Oversharing Rosebud

[oversharing-rosebud]

Oversharing on Tumblr 👍🏼

Is it a good idea to horny post to random internet strangers? Probably not, but most of my friends are minors and it's a way, way worse idea to horny post to minors. It's also a worse idea to complain about my sex life to my adult friends; they're my wife's friends too and I don't want to hurt her by just venting about it.

Is it a good idea to try to go from 200 lbs to 150 lbs in 7-8 months? Probably not, but I want to and this tracker app says I can do that and still eat five times a day, so Imma try. Yes I probably have an ED, no I'm not starving myself - it's a compromise! ^-^ Wife made me stop calorie tracking Finally in remission, calorie tracking and losing weight the healthy way!!

But yeah I'm not able to be messy IRL so I'm being messy here instead :P

Oh yeah, info about me: married and monogamous; 20-30yo; audhd + bipolar; mild POTS + hEDS; developing PCOS in real time; bi lesbian.

Likes most forms of art, Sims, Plague Inc, and Planet Zoo/Zoo Tycoon 2. Also likes documentaries (especially about biology/animals/anthropology/archaeology/paleontology), horror media, and many-hour-long videos on nearly every topic.

Ps: my wife knows I have a Tumblr to be messy on.

Pps: Starting to get more political on here, life sucks :P

[an-ruraiocht]

not gonna lie i increasingly just find myself thinking... what are single disabled people supposed to do? basically everything assumes that either a) you have never been independent and are fully reliant on caregivers, whether this is parents or a paid carer that you are somehow funding, or b) you have a partner who can look after you, drive you to appointments, pick you up after you've had sedation, advocate for you, be your proxy, do the housework when you're sick, push your wheelchair, be your companion when travelling (e.g. handle the luggage if you're using a wheelchair), etc

and like. first of all even for people with partners that's assuming they're abled themselves and can handle all that. you can't assume that. secondly: what about people who are single, who live alone, who will probably always do so

"get someone to keep an eye on you when you start this new medication" who. "don't over exert yourself" nobody else is going to do the tasks. "this can be a walker or a transit wheelchair so your partner can push you when you get tired" my what

like it's not a coincidence that amatonormativity discussions started / developed in care contexts because it is so often the assumption that intimate partners will fill these needs. but I feel like this is often discussed in the context of "and this is too much to ask and puts too much unpaid labour on the unqualified partner" which is not untrue and needs discussing but like. also. what about people are single, independent adults who are neither emotionally nor geographically close to their siblings etc and are not Disabled Enough to have a paid carer (a group that grows as resources shrink). like are they just fucked then. they're on their own. punishment for failing to be enough of an adult to couple up.

[oversharing-rosebud]

As I've started using a wheelchair, I've wondered that too. Like... Who would help me push it when I can't.

But I guess the answer is finding a small group to be disability buddies with. Yeah, my wife is my primary disability buddy, and I'm hers - but I have other friends who I can rely on when I need it. Like, I can keep track of schedules for them if they're struggling, and if the dishes pile up, one of them can usually do it. I've considered having laundry parties where we all fold the laundry together. My wife can't go to the gym, so I have another friend come with to help me with mobility issues. And if one of my friends ever found themself without someone to watch over them the first night on a new med, I'd be there! I've also been on sui watch duty for a friend before.

So yeah, friends can absolutely fill that role, because you can spread the responsibilities around and put tasks with whoever finds them easiest to accomplish.

As for how to find friends, try to find a local hobby group. Libraries often host them, or you might find them online. For example, even my town's cesspool of a Facebook page has kind lurkers who tell newcomers about the local larp group, where I found my current group of friends. Many towns have a reddit, too. There's also lots of online groups, where you might find people in your area to buddy up with.

[oversharing-rosebud]

Everyone's telling people to eat a hot dog in celebration today. Hot dogs are the most disgusting thing? People actually like them??

I've even heard of people putting hot dogs in envelopes, presumably to mail somewhere?????

[apolladay]

I demand one of you come rip out my uterus. Please.

[oversharing-rosebud]

One of my moms is finally getting hers taken out this month! She's been in the ER very nearly needing a blood transfusion twice in six months, and literally hasn't stopped bleeding in years. I'm so so happy that it'll finally be over soon.

[apolladay]

If you have a clitoris, how strongly does an orgasm feel good for you?

Very strong, not comparable to any other physical sensation

Strong, comparable to eating something which tastes very good

Weak, comparable to taking a piss

It doesn't feel good

No clitoris/results

If you have a clitoris, how strongly does an orgasm feel good for you?

Very strong, not comparable to any other physical sensation

Strong, comparable to eating something which tastes very good

Weak, comparable to taking a piss

It doesn't feel good

Never orgasmed

No clitoris/results

Voting ended onJul 1

[oversharing-rosebud]

To me, clitoral stimulation feels very akin to scratching a really itchy itch. Not the same, but close. I don't have words for vaginal stimulation, and orgasm is bordering on painful because of how intense it is

[apolladay]

What do you masturbate to most often? (For purposes of this poll, "porn" refers to any material created or distributed for the intent of sexual arousal, whether visual, audio, textual, etc.; "sex" refers to any sexual act involving at least two people; and "fantasies" refers to imagining sexual encounters or situations, including fetish situations that others may not consider sexual)

Porn made by other people Porn made by myself (with or without the inclusion of others) Images/stories/etc. not intended as porn but they turn me on Memories of sex I've had or sex I've witnessed Memories of porn Fantasies involving real people I know Fantasies involving real people I don't know Fantasies involving imaginary people Something else Nothing in particular — mind and environment empty It varies, with no one thing taking the majority I don't masturbate

What do you masturbate to most often? (For purposes of this poll, "porn" refers to any material created or distributed for the intent of sexual arousal, whether visual, audio, textual, etc.; "sex" refers to any sexual act involving at least two people; and "fantasies" refers to imagining sexual encounters or situations, including fetish situations that others may not consider sexual)

Porn made by other people

Porn made by myself (with or without the inclusion of others)

Images/stories/etc. not intended as porn but they turn me on

Memories of sex I've had or sex I've witnessed

Memories of porn

Fantasies involving real people I know

Fantasies involving real people I don't know

Fantasies involving imaginary people

Something else

Nothing in particular — mind and environment empty

It varies, with no one thing taking the majority

I don't masturbate

Voting ended onJun 28

[oversharing-rosebud]

As an asexual woman, I find sexual imaginings usually don't actually involve another person, just the concept of another person.

Sometimes I even get distracted during actual sex because I'm thinking too much about how pretty my wife is and how much I love her to be able to focus on having sex with her :(

[uncleromeo]

if you don't do anything else today,

Please have a moment of silence for the people who were killed instead of freed when news of emancipation finally reached the furthest corners of the american south.

have another moment for the ledgers, catalogs, and records that were burned and the homes that were destroyed to hide the presence of very much alive and still enslaved people on dozens of plantations and homesteads across the south for decades after emancipation.

and have a third moment for those who were hunted and killed while fleeing the south to find safety across the border, overseas, in the north and to the west.

black people. light a candle, write a note to those who have passed telling them what you have achieved in spite of the racist and intolerant conditions of this world, feel the warmth of the flame under your hand, say a prayer of rememberance if you are religious, place the note under the candle, and then blow it out.

if you have children, sit them down and tell them anything you know about the life of oldest black person you've ever met. it doesn't have to be your own family. tell them what you know about what life was like for us in the days, years, decades after emancipation. if you don't know much, look it up and learn about it together.

This is Juneteenth.

white people CAN interact with this post. share it, spread it.

[apolladay]

Pluto is a planet and I will die on this hill.

[oversharing-rosebud]

Fun fact! The reason it was reclassified is largely because we discovered 10% of what we thought was it's mass is actually a moon! The two are dual tidal locked, and essentially are a binary planet. Neither on its own can be considered a planet, but I wouldn't argue that the two together could be considered one.

[the-efemmeral]

waking up horny is so hard. what do you mean there’s no one here to grab my hips and hold me in place while they fuck me as hard as they can? what kind of sick joke is this.

[oversharing-rosebud]

Omg I know right

[looks at @followife] (really hope she hasn't changed her URL in the forever since I tagged her 😭)

[antifatemptress]

would y'all still think I'm cool if y'all knew I had a cowgirl tattoo on my calf whose legs I purposely skip when I shave my legs?

[apolladay]

Would y'all still think OP is cool if y'all knew they had a cowgirl tattoo on their calf whose legs they purposely skip when they shave their own legs?

yes

no (you meant yes)

Voting ended onJun 18

[oversharing-rosebud]

I've never heard of OP before in my life, but their coolness factor is currently through the roof for me

[oversharing-rosebud]

So real about SSRIs! I’m fortunate that they didn’t do much harm to me, just did not work one bit. I tried multiple; they may as well have been sugar pills. I thought they were the only option! Then my new psychiatrist put me on an SNRI and I was so mad it worked so well, like why didn’t anyone offer this sooner?! Maybe I’m cynical, but I feel few medical providers actually listen to their patients

Yes!!

I've gotten lucky with most of my physical health doctors, but I went through so many brain health doctors before finding one that at least took notice when what she was trying didn't work and changed course. Even then, it took me having the "rare" side effects to FOUR medications in a row for her to start putting me on lower doses 🤦🏼‍♀️

[oversharing-rosebud]

We thought about it, and it genuinely does not matter what kind of temple it is, nor which animals. Just that they're not... generic. Petfinder is not adopting them out. They have faces, and they're not lopsided (like Two-Face or anything). It's also not at the front, guarding like a Buddhist temple—so there's no A-uum tradition to look up; they're at opposite ridges of a roof. The question's more about gestural language, architecture, and audience expectations than the animal species. It's like asking what you see if Mickey Mouse and Goofy are facing each other or facing outwards - it's a snap judgment. What's your first thought?

If they symbolize the same thing or two sides of the same coin, then facing. If they symbolize opposing ideas or are enemies, then away.

Or if they have no symbolism, then facing if they're placed on the X axis and opposing if placed on the Z axis.

[apolladay]

If you watch porn are you...

Asexual and I DO watch porn Asexual and I DON'T watch porn Allosexual and I DO watch porn Allosexual and I DON'T watch porn Unsure and I DO watch porn Unsure and I DON'T watch porn

If you watch porn are you...

Asexual and I DO watch porn

Asexual and I DON'T watch porn

Allosexual and I DO watch porn

Allosexual and I DON'T watch porn

Unsure and I DO watch porn

Unsure and I DON'T watch porn

Voting ended onJun 12

[oversharing-rosebud]

Technically I do... But only when it's been long enough for me to forget how awkward it makes me feel to see real people having sex.

It took me a long time to figure out, but apparently my finding naked bodies extremely beautiful is actually in a way that's distracting and incompatible with sexual interest.

[oversharing-rosebud]

Just got reminded about fucking SSRIs.

I'm glad they help so many people. I'm so mad at our doctors (and the probable root cause of the issue - insurance companies meddling) not believing that isn't possibly true for our family.

My grandma can't take SSRIs because she gets serotonin syndrome. My mother took SSRIs as a teen and dissociated her way through life until she stopped them, and then when she tried again in her thirties, she flat out hallucinated and tried to slice her leg open because of it.

So I told my doctor, please no SSRIs, I don't think they're safe for my family. And my doctor said, "this one is very low risk." And after a lot of weedling I agreed to try.

And I didn't make it two weeks before believing I was a shadow princess who could see into a mirror dimension that wanted me dead.

And then my sister needs medication. And they tell my sister to take fucking SSRIs. "This one's very low risk," they say, dishing out the same fucking one that did that to the whole family.

Thankfully my sister is somehow ok, but that's SO irresponsible and negligent on the part of our doctors. I'm five years down the road and my brain chemistry still isn't back to normal. They should never have tried, and sure as fuck shouldn't have told us it was """safe"""

[catlips001]

FUCK. honestly just FUCK. We missed a very important day yesterday.

[oversharing-rosebud]

Happy birthday to raccoon!

But who tf is raccoon?

[nitashinori]

That post about death note being "everyone's first anime" (untrue statement) made me curious and now I want to gather data for science

Can you reblog this and tell me where are you from and what was your starter anime?

[oversharing-rosebud]

USA, Black Butler.

[the-efemmeral]

bouncing on a strap might cure my depression and it might not…. there’s only one way to find out

[oversharing-rosebud]

Can confirm, bouncing on a strap on is a decent treatment for depression.