buy art from an artist that that’s fine and no one’s gonna stop you, but don’t let that artist force you to buy art that you can’t afford to spend money on because you think you’re helping her with a financial crisis. Be careful, everyone.

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I’m confused, didn’t she move away from patreon BECAUSE they moved away from nsfw?

Something like that. Or at least that’s the excuse she told everyone. Not like she’s a compulsive liar or anything.

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dw, they’re all financially irresponsible weirdos in a trenchcoat. If we don’t feed them we can maybe nurse this fandom back to health.

It’s a shame that him blocking them didn’t send enough of a message for them to just move on.

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Idk why either of them LacTea especially still have fans when everything you post that isn’t our asks is shit from their accounts exposing themselves. Like none of this fabricated it’s screenshotted from their own blogs and Instagram accounts. I just am surprised she still even gets likes on her Instagram account (which also has smth abt Travis in her bio which is fucking weird)

Thank you anon. I spent a while compiling screenshots of their own words and legitimate websites providing how they lied for this exact purpose. Because I want to demonstrate that they are blatantly lying and how easy it is to prove it.

Not sure how posting her own words in one place after she deleted them with links to details on her countries medical coverage is anything other than stating facts at this point.

[onoherewegoagain]

If the only thing you’re going to anonymously submit to my blog is “Joxer the Mighty” or “I love Xena” repeated a few dozen times, I’m not going to post your anons. At least show some creativity if you’re going to try to troll the blog that’s proving you’re a liar by posting screenshots of your own words and links to government websites that prove it.

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She also solicited PayPal donations, so the scamming wasn’t just for commissions. She made it clear she’d accept any money, including handouts. I don’t know how many people gave her those, but I hope it was very few.

For anybody not in the know, PayPal doesn’t protect all transactions. If you send someone money thru the “friends and family” option you have no recourse if those funds were ill-gotten. I’m sure Lactea knew that.

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for *her safety*. Yet has a known doxxer in her circle. aw you didn’t wanna be bothered? consider this: NEITHER DID TED OR HIS LOVED ONES

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Funny how she’s doing paywall after her scamming comes to light. Like don’t you wanna at least try to not seem guilty. I mean she is. And I do hope she loses her platform because she is scamming people and no amount of talent can make up for a nasty heart to scam people lying about health issues tbh I’m surprised she hasn’t been reported for fraud stuff now that I think abt it

When I first started this blog, somebody asked me why she doesn’t just do a GoFundMe. It’s because to use platforms like that you have to agree you aren’t scamming people in any proof that you are results in legal action.

The way she’s doing it now she’s asking for money and exchange for service services and rarely asks for donations so as long as she delivers the final item, she’s not technically committing fraud in the eyes of the law. The law can’t prosecute her for lying about what she wants you to commission her so long as she creates the commission.

[onoherewegoagain]

Her safety.

Now would be good time to mention I’ve caught her accidentally liking my blog from her secondary account (that she regularly liked her own content with) several times now. So she is lurking and reading all of the posts you guys make.

She didn’t seem too concerned when she approached an actor and made him feel unsafe after he blocked her. Or when fans expressed they were worried she’d dox them.

No one has ever threatened HER safety, but she and threatened the safety of countless others. The only thing threatened is her ability to lie about a made up crisis without being called out.

And if she was really worried that she may have to “quit art” which makes more money than she would at a job paying minimum wage in her country- why would she be talking about potentially moving to another platform?

In addition i haven’t seen a single person harass her on IG so wtf is she on about? Sounds like another round of made up fear mongering.

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I just re-read the whole Lacteaway saga, and boy does it hit different when you have full context. Seeing how many thousands she fraudulently raised makes me fuckin’ furious. The fact that she lives in a country with socialized medicine and scammed people who live in countries without it is diabolical. Of course a bunch of those fans wanted to help; they know what it’s like to need huge amounts of money for healthcare. 

I’d be so beyond disgusted if I found out the money I gave to someone for a surgery was actually used to stalk an actor. 

She deserves to be a pariah in every fandom. What a truly evil person.

I do want to make one thing super clear in case anyone here is new. I haven’t been doing this because I want her to stop making art. I helped lay this out because fans were upset that she’s continuing to lie to sell her her art. If she wasn’t continuing to lie to make sales or making sales off the image of a man she stalked, no one would care. But in between every normal YCH post there are at least two posts hinting at dire financial situations.

I am glad that laying it all out was worth it. A few people have noticed that she seems to lie on fragmenting her information and burying it under random posts or changing the subject to make it even harder to keep the information straight. I was asked if I could compile it all like that so anyone new to the saga could see it all at once. Believe it or not, there are still even more screenshots to show.

I wouldn’t say that I am hoping she’s a pariah in other fandoms. I’m hoping she will take accountability for her actions and stop lying about made up financial problems to get commissions. Artists rely on their skills as an artist and rapport with a fandom to make sales. They shouldn’t rely on manipulating the hearts of well meaning fans or an actor following them (or lying about how well they know the actor) to make sales. That really only shows that she’s lacking in talent.

I’m not saying every artist ever is lying about needing help. I’m saying there is always a new emergency with Lacteaway and it’s always vague, there’s never any proof of how much she needs, if she does give people additional information she’s doing it privately where other people can’t verify it, there’s never any receipts or there’s some reason she can’t give them. It’s just a scam. Oh and if you question her about it she either blocks you, doesn’t post it, or comes at you with more complaints intended to make you look horrible for questioning her

So I’m hoping other fandoms know not to fall for her sob stories and protect themselves. I feel like we owe it to them to let them know that she’s a known a scammer and that the threat of being doxxed (because she has people’s personal information and sent out a lot of prints directly) is the exact reason why more people aren’t calling her out directly. Or she would send her other friends or secondary accounts to harass them.

Some give personal information or business people people who are known to scam and dox.