dating remus lupin would include ...
- you’re lily’s best friend
- you first meet the marauders properly after being sent by lily to tell james potter that “hes an arrogant toerag and i’ll never go out with him, tell him that i also said that he should be glad i sent you rather than telling him myself or tomorrow he’d be sporting a new stinging hex scar”
- remus seems starstruck
- the other boys tease him endlessly
- you two gradually grow closer
- when you first start dating he’s scared to even touch you
- lily interrogates you about him
- anxious about you ever finding out about his lycanthropy a she believes you’d think hes a monster and leave him
- obviously when you do find out you don’t think that
- you constantly assure him that you like him for his and you don’t care about his condition
- “it isn’t your fault that your dads a dick and some stupid prat bit you as revenge remus”
- he thinks your blatant disliking for his dad is quite amusing
- hogsmeade dates where you two go to honeydukes and buy as much chocolate as you can
- dates in the kitchens where the house elves dote on the both of you
- study dates in the library
- reading together
- doing lots of studying together
- but also ‘studying’
- you guys’ first time was on his birthday
- “please remus, i know you’re worried you’ll hurt me but i promise you wont. please? i want to do this for you”
- after that you find out remus gets rather horny around the full moon
- usually quite slow, sweet sex
- he’s still scared to hurt you
- occasionally he’ll need something more
- rough sex
- lip biting
- neck biting
- not being able to sleep on the full moons
- waiting for him and the other marauders in the hospital wing
- tracing his scars with your finger tips
- pressing kisses to each of them whenever he feels insecure about them
- he loves playing with your hair
- reading to each other
- if you wake up from a nightmare he’s immediately up and pulling you into his body
- will read to you until you fall asleep
- forehead kisses
- warm hugs
- him towering over you
- wearing his jumpers
- being the only one who he allows to share his chocolate stash
- not that that stops the boys from taking some now and again
- so much cuddling
- hes good at it too
- remus is always warm
- if its chilly outside, he’ll pull you into him and share his coat with you
- making puns about his condition with the other marauders “were wolf?” “there wolf!”
- hand holding
- soft kisses between classes
- but also passionate kisses in broom cupboards
- and against walls
- and in empty classrooms
- him calling you love a lot
- using the map to sneak out together and sit by the black lake
- late night talks in front of the common room fire
- talking about books together
- when james and lily finally start dating, you guys go on double dates
- saying i love you to each other a lot
- whispering it when you guys are cuddling at night
- after school, you join the order of the phoenix together
- when he goes undercover in the werewolf pack you worry endlessly
- when he finally gets back you both cry
- you tell him how much you missed him and how worried you were
- he reassures you that he missed you so much too
- fixing up any wounds he might have gotten
- you get title of godmother
- sirius joking that you and him should get married considering you’re both god parents
- remus getting jealous
- jealous sex that night
- spoiling harry
- when james and lily are murdered and sirius is sent to azkaban and peters supposedly dead you two grieve together
- lily was your best friend after all
- arguing with dumbledore about who should get custody of harry
- breaking down together in each others arms as the last part of james and lily is torn from you and sent to live with muggles
- you being there for him through the years
- when sirius returns you remain sceptical of him for a while until remus tells you its okay to trust him again
- you three become closer again
- then sirius dies
- you and remus only having each other
- loving each other fiercely and passionately
- dying together in the final battle because you couldn’t bare to be parted
