Opalized Fossil

[discolor3d]

The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy.

[opalizedfossil]

I'm thinking I might clean out some older works I'm no longer fond of from my AO3, so if there's anything on there that you can't be without, please save it now! I'll go through in about a week and delete what I no longer want, so anyone who wants to has time to save stuff. <3

AO3: OpalizedFossil

[hazskillerqueen]

COME TO ME. But really, come through.

[mrs-indica]

No srsly

[opalizedfossil]

i know you don't use your tumblr anymore and idk you'll see but leaving this here. is it ok to quit nsfw stuff? im beginning to not like it much i used to anymore

Of course it is, anon! You can and should always quit something if you're no longer comfortable with it, or just no longer having fun. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that! :) (Also, I have no idea how long this has been sitting unanswered in my inbox and I'm so sorry for taking probably forever to respond.)

[nelkenbabe-deactivated20211107]

"i would die for you" this, "i'd walk through fire for you that"

what about "i'd live for you" romances? what about "i never thought i'd be worth the work it would take to piece myself together"?

what about "i don't believe i'm worth it, but for you i'll try"

[neolesbian]

so disney is using emily gwen’s lesbian pride flag with no compensation, and she’s still in need of money. i implore anyone who cares at all about the lgbt community to donate to her instead of paying for fucking mickey mouse pins

About Emily

About Emily

[firespirited]

see my previous post for full slap in your face ironic effect. target pride mickey vs disney business practices

[indigobluerose]

disney pulling this bullshit while still refusing to let queer people exist in their properties as anything more than jokes and nameless backgrounders

[davidpincher]

but sir that’s my emotional support mutual who’s way cooler than me that i can’t believe actually follows me 

[never2heaven]

euphoria, trouble don’t always last

[opalizedfossil]

I’ve identified as a cis lesbian for the entirety of my adult life - but through much self exploration and a dash of identity crisis in the past few years, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m actually genderfluid and (probably?) pansexual. Labels are hard. And while I’m DEFINITELY sapphic-leaning, this year - this horrible, terrible, no good year, which included me losing my grandpa after his long battle with cancer and then a stroke AND me having an actual, honest-to-god, stress-induced heart attack at age 23 in October - brought me my Martijn, a beautiful man and my very best friend in this lonely little world. I’m in a relationship again much faster after a previous one than I would usually be comfortable with, but after getting my heart broken, love found me when I least expected it.

This account has seen me through a lot of up’s and down’s, including many relationships which left me feeling broken and unworthy of love. As cliche as it sounds, Martijn feels so different. For the first time, I feel like I’m with someone who is INTERESTED in me, who helps me grow, who betters me as an individual. And despite how terrible things were just a month and a half ago, when I had a “mini” heart attack behind the wheel of my car after the sheer stress of the past few years compounded on me, I feel so lighthearted and happy now. Maybe it’s because my new relationship makes me feel so whole, or maybe it’s because I’ve finally allowed myself to break out of the mold I had put myself in all my life and accepted and embraced my genderfluidity. Maybe both.

I feel happy for more than a fleeting moment for the first time in years. For once, I feel grateful that I didn’t succeed in killing myself last August. I can’t imagine the regret of living my life and willingly ending it not once having felt this way. There’s still a lot of work to be done and I am always growing. But I think I’m finally happy. Love heals.

[anxietyproblem]

[jupitersmusings]

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

[overlord-fire-bubble]

THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.

[daechwitas]

let me be very clear that if you voted for donald trump or support him in any capacity you are not welcome here. my blog is not the place for you and i do not want you interacting with me. 

[nikov]

BREONNA TAYLOR’S CASE IS FINALLY GOING TO BE PLACED IN FRONT OF A GRAND JURY

After almost 200 days since Breonna Taylor was murdered, her case will be presented to a grand jury by Attorney General Daniel Cameron. 

— WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

It means that it’s time to go harder than ever before for Breonna Taylor. 

1. GET OFF YOUR LAZY *** AND SIGN THIS THIS AND THIS PETITION

2. DONATE TO BREONNA’S FAMILY IF YOU CAN

3. MAKE SOME CALLS DEMANDING JUSTICE! Numbers are included in THIS Twitter thread.

MORE INFO INCLUDED IN THIS TWITTER THREAD.

It’s time to show everyone that WE CARE ABOUT BREONNA TAYLOR. We want JUSTICE FOR BREONNA TAYLOR. 

______________________

Additional Resources:

• black lives matter carrd • issues in the world carrd • US CITIZENS: vote in your upcoming Presidential election :) 

[crittizen]

Me, vibrating: If I Make A Single Mistake I’m Going To Explode

[crittizen]

It only takes one moderate annoyance to remind me that the line of sanity on which I walk is razor thin.

[opalizedfossil]

Do you know anyone that does su rp?

I’m sorry, I don’t. :( But, you could always try @roleplayfinder to find a partner! I’ve used it to find partners for other fandoms to great success. :)

[official-lucifers-child]

here’s a few tips, especially if you’re cis:

someone’s AGAB is not your fucking business

someone’s deadname is not your fucking business

someone’s transition is not your fucking business

someone’s gender dysphoria is not your fucking business

someone’s previous labels and identities are none of your fucking business

if you know someone’s deadname, just fucking ignore it. do NOT EVER introduce a trans person or talk about them like “this is steve but he used to be sarah” or “my friend steve whose deadname is sarah” or anything like that. just shut the fuck up if you don’t think you could possibly NOT do that.

9/10 depictions of trans people in media especially film/shows is wrong and stereotypical.

transphobia is a wildly different experience than homophobia

maybe? look up? transgender labels? and identities? so you aren’t constantly asking someone what their label means? or just use? logic and common sense? like oh i wonder what genderfluid means oh maybe it means a FLUID GENDER oh gee could it be?

trans people never ever NEED to disclose that they are trans, and if someone doesn’t tell you that they’re trans but you later find out? don’t confront them!! they did not “lie to you”, you just assume that everyone is cis, which is weird and transphobic!!

again do not ever ask someone what their deadname is or what there AGAB is just don’t, do not, not ever. you have no reason to need that information, you do not deserve that information, just shut up.

[official-lucifers-child]

cis people can rb (i encourage you to rb so your cis friends can see because us trans people tend to group together and already know all of this) but just keep your mouth shut.

[bae-cement]

I want tattoos and emotional stability.