Do you think it is wrong (anti-revolutionary, or immoral) for a bi woman, who has the choice to love other women, to love men? If a woman could choose to only prioritize other women, why wouldn't she? I'm not talking about situations when a woman is coerced to be with a man. Some bi women actually love individual men. Should they?
It is not wrong, anti-revolutionary, or immoral for individual bi women to pursue happy and healthy relationships with people regardless of their gender. The burden of being constantly Radical ™ or Revolutionary ™ is unrealistic and, frankly, dehumanizing. Prioritizing women as a woman can take many different forms, obviously including romantic and sexual but not merely romantic or sexual. If a bi woman loves a man individually, she is not less bi for it or immoral or impure. Certainly it’s worth examining why some bi women may consistently date men - because of compulsory heterosexuality and other societal pressures - but scrutinizing the interpersonal choices bi women make is not revolutionary in the slightest. There are multiple circumstances surrounding all women, including bi women, and their “feminist” card or, if they’re LGBT, they’re “LGBT” card, should not be “revoked” on the basis of genuine human connections.
You should examine why you’re asking this question specifically about bi women. Hint: it’s because you don’t view bi women as actual human beings capable of manifesting complex desires, and rather you view them as failed heterosexuals or failed sapphic women who are tied to men no matter what they say or do. The fact that you and other biphobes only discuss bi women in this context but never straight women in this context reveals that bi women are always reduced to men and thus stripped of their autonomy. In that way, biphobic rhetoric is misogynistic, and people who perpetrate it (like you) are hypocritical and cruel.
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