Reblog if you’re a sugar baby who
Doesn’t hate on girls who take extremely low allowances or pay per meets
Doesn’t hate on girls for not being “classy” or who don’t “know their worth” (or use those phrases in general to bring down other babies)
Understands that the experience of a choice sex worker and a survival sex worker are very different.
Understands that especially if you’re a girl who has the choice to leave sex work whenever you want, are only doing this to have a more glamorous life, or for luxury items (yes I’ve seen girls act superior for only doing this for luxury items and snub girls who do it who need the money), you have certain privileges many in the bowl, and in sex work don’t have.
Understands that some girls enter the bowl to pay for diapers, medical bills, or just to feed their families.
Understands that some women don’t have the luxury to wait around for an allowance YOU deem acceptable because of the above reasons.
Understands that some women have to take allowances lower than what you would ever accept because they aren’t conventionally attractive (and don’t have the money to make themselves more “attractive”), are plus size, are transgender, have lots of tattoos that hurt their money, are visibly disabled, are autistic/have learning disabilities, speech impediments, or are WOC*, including immigrants with thick accents, or are undocumented and therefor can not always be as choosy.
Doesn’t hate on escorts who aren’t high end or mid range. A lot of SB’s I’ve seen don’t understand how the above intersections can make escorting just as difficult, as well as the fact that if you’re hours away from a major city or middle class suberb the rates in general are MUCH lower. It doesn’t matter if a girl charges $200 or less an hour, or does $40 15 min. quickies, you have no right to judge her. If anything low end escorts need more love and support since LE doesn’t target high end as often, they can’t properly screen like mid range, and even other sex workers shit on them, feminists talk over them since they’re considered the “victims”, not even going into society as a whole.
Understands that your rate/allowance, pay per meet is not your actual “worth” since I continually see “know your worth”. It is simply the amount of money that you are able to make, whether it’s from good genes, skill, or proper marketing.
Isn’t classist in general
*You can still of course, get high allowances with any of these things (some of the top sb’s I’ve seen are black or plus size), but from what I’ve seen they’re usually drop dead gorgeous and the above things do work against you often times.
I see a lot of babies in the bowl do these things and I have a lot of sugar baby followers it seems more than any other type of sex worker, and I’d love to follow you, but I always end up seeing so much classism and lateral whorephobia I’m afraid to follow most sugar babies now, so I’d like to know which ones are “safe” to follow. (if anyone actually reads or reblogs this, which I doubt a bit)
Also if you’re another type of sex worker feel free to reblog of course. :)
