tystnad

gertrud, estonia

[focus-damnit]

Andrea Ferrari

[birdcagewalk]

[the-memedaddy]

Meirl

[nomediocre]

[nomediocre]

[nomediocre]

[parisians]

martine via instagram

[madeofwhitebone]

*forgives myself for the moments I’ve acted outside my values due to fear and uncertainty*

[the-memedaddy]

me irl

[saiubin-deactivated20180714]

[russiawave]

[beradan]

ok folks

I don’t think I actually have to spell this out

but there will be no prophesying, speculating, speaking into existence, etc about next year

no “I feel really great about next year,” no “I’d love more time at home to work on my hobbies,” no “surely it can’t be any weirder than 2020,” nothing

[midwest-merman-deactivated20210]

[kissyoulikealover]

i feel ill 

[bepeu-deactivated20171202]

do u have a bf

it’s a dream of mine to have a beautiful farm

[plain-flavoured-english]

As I get older I’m starting to let go of the guilty urge to build permanent habits. Like, a while ago I decided I would start jumping rope every day. I did it for like three weeks and felt good about it. Then I got bored, because of course I did, because I’m a human person. So now I do a bit of kickboxing because that’s what I like now. The other week I cut all sugar from my diet, just for a week, to challenge myself. Now I’m back to eating sweets but I don’t crave them as much.

Growth is about stretching, trying new things, and setting small, realistic goals for yourself, not picking a “good habit” you’ve decided you will be doing always and forever from now on. That’s not discipline. That’s pointless self-torture and unhealthy resistance to change.

What’s good for you today will not necessarily be what’s good for you tomorrow.

[dandyliondreams-room]

[apt-goals]

propagation

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