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Fill your life with kindness, love & positive attitude.

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Don’t let someone else’s opinion of you become your reality

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Prove yourself to yourself not others.

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If the whole world was blind, how many people would you impress?

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Surround yourself with those who see greatness in you, even when you don’t see it in yourself.

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Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places.

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Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher.

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Always be kinder than you feel.

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You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

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Dear Sam,

First of all, please do not joke about committing suicide or romanticise dying. The people around you love you. I personally know someone who has committed suicide, therefore it not a joke and there is not anything beautiful about death. You may say, people love you after you die. But that is not the entire truth. Your mom who loves you dearly will be devastated and she will not be able to swallow the fact that you left her. How do you think she will continue her life with the guilt of not being there for you, for the rest of her life. That is worst than quick death. The only reason she is not free to talk to you is because she is working hard to save money for you to get proper education and succeed in life. You should not throw it all away. Sam, life will seem hard right now. But it does get better and you should be alive to see it.  You will never know until you start living. Living a life in contemplations with killing yourself is not living. Think about your dad? He loves you so much. He cares for you. He may not be able to express his love directly but I know deep down, you know it for yourself that he loves you. You have a life filled with love around you. Please don't throw it all away. Your life is precious. You are precious. 

You are not a nobody. You are loved. You are such a great person. You are kind. Please get rid of your suicidal thoughts. It is not okay to think that suicide is the only way to escape everything because it isn't. You can engage in activities that release your angst and frustrations. Every time, you feel like ending your life, think about the life your parents are going to lead without you. No, they will not be happier. The only child they had and invested so much love and time on, choose to end her life without a proper reason or closure will kill them each day. 

All your clothes, your room, your belonging, your memories will haunt them for the rest of their lives. How will they live without you? They need you as much as you need them. Talk to them, spend time with them. Love them, cherish them. Don't isolate yourself, Sam. Start living. Talk to me, tell me how is your life going. Share it with me. Alright? Take care, sam. 

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Dear Daisy,

I'm really sorry for what has happened to you. I truly believe that you do not deserve what you've went through the past years. However, this time, when you went back to him. That was the mistake itself. The scars he inflicted on you has already cut deep in you. When you constantly told him not to leave you, like he did previously, that was the sign that you did not trust him. The basis of a relationship is trust. If it has been severely damaged over the years, it gets to a point where its unfixable. Although, you tried to fix it, it just doesn't work out the way you want it to be. Sometimes, he's just isn't the one for you. Devastating, but it is the truth. We need to accept the fact that the relationship was dysfunctional from the beginning. I know you said that it might work out because of the fact that both of you have gained some sense of maturity over the years. But both of you are very different, at least from what I can tell from your point of view. The final time both of you got together into a relationship, was the final straw for him. He is clearly not suitable for the relationship when he talked about someone else he loved to you. I felt that he is still in love with that 'girl' and you just happened to be someone who was always there for him. Upsetting as it is, I want you to know that you tried, you tried multiple times. It is not your fault. It isn't. He caused you to be paranoid and uptight. It was his fault. You have all the reasons to be the way you are. If you can't let go and be less controlling, isn't it a signal to you that you clearly can't trust him the way you actually want to? 

Daisy, you do not need him. He was part of your teenage years for far too long. You have your life to continue. It is always hard to move on from someone. But it is down to you to take the leap of faith and tell yourself that it is about time you move on. You do not need him. He doesn't need you. You are worth it. If he isn't going to show you, your worth, he isn't the right person for you. No matter how many times you apologise or try to get in contact with him, the cycle repeats. Sometimes, you fall in love with the wrong person but it takes your entire self and beliefs to put yourself together to seek for the better life that is ahead of you. 

My advice for you, is to focus on yourself. Do you think you deserve all the pain he has put you through? Definitely not. Therefore, you should love yourself instead of seeking for love from someone who is not willing to give it to you. He isn't responding to you is because, well, my assumptions are that he is sick and tired of the relationship and he sees no point in fixing something that is beyond fixable. It's time, both of you moved on and I can tell that he did and he is happier. You need to be happier too, and you don't need him to be happy. Daisy, be appreciative with life, some boy in your life that broke your heart multiple times shouldn't alter your character and personality. That is up to you. You choose to be the person you want to be and not let a boy dictate that for you. Please daisy, try your best. Once again, it will be hard. Talk to me, often. I'll be there for you throughout this process. I believe, one day, his name will not have a bitter effect on you anymore. Stay strong.

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Useful Links

  International Help lines

Suicide National Suicide: 800-784-2433/800-442-6473

Eating Disorders: National Hopeline Network: 800-784-2433/800-422-4673

Stress/Anxiety Crisis Center: 800-273-8255 or text ANSWER to 839863

Depression/Bipolar Crisis Center: 800-273-8255 or text ANSWER to 839863 Support: 800-273-8255

Singapore helplines

SUICIDE PREVENTION & CRISIS HELPLINE SOS (Samaritans of Singapore) 1800 221 4444

ComCare hotline [phone]

WOMEN AWARE Sexual Assault Care Centre for rape and sexual assault 67790282 (10AM to midnight)

PREGNANCY & ABORTION BABES for pregnant teenagers  1800-TEENMOM (1800-833 6666)

National Pregnancy Helpline by Thye Hua Kwan Moral Society 1800-MUM-TO-BE (1800-6868623)

MIGRANT WORKERS HOME for men and women migrant workers 1800 7977 977

MENTAL HEALTH & ADDICTIONS IMH for psychiatric emergencies 6389 2222

Alcoholics Anonymous 6475 0890

Problem Gambling 1800-6-668-668

FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE ComCare hotline [phone]

ANIMAL & WILDLIFE SPCA for animal abuse and rescue 62875355 ext 9

ACRES for wildlife crime and rescue   [phone] (Hotline & Whatsapp)

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The +ve Project

Hi friend, this blog is dedicated to helping each other out. The blog was created to help anyone going through a tough time in life. If you're down, angry, lonely, upset, hopeless or feeling any negative emotions, I'm here for you. It can be about anything and everything and it does not matter who you are or wherever you are from. Remember, nothing makes you feel better than talking to someone about it. I've realised that most of us do not like opening up and talking about our issues to the people around us in fear of annoying them or feeling like they do not care. But that is not true, they may care for you, even if they don't... someone out there does. And that's when I step in, I'm here for you to talk to me. I'll try to give you my best advices but mainly, I'm here to be your listening ear. I want to help you out, I want you to reach to your fullest potential and I want you to be a happier person. Therefore, I'm here to inspire you to be a better person to accept love, kindness and a positive mindset towards life. Whenever you are feeling down, come on to this page. Rant to me - Here