eli 🏳️‍⚧️

6.15.2020💍 they/them

[lostthingsfound4tnight]

[quotefeeling]

“Home isn’t where you’re from, it’s where you find light when all grows dark.”

— Pierce Brown, Golden Son

[89cats]

(source)

[cyberxbattalion]

[trash-and-trash-accessories]

I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before.  A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention.  After all, look how femme they are.

But to me, this makes perfect sense.  When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore.  It’s a job that you have.  As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore.  It’s not a requirement.  It’s just a fun hobby you can get into.  Or a little treat sometimes.

[lesbianhouseplant]

Ah yes, the 3 genders. Male, female, and “what the fuck are you, a cop?”

[remanence-of-love]

[vexheart]

[forever-deep-in-thought]

You hold yourself so well, people would never suspect you're going through hell.

[shelgon]

[pi-la]

[futuristic-koala]

[caringcoffeechats]

controversial opinion but unfortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are mean to people, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have secret kind thoughts. fortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are kind in your actions and your words, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have mean thoughts. the power is in working against inner negative thoughts and being a better person despite it. you have the ability to cultivate the person you want to be.

[sleeplessv0id]

what doesn't kill you makes you weird at intimacy

[ur-daily-inspiration]

[remanence-of-love]

[what-iz-life]

Your soul knows. It will always tell you when it's time to distance yourself from those who no longer align with you mentally, emotionally, physically, or energetically.