my little sanctuary

19. INFJ.

[quotemadness]

“I am coming to terms with the fact that loving someone requires a leap of faith, and that a soft landing is never guaranteed.”

— Sarah Dessen (via quotemadness)

[ilovetoodeeply]

i distracted myself and thought i was healing

[highlightedpages]

I have tried to let you go and I cannot. I cannot stop thinking of you. I cannot stop dreaming about you. Do you not feel the same for me?

Erin Morgenstern The Night Circus

[quotemadness]

“Finding someone you love and who loves you back is a wonderful, wonderful feeling. But finding a true soul mate is an even better feeling. A soul mate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you forever, no matter what. They say that nothing lasts forever, but I am a firm believer in the fact that for some, love lives on even after we’re gone.”

—

Cecelia Ahern, PS, I Love You

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[quotemadness]

“After a while you learn the subtle difference Between holding a hand and chaining a soul, And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning And company doesn’t mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts And presents aren’t promises, And you begin to accept your defeats With your head up and your eyes open With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child, And you learn to build all your roads on today Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while you learn… That even sunshine burns if you get too much. So you plant your garden and decorate your own soul, Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure… That you really are strong And you really do have worth… And you learn and learn… With every good-bye you learn.”

—

Jorge Luis Borges

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our life.”

— Akshay Dubey

[memoirsofbilal]

“If you stay, I’d lose myself and if you don’t, I’d lose everything.”

— memoirsofbilal (via Instagram) // Either way I lose

[quotemadness]

“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”

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Joseph Campbell

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[lostsoulsworlds]

“Relationships are an expensive way to watch someone slowly like you less and less.”

— Unknown

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Increase your Patience

1. Recognize that we are all different and unique. That can make it hard for us to understand each other but it also makes life more interesting. Choose to value that uniqueness in others.

2. Learn to accept your weaknesses and don’t expect yourself and others to be perfect. We’re all on a journey and change is a slow process.

3. Know your triggers. Try to be aware of what annoys and upsets you – then prepare in advance so that you act, and don’t react.

4. Slowly count to ten, and take some slow deep breaths, before you open your mouth and say something you’ll regret.

5. Try to broaden your perspective, and see things from different angles. It makes you more understanding, and more compassionate.

6. Decide to laugh a lot more and to take life less seriously. Then you’ll feel less frustrated and you’ll feel much happier.

[extramadness]

[j0jin-deactivated20210309]

see ya soon :)

[ilovetoodeeply]

a healthy relationship is two people willing to walk the extra mile but meeting in the middle

[kateknowsdramas]

[rootbeergoddess]

What is this? I want to know

[angel-of-death-2015]

I just witnessed a fucking murder

[zzzz-m]

Well shit then

[quotemadness]

“Nature does nothing in vain.”

—

Aristotle

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[thatventurousartist]

“You know what? Don’t you dare. Don’t you fucking dare try and pin this shit on me. You left me right when I needed you the most and you know it. Yet you have the audacity to say that you didn’t back out? That you didn’t do the same thing countless others have in the past, that you’re still here for me? Fuck that. It’s bullshit and we both know it.”

— (via my-writemind)

[lustlavender]

“Please just call me baby again.”

— angry @ myself for missing you //aesthetic-shortie

[eggytoast-deactivated20211219]

this blog keeps being promod on my dash with quotes like this. is this bc i make fun of naruto pining after sasuke all the time. is it like, related content.