[childweanedonpoison]

people who think you can easily go anywhere in europe have never tried taking a train in italy

[childweanedonpoison]

[childweanedonpoison]

[childweanedonpoison]

[childweanedonpoison]

i have tears in my eyes. please never stop adding tags to this post

[childweanedonpoison]

i completely lost it at the swiss removing the italian trains from the timetables

[beevean]

Eyyyyy that’s my tags! The ones about getting stuck in the campanian countryside :D

[kosmogrl]

goals for 2024

- be an idgafer

[kosmogrl]

guys I failed

[redstonedust]

love characters who are like "this is how the world works. this is how it has to be (because if i'm wrong i have to face what i've done // if i'm wrong i have to face whats been done to me) "

[tlbodine]

This trait is much more endearing in fiction than in my mother.

[couldnt-think-of-a-funny-name]

when I was a little kid at some point I got upset with my parents because I didn't have a crucifix in my bedroom and they did- I was like why do YOU get to be safe from vampires??? you're okay with me getting my blood sucked???? so we took a little trip to the catholic store but the one closest to us was run by a group of nuns that had been moved here from romania. I got a little baby pink cross and this sweet old nun was like 'aww, is this a baptism gift?' and I was like no. I need to be protected from vampires. and she immediately got SO serious and was like 'this is the best one we've got, you'll definitely be safe' and since she was literally from vampire land I was convinced she was like, van helsing. like the whole time my parents had been laughing about how cute my fear was but she literally Knew dracula and was taking my concerns seriously I held this over my parents for so long lmfao

[sarcasm-andotherstuff]

1) Not all men, non tutti i maschi sono così, non potete generalizzare.

Non generalizzo, ma non vedo per quale ragione dovrei lodare qualcuno per non essere un assassino. Quando un uomo si sente in dovere di precisare di essere diverso da un tizio che controlla, rapisce, aggredisce, uccide una donna che cosa vuole esattamente, un applauso? Una medaglia? Riceviamo forse un premio per non essere criminali?

Non commettere violenza è il livello base di convivenza civile: non si dipinga il minimo della decenza come una prova di virtù.

Se poi la paura è legata alle relazioni (“le donne hanno paura degli uomini, resterò scapolo tutta la vita”), si sappia che per chiunque l’intimità è anche vulnerabilità. Il timore d’essere temuti credo possa almeno pareggiare con il timore di subire violenza, no?

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2) Cherry picking e benaltrismo (Non c’è un aumento di casi! E allora i maschicidi? Gli infanticidi? E allora i paesi islamici?)

Primo. Se si parla di violenza sulle donne il tema è la violenza sulle donne, se ritenete meritevoli di dibattito altri temi fatevi i post vostri.

Secondo. L’allarme sociale si crea di fronte a fenomeni statisticamente rilevanti, non necessariamente in numeri assoluti. Esibire il grafico che mostra che le vittime femminili di omicidio restano costanti negli anni, come se quel dato fosse una vittoria, mostra la mancata comprensione della tendenza, visto che, a fronte della generale diminuzione dei reati (e degli omicidi) la mancata flessione delle vittime femminili non può essere interpretata positivamente.

Terzo. Il fatto che le donne in Iran siano perseguitate e oppresse non rende sopportabile la violenza di genere altrove, né rende capricci o voluttà le rivendicazioni femministe.

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3) Volemosebene, basta guerra tra i sessi!

Denunciare la violenza di genere, riflettere sul patriarcato non significa, né ha mai significato, odiare i maschi, né ingaggiare un derby donne contro uomini, ma casomai criticare un certo tipo di maschi (ma pure di femmine, che ne adottano retorica). In altri termini, significa riconoscere l’egemonia culturale che il privilegio maschile ha imposto e impone. E far emergere questo conflitto, non tra maschi e femmine, ma tra patriarcato e parità, richiede anche argomentazioni forti e toni aspri: nella lotta contro disuguaglianze e discriminazioni, il bon ton non è un requisito essenziale.

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E, quanto a retorica, anche in buonafede, sappiate che non abbiamo bisogno di sentirci dire che doniamo la vita o che siamo esseri angelicati: siamo tutte diverse, con idee, temperamenti, caratteristiche differenti, così come i maschi, così come chiunque. Abbiamo bisogno, e abbiamo diritto, tuttə, di avere potere sul nostro corpo, sul nostro spazio, fisico, psicologico e sociale. Abbiamo bisogno di elaborare e rivendicare, di vivere e di convivere, di legarci restando persone, individualità che esistono non solo in funzione di qualcuno o di qualcosa.

E tra i maschi non cerchiamo, né dovremmo cercare, eroi, salvatori, giustizieri o principi azzurri. Se davvero, sinceramente, autenticamente, non per provocazione o polemica, temete il femminismo e non cogliete problemi nel modello patriarcale, ma vorreste non essere parte del problema, siateci alleati. Riconoscete il privilegio di cui godete (che non è una colpa, è un vantaggio), iniziando da quello della parola: per una volta, lasciate il palco, il microfono, il megafono, l'editoriale, l’ospitata in tv. E chiedete, leggete, ascoltate, cercate di capire e non convincetevi subito di esserci riusciti. Imparate a condividere e rilanciare le parole altrui: ci sono persone che parlano veloci per l’abitudine di essere interrotte, ci sono discorsi che meriterebbero ascolto invece che lezioni, ci sono voci che andrebbero amplificate.

E quando si ha un privilegio il miglior servizio è farsi cassa di risonanza.

Roberta Covelli

[escuerzoresucitado]

[discoursedrome]

the body is wild because all that shit just kind of grows there in a semirandom way, so it's not even consistent from person to person, but it doesn't get tangled up too badly because it's all held in place by bodymeat like a vascular aspic. which sounds good but it means it's really hard to replace anything, because you're not supposed to. it's just another example of how planned obsolescence encourages waste

[tanadrin]

transhumanists are just people who believe in the right to repair (our flesh prisons)

[huffylemon]

[starship-bunny]

Happy to post this for the very first time

[anarcho--neptunism-deactivated2]

oh wow what a nice post time to reblog it for the first ti-

oh...

[fullcravings]

The Best Vegan Gingerbread Cupcakes

[palindromordnilap-deactivated20]

Hi! This is a rickroll. Please visit youtube dot com, type "never gonna give you up" in the search bar, then click on the first video that comes up. Thank you for your consideration.

[puzzlingphronistes]

Wait hold on gotta look something up

[puzzlingphronistes]

[tiktoks-for-dead-pope]

[last-level-in-druid]

[video description: person on camera inhales on the party blower, not making any noise and simulating taking a drag off a cigarette. Then exhales as someone off-camera blows into their own party blower, making the sound. Person on camera loses their shit and everyone laughs. End description]

[spiritual-vibrations]

[ofdirtandbones]

Half of the fun of drinking hot tea is holding the warm cup in your freezing hands. Lizard on a rock moment.

[moonlightredfern]

I’m all scratched up and I can still taste spray paint in my mouth and my husband almost fell out of a tree BUT THE GHOST SCULPTURES ARE FINISHED!

They’re finally finished and I’m so happy with them!!

Some progress shots:

[everythingfox]

So talented

[maramahan]

The greatest tragedy of Among Us is making friends and then accidentally disconnecting before you get to say goodbye

[maramahan]

I just... I wound up hosting for a bit, and a player by the name “Dad of 3” came in to join my game

He was... well. Clueless is an understatement. When I say he has no idea what was going on, I mean the second round he was in he SLAMMED the alarm button and said “my screen said imposter what does that mean”

“It means you’re the bad guy this time, dad,” We explained. “But next time try and keep it secret, okay?”

“Okay”

The next round, he killed another player right in front of me and immediately self-reported.

“I got my first kill,” he said.

“Good job, dad!” we all replied. “You’re getting it”

He was so proud, next round, when he helped us catch the killer. And we were proud for him. He was trying so hard.

His kids showed him the game, he said — “Look dad a meme” — so he was playing it for them.

“What’s sus” he had to ask. “Is it inappropriate?” “No dad. It’s short for suspicious, because suspicious is a lot to type.” “What’s gg?” “It means good game” “ok. Thank u. gg”

Two rounds later, he slammed the alarm again. “My map looks different,” he said. “There are buttons on it”

“That means you’re the bad guy again, dad. You push them to sabotage us. Try it out”

We spent that round watching Dad of 3 gleefully pop in and out of vents at random and press all the buttons just to see what they did

“Have you killed anyone yet dad?” “No. It feels strange.” “It’s okay. It’s just a game. You can kill us if you want to practice.”

He was trying so hard. I don’t know if he’d ever even played a video game before, but he was trying so hard to understand this thing his kids enjoyed, and my little group of strangers was doing our best to help him get there.

I’m so proud of that random father’s effort, and I’m proud of all the other players who were so willing to help him learn.

Then out of nowhere he was gone. Mid-round, Dad of 3 vanished to a bad connection, and I’m legitimately sad. I’d hoped we’d get the chance to play a round for real, and I’d have liked the chance to wish him luck and say goodbye.

But since I can’t do that, I’m throwing this into the void: I hope you have a nice time, Dad of 3, and I hope we were able to help you learn so you can have fun with your kids.

Good luck out there, buddy.

Daybreak says hello.

[maramahan]

It’s so wild to me that this post is still circulating — that one silly little heartbreak could echo so far

I don’t know if Dad of 3 ever actually saw it, or if he even remembers that one random evening spent learning with strangers — but either way

I hope these past few years have treated him well.

[hortensius-deactivated20240909]

sorry it’s too funny when people here act appalled that tumblr friendships might lead to real life friendships or relationships. what on earth makes it so unbelievable. are you guys mutuals with a bunch of feral raccoons

[ticholasnesla]

which of jenna marbles' doggies are you?

take the test

i got weachy