pansy-boy

@pansy-boy

Man with transsexualism, stealth, gay. I don't use tumblr so much anymore, I will come by occassionaly to answer questions in my ask box and post update photos. I try pretty hard to be anonymous on here. If you have an inkling that you might know me in real life I would really appreciate that you don't read this blog or contact me before hand to check if I'd be ok with it. My blog is mostly made up of trans related stuff, random late night drunken updates, total over-sharing of my life, the odd bit of food p0rn and the occasional re-blog of something I find interesting. I had lower surgery a few years ago (metoidioplasty). I tried to blog about it as much as possible. I tagged all the posts which you can find here. You can read everything I wrote about top surgery and see all of my pictures here. (My top surgery was super cheap, less than £2000, read through my tag and inbox me if you want to know more)

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Finally gave into watching tales of the city

I hate that I like it but more importantly why is there a trans man with my name on it training in my profession and also with some similarities in heritage?!

I would include the trans man sexuality crisis as well but that’s a story as old as time.

Had a dream last night that I was the sperm donor for my best mates baby. So my brain thinks I’m cis now?!

Very weird to wake up from!

Isn’t “I miss hanging out in a scene where people make assumptions about people being cis or not based on their appearance” like the entire cis world as well, and not just the queer scene?

What I was reffering to was queers exclaiming that people are cis het and then using it as fuel as to why someone is a bad person or not cool. I have witnessed this frequently in real life and in online discussions, and it’s generally based on someone’s appearance alone.

I am unsure what you mean by the “cis world”. In my experience the vast majority of trans people exist in the actual world and not within a tiny queer scene

I miss the queer scene.

I miss hanging out in a scene where people make assumptions about someone’s sexuality based on their appearance

I miss hanging out in a scene where people make assumptions about people being cis or not based on their appearance

And most of all I miss having it decided what hobbies/interests are acceptable to be into

I miss being laughed at for having a hobby that’s not cool

Note. I do not miss any of these things. Queer scenes suck and not in the good way.

I honestly didn’t think I needed or wanted LGBT spaces anymore but last night I joined a gay football team and seriously oh my god what a revelation. I had no idea how much I needed that.

Just wanted to let you know that your blog gives me so much hope. I’m a bi trans guy with a major leaning towards men and I’ve always kinda wondered if that was internalized misogyny but seeing you living ur life kinda just makes me a little bit more ok with my sexuality

Aww thanks <3

Good to know it is still having a positive impact all these years later!

Wow

Was fully expecting all lower surgery posts to get censored but tumblr has also censored like 5 photos of my legs?!? And one that is literally just my belly.

Also pretty much all my chest surgery posts censored. Not sure what the new guidelines are exactly but wtf tumblr way to f*ck with the trans community.

@staff

oh legs, you are looking pretty good today.

This post has been flagged, wtf???

Today marks 7 years since chest surgery, here is a posey photo of me shirtless in my garden to celebrate.

#chest surgery #top surgery #ftm #trans man #transsexual #transgender

I’m having a bisexual renaissance and feeling pretty damn good about it to be honest, like yes I am attracted to women and that’s ok but it is highly unlikely I will ever be with one again given that I am in a monogamous relationship with two men but like yeah appreciating and acknowledging that part of my sexuality is good and important *thumbs up*

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I LOVE THIS SO MUCH. Jonathan Van Ness is a gender non conforming man. He’s not trans. He’s not “non binary”. He’s just a super feminine dude who owns it. Hopefully he continues to rock this with pride.

Representation is so important. Little GNC boys should see this and feel like they’re valid, and not that they have to be a woman since they like “women’s” fashion.

We talk about GNC women a lot, but I’m also SUPER HERE for GNC men (especially angels like Jonathan).

Honestly, with the constant push for every little boy who likes dresses or nail polish to be trans, this is so necessary and cool. 👏👏👏

Can we also talk about the fact that he fucking slays this look?

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Holy shit!!! Look at him!!

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You can be a feminine dude without being trans or some tumblr gender, guys. Being GNC is a thing.

This one hundred times

I love your dick so much. Which sounds so creepy but. As a ftm as well i just love it.

Aww nice I love my dick too

me, beating my brain with a stick: WHY CANT YOU JUST BE NORMAL WHY CANT YOU JUST BE NORMAL WHY CANT YOU JUST BE NORMAL WHY CANT YO

I keep seeing people on Instagram using the #transandproud tag and it makes me want to tag my photos as #transandNOTproud

And then I remind myself it’s not worth outing myself over a hashtag :’)

How did you get your metoidioplasty to become so prodominate ? Did it look less prodominate before your implants? Do you use a pump post op?

Haven’t used a pump post opNot really sure what you mean with the other question tbh

I'm sorry if this is too personal but where do you pee since you didn't have UL

From my original urethra which is now positioned just behind my balls

Did you include that you were trans in your Grindr profile? Also, did you get any bad reactions from people?

When I was on Grindr i would change it every month or so to say whether I was trans or not depending on how I was feeling. People asked some pretty obnoxious questions sometimes but nothing too offensive

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