Winter in Izmir // a post by Lauren
We've been experiencing an unusual cold spell here in Izmir, with temperatures dipping just below freezing. Yesterday even brought us a few flurries, much to the excitement of teachers and children alike (though not so many flurries in Izmir that my camera could capture them.)
Children in Turkey push their school bus through the snow.
I feel like the photo above sums up so many things I've experienced in Turkey.
I look at this photo and see the way young Turkish children embrace social physicality. Everyone is is everyone else's space all the time. During school hours, the children joyfully squeeze, punch, massage, and hold hands with one another whenever possible, and frequently run full speed through the campus.
I see the children in the photo imitating the passionate helpfulness of Turkish adults, an almost religious calling to use their resources to help someone temporarily in need.
I see the improvisational, unpredictable pace of decision-making, navigation, problem-solving. Chaos is an essential nutrient here. The salt of Turkey.
Sometimes scenarios like the one above are so different from the life I know in the States that they seem comical. I'd couldn't even conceive of children pushing a bus like this this back in New York! This everyone-for-his-own-safety approach in Turkey makes US safety standards look ridiculous, with its rubber-padded playgrounds, hand-railings, copious warning signs and general obsession with safety, especially when it comes to children.
Turkish kids manage to artfully avoid grievous injury while hanging out of windows, running on slippery surfaces in the rain, and sprinting full force against a stream of other wildly sprinting children. Their proprioception is truly incredible compared to typical US kids, a sense which must be enhanced by years of hopping down dimly-lit spiral staircases without hand railings, navigating construction sites that spill onto sidewalks without cones or other barriers, and so on.
And yet, on closer inspection, the lax safety standards are also distinctly unfunny. The article that accompanies this photo notes that a school bus crashed in the snow yesterday, killing a 9 year old and injuring 19 others. Seat belts are unpopular, and they are unusable in many taxi cabs here. Traffic laws are loosely obeyed at best. There's not a "safety culture," which breeds a greater degree of physical awareness, but at the expense of some terrible and preventable accidents.
Still, I wouldn't say that the US ethos is clearly better. The longer I stay here, the more countries I visit, the more impossible it becomes to make absolute judgements about which culture is closest to the utopian ideal.
I disliked the rigid, bell-oriented culture of high schools in the US, but I get very frustrated with how Turkish students ignore bells and continually arrive late to class. I love the overflowing warmth of students and colleagues in Turkey, and yet I long for the ability to speak more directly without fear of deeply offending someone.
Straddling more than one culture like this, seeing all of its best and worst parts in contrast to other countries I've visited, makes me question if I'll every be content to live in a single place again.