Lovebug

Professionally tired, habitually exhausted

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🩷 Hello! You can call me Lovebug or Firefly

🩷 She/her, they/them, and xe/xem/xyrs mainly

🩷 Bigender neutrois woman, aroace bi-lesbian

🩷 All other labels/pronouns here: pronouns.cc

💜 Physically disabled: fibromyalgia and lupus

💜 Psychiatrically disabled: MDD, GAD, OCD

💜 Developmentally disabled: ASD, PDA (pathological demand avoidance)

💜 I suffer from chronic fatigue and chronic pain, I’ll probably be inactive for long periods of time, I’ll just pop in to post what I make

🤍 OCD makes me really picky about colors and such, so I’ll never have much of a “stockpile”

🤍 Very busy irl!! I don’t plan on ever taking requests for both this and the previous reason

🤍 I don’t believe DNIs work. Endo neutral. If you’re radqueer or proship please don’t use my stuff, all I ask. Also absolutely no TransIDs. Do not use my labels or interact with my posts.

🤍 If I block you, I did it on purpose. Do not use alt accounts to see my posts. Do not contact me about a block if I have blocked you.

Friends with @love-yul :)

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I made flags for the four attachment styles! In order: secure attachment style, anxious attachment style, avoidant attachment style, disorganized attachment style.

I picked the colors for each flag based on association, not any official reference material.

Handshake heart symbol is by Artifex on Flaticon

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AUTONINECORA !

PT: Autoninecora! /END PT.

A -cora term for those who’s identity is autonine [link] at its core; it will always be autonine, should always be perceived as autonine, and cannot exist without being autonine !

Xcora [link] is coined by @sugar-sweet-fawnwife !

Tagging: @radiomogai, @cora-archive !

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Equanimique- A gender that is calm and muted. This gender is whole and still; present and assured. This gender is fundamentally unconnected to binary sex, gender, and gender expression, entirely distinct and independent. This gender can also fluctuate over time, and may be used in conjunction with other genders.

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Vaguen is a new presentation term to match Ambiguine and Androgyny

Definition: Vaguen means having a vague presentation or striving for vagueness in appearance- this can overlap with androgyny and ambiguity but is largely its own thing, mostly distinguished by presenting in some direction, though not entirely.

Example: A vaguen woman might present vaguely as a woman, but also have facial hair and bind her chest, adding an intentional level of vagueness to her perceived gender. A vaguen man might present vaguely as a man, but also wear his hair in feminine styles or wear breast plates, adding an intentional level of vagueness to his perceived gender. An enby may be vaguen and present somewhat feminine, while still visibly having mixed sex characteristics to purposefully push a vague perceived gender.

This term is intended to be up to interpretation of the user! These examples are just guides for those confused, not the end-all be-all for how to use this term.

For archival:

@presentation-labels @radiomogai

ask to be untagged and i will do so 🫶

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Oh and a note I forgot to put in my intro, I don’t have the spoons for image IDs. Anyone can feel free to reblog with alt text.

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Revolufem- Someone who is connected to femininity but defines it for themselves, outside of the binary gender construct built to oppress women and feminine people.

The suffix “Revolu” is taken from “Revolution”, signifying how revolufem people seek to end to the oppression of femininity. Rose pink and purple are both feminist colors, and I used them to represent the variety of experiences with misogyny and sexism that women and feminine people experience everyday. They also represent the strength and value in the lives of misogyny affected people, maintaining their value despite misogyny and sexism being normalized in modern society.

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Glassgender- A gender that feels glass-like, such as being reflective and delicate

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Misogynyace: When one’s asexuality is influenced by their experiences with misogyny. Anyone who has experienced misogyny and feels it impacts their asexual identity can use this label.

Purple, gold, and rose pink are all feminist colors- I used the purples to represent the wholeness of asexual people, and that the hypersexualization of women/femininity cannot taint or ruin any victim. I used the gold to represent the power and strength of misogyny-affected asexual people. The rose pink peace symbol represents the aim for true equality and equity for all people regardless of perceived gender, identified gender, or presented gender.

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Justrightian- When one’s gender and/or gender presentation is impacted by their just right OCD

First flag I ever made! Furthest teal and gold are color picked from an OCD flag, the gradient is meant to show the varying aspects of how just right OCD can affect gender.